Need some advice from you men

[mamba]

Let this be a lesson to you simps

Though she clearly had her reasons for doing it (hadn't had sex in years, and you probably picked a dude you were most attracted to) and it was only one person in a long ass time, she was shamed and called a slut in this thread by both males AND females . this is the risk chicks run when playing with their body. and females understand it too, they just don't keep it 100 when they're talking about themselves. once you don't respect yourself you enable disrespect from others as well.

I respect your honesty TS. You have to recognize the gamble with sex, when you let him hit (especially more than once) your body sends your brain signals to try to lock him down, especially if he already makes you feel good emotionally. even though you went in the situation knowing full well what you wanted. it happens, it's supposed to happen. if it doesn't happen, you've gone too far down the hoe path since the effect desensitizes with more partners

however you have to understand yourself and not let your emotions run wild and compel you to make rookie mistakes like these. learn how to stop yourself if your going on a emotional freefall. next time you're thinking of sending a type of text like the "im not a whore" type the draft and wait 10 mins before you send. that way you can cool off and read it again like

A lot of women who scream the "why can't we have fun like the mens" don't understand that biological fact. Those brain chemicals can be a motherfukker.

 

[mamba]

I meant treat the p*ssy like it's worth something.

Like I said, nothing wrong with just hooking up. Males and females can just fukk randomly, doesn't bother me. But no serious man would wife up a female who fukked him right away. Just how it is. Op is sad because she wanted a serious relationship after fukking during the first date.

SMH. These dumb bytches. Why would a nikka pay with his commitment when he's already slammed those guts for free. It's one of the reasons most people don't fukk with free trials. I always toss free trials into the bushes. They'll give it to you free and then fight like hell to lock you in once the trial period is up. fukk that shyt. That fine print can have you fukked up.

I'm not about to enjoy something for free and then pay full price for it. Women don't understand that simple concept. Correction: Yes they do. They just fail to apply it when it comes to their relationships.

 

[Cat piss martini]

you gave him some p*ssy on the 1st night.....
just like youre trippin off if he's fukkin another broad
he's thinking "am I special or is that hoe handing out
p*ssy" on the first day.
knock the "i'm a girl and were all sensitive bullshyt" off.
you playing big girl games with that p*ssy and you dont
seem mature enough to play in that arena.

 

[beanz]

SMH. These dumb bytches. Why would a nikka pay with his commitment when he's already slammed those guts for free. It's one of the reasons most people don't fukk with free trials. I always toss free trials into the bushes. They'll give it to you free and then fight like hell to lock you in once the trial period is up. fukk that shyt. That fine print can have you fukked up.

I'm not about to enjoy something for free and then pay full price for it. Women don't understand that simple concept. Correction: Yes they do. They just to apply it when it comes to their relationships.

great analogy

 

[4fossa]

So, you guys like when girls hold the puss for like months?


Nikkas be complaining about girls who date more than 3 times and still hold the puss.


Yet, complain about girls who have sex on the first date.

 

[DaChampIsHere]

Feel special and honored because a woman made the same decision wit you she makes wit everybody brehs

How do you factually know what anyone has done unless you are on some creepo stalker shyt? Are you saying that if a woman gives you no puss, that means she's honorable or something? How do you know that she just sees you as a simp that she don't wanna give p*ssy to while she's laid it out for 5 other guys?

Have p*ssy in your lap but rather prefer to spend your time making up imaginary, strictly guess-based theories about imaginary dikks brehs.

 

[mamba]

great analogy

nikkas rarely want to pay for shyt after they've enjoyed it for free. I've gotten tired of reading the fine print, so I just throw all "free trial" offers in the bushes.

 

[Still Benefited]

How do you factually know what anyone has done unless you are on some creepo stalker shyt? Are you saying that if a woman gives you no puss, that means she's honorable or something? How do you know that she just sees you as a simp that she don't wanna give p*ssy to while she's laid it out for 5 other guys?

Have p*ssy in your lap but rather prefer to spend your time making up imaginary, strictly guess-based theories about imaginary dikks brehs.

No but she will at least have managed to fool me for more than 24 hours...If they don't need a body to bring murder charges I don't need to know her backstory to think she a ho....If you givin it up first day you look guilty of not caring about ya p*ssy...And as much as what she did in the past matters,what she DIDNT do in the past don't matter,if she fukk me on the first day it just mean its her first day ho'in....nawl bytch you aint bout to start ya career off wit me...I feel like real women don't make exceptions even if you exceptional...And who said I wasn't fukkin?The ho label is for organization purposes so I know where to put em

Women know most men think like this and if they go through with it,obviously they don't care about they good name so why should we? Girl in OP sent dude a text explaining she not a ho cuz she KNEW what he was probaly thinking.

 

[DaChampIsHere]

No but she will at least have managed to fool me for more than 24 hours...If they don't need a body to bring murder charges I don't need to know her backstory to think she a ho....If you givin it up first day you look guilty of not caring about ya p*ssy...And as much as what she did in the past matters,what she DIDNT do in the past don't matter,if she fukk me on the first day it just mean its her first day ho'in....nawl bytch you aint bout to start ya career off wit me...I feel like real women don't make exceptions even if you exceptional...And who said I wasn't fukkin?The ho label is for organization purposes so I know where to put em
Women know most men think like this and if they go through with it,obviously they don't care about they good name so why should we? Girl in OP sent dude a text explaining she not a ho cuz she KNEW what he was probaly thinking.

Breh, Ion really know what your post has to do with my post. All I'm saying is that when I have p*ssy or when I am with a woman, I am not thinking about other men's dikks. I'm not saying that you have to stop thinking about other men's dikks. It's okay if you want to do that. I am just saying that I personally don't care to think about penises when I'm with a woman.

I'd prefer to just keep my thoughts to my dikk and her p*ssy.

 

[Still Benefited]

Breh, Ion really know what your post has to do with my post. All I'm saying is that when I have p*ssy or when I am with a woman, I am not thinking about other men's dikks. I'm not saying that you have to stop thinking about other men's dikks. It's okay if you want to do that. I am just saying that I personally don't care to think about penises when I'm with a woman.

I'd prefer to just keep my thoughts to my dikk and her p*ssy.

You the one doing all the talking about dikks,two post in a row nikka?...dikks never crossed my mind no matter how much you try to put ya gay thoughts on me...my post responded perfectly to your post,if you had no response just say so.

 

[Dameon Farrow]

thread is legendary...thecoli needed this switch up lol

 

[Dameon Farrow]

Broads like OP are exactly who nikkas were talking about in the single moms thread.

And yet no brigade to defend her honor this go round...

 

[mcdivit85]

Ok, so you meet a guy, go on a date and then have sex the same night.

You don't actually know this guy's intentions besides wanting to get sex as easily as possible, so you assume that he really likes you just because he called off work the next day. Which was most likely just to have more sex that day. I mean, if you had a choice between work and easy sex, which would you choose?

You realize how THOTish your actions are and then become insecure on some "are you just using me for sex" after you've allowed this dude to rearrange your womb in snap, crackle, pop fashion.

Dude tells you what you want to hear, so as to not mess up the "easy sex" reservoir that he believes he has in you. And you believe him, not because it makes sense, but because you want to. You want to believe he really likes you when he really just like the sex he got.

Dude then starts acting janky and stops responding yo your texts. And now you want to know if you've been played.

Answer: Yes, you have been played.....as you should have been. If you want smash on first dates and act like sex is no big deal to you, then you better be able to handle the consequences that come with that. The problem is, most women are not able to handle that even if their post-feminist jargon makes them think otherwise. Obviously, you thought having sex was no big deal but you thought wrong....most likely because you were thinking with your ego.

You know how they say the "friend zone" is the hardest thing to break? That's not true......the THOT ZONE is the hardest thing to break. When a man meets a woman, he puts her in 1 of 2 categories-GF/wife or THOT/slut. And if you fall into the THOT category, then its impossible to get out....amongst real dudes....only cupcakes will try to turn a ho into a housewife.

Also, he probably stopped texting you because his real chick or the chick that he really wants called/texted him. And as in all things, there is a hierarchy....THOTS are hit with the swerve when wifey comes around. It just is.

If you want to keep having on/off sex with dude, then don't take offense and keep replying when he decides to text. If you want to take the L, learn from the L and not be a THOT anymore, then delete his number and be better.

Peace

 

[mcdivit85]

I had sex with him the first night, because I wanted to. And because I hadn't had sex in years. I wasn't thinking I guess. I didn't start catching feelings until the next day.

Wow, the next day.....you really took things slow

Peace

 

[DaChampIsHere]

You the one doing all the talking about dikks,two post in a row nikka?...dikks never crossed my mind no matter how much you try to put ya gay thoughts on me...my post responded perfectly to your post,if you had no response just say so.

Well, if you are imagining that a woman has had sex with other men, you are thinking about what other dikks have been in her right? It's not like it's a topic of conversation between you two. It's just you speculating about where other men have been.

And no, your post didn't respond to anything in my post. My post is about REALITY. Your post is about SPECULATION. I could see if you said you asked her and she told you she did that all the time, but you literally just said that after you get some p*ssy, you think about other nikkas.

I am saying that you have to be thinking about other men here because the only other alternative is that you don't think you have enough personality, looks, etc. to make a woman want to have sex with you after a date. I did not want to insult your self image, but if you think a woman is a hoe for having sex with you, you can't see yourself as much of catch, correct? For her to be a "hoe" or whatever, you'd have to think you got over on her, played her, and are somehow not "worthy" of her p*ssy and that she's stupid for giving it up to you. Essentially, you put the p*ssy on a pedestal and put yourself below it.

Either those two things or you're reading "Think Like A Man" and on your Steve Harvey game.