Need some advice from you men

[Still Benefited]

I didn't want to touch on it too much, but this the only place I know where nikkas, basically, think it's weird and shameful that chicks wanna fukk them.

A woman wants to have sex with me on the first night, I applaud her for recognizing how great of a guy I am and for making the right decision and being quick on her feet. On the Coli though, a woman wanting to have sex with you means she's obviously disgusting so

Feel special and honored because a woman made the same decision wit you she makes wit everybody brehs

 

[Malcolmxxx_23]

Accept the fact that your just a roster filler

 

[aXiom]

Realized from the 3rd paragraph in that this bytch is highly unstable.

 

[skeetsinternal]

Good read

Your honest opinions are wanted.
This may be long

Okay so, I met a guy on okcupid. The day that we met, we had sex. That was what I planned on.
But instead of leaving right after, the guy wanted me to chill there. I ended up staying until about 2am. The next day, he called out of work, and we chilled again (he called out specifically so we could chill). Both days we spent a great deal talking. He kept talking about what he was going to do in the future, and including me in his plans. (Like telling me his plans for his birthday, and inviting me to go). And he also said he deleted his account on okcupid, since we met.
So that made me think it was going to be more than just sex.
So we talk/text just about everyday on the phone.
One day we'd made plans to hang out around 8. At like 6:30, he tells me that his daughter is going to come over, and he'll call me after she leaves. Now I should have just told him to hit me up the next day, because I was thinking his daughter wouldn't be at his house for only 2 hours or whatever. But I just said okay. By 11, I didn't hear from him, so I sent him a text letting him know I wasn't a whore. I said done thing about him (probably) fukking other girls. And then I told him I blocked him. I blocked him on my phone & on Instagram.
I'm very sensitive and seeing how we got together I felt insecure. Like if he had sex with me the first night, how many other girls was he meeting and fukking?
So 2 days later I unblocked him, and asked him if he was using me just for sex. Incredulously he said no, and said I shouldn't think that. He said the message I sent him was 'crazy', I said it wasn't because that is how I was feeling. We talked some more and he said he understood where I was coming from. He said he wasn't judging or complaining about me (having sex with him the 1st night). I asked him if he still wanted to talk to me, and he said yes. So we were good.
The next day (yesterday) we were texting, and we were making plans to hang out. But half way through the conversation, he just stops responding. It wasn't like we were arguing or anything, we were talking about where to hang out. That was last night at 6pm, I haven't heard from him since.
I text him at like 9, and said, 'if you didn't want to hang out with me all you had to do was just say so'. No response.
I don't know what to think.
Part of me thinks that he was chilling with (fukking) another girl, the other part of me thinks maybe he had his daughter again.

When we had sex, he kept talking about how good I was, and how tight and wet I was and things like that. So I would think he wouldn't miss the chance to have sex with me again.

I was so stressed last night, that I couldn't sleep, and I didn't eat dinner.

What do you guys think, and what should I do?

I READ THIS YESTERDAY AND DIDNT READ ANYONE'S COMMENTS AS YET BUDECIDED NOT TO COMMENT BUT I CHANGED MY MIND....

Couple things....first dude is a simp from how he went about interacting with you. Second, ma you are a hoe because only hoes "plan" sex the first time meeting, no offense.

I think you felt bad by the way he treated you nice afterwards at first. He should have smutted you out and bounced afterwards, I think you would have felt better if he did. Dude aint call you probably because he wised up on his own knowing he fukked some bird on the first night off okcupid or his peeps told him to wise up and stop the simp behavior.
As men we tell every chic their snatch is good only to make them feel good and hopefully get a chance to hit again. Dude will probably hit you up again once he is horny or if other chics is unable because he knows he can get some easy p*ssy from you

 

[tater]

I'm sorry but…


If you had to tell him you weren't a hoe, you already knew in the back of your mind that you were engaging in hoe activities…

Why would you block him and unblock him? You look bat shyt…

You knew you just wanted to have sex why even sit and chat? You should have just left.

If you've been waiting for years, it was obviously because of something and you wasted all that pent up sexual frustration on some internet guy?! Come on…save it for someone you care about.

DO NOT GO TO HIS HOUSE. That's SUPER nuts.

How old are you?

Hang in there…and keep your goodies in the jar.

 

[Turbulent]

This is a crazy-ass story, OP!

I'm really sorry you felt stressed and shyt. Sounds like this dude is super bad at communication. With that said, baby girl you messed up. Big time. There is so much wrong with this narrative. Let me break it down.

This nikka didn't call off work for you. He's either unemployed or he actually working later on and lied to you because he still wanted your company. Maybe he's lonely-- he sounds like it. He sounds like he was selling you a dream from the jump: calling off work for you , deleting his OK Cupid for you . You bought it all because as much as you fronted like you just wanted sex in the beginning, all your actions and thoughts in this post show how much you really wanted the man attached to the D because you're lonely, too.

That text you sent him was wild as fukk . Who does that? Crazy texts are for scorned 17-year-old hos. Real women ignore the shyt outta nikkas or ask straight up, direct, non-aggressive/non-passive-aggressive questions. You showed your crazy and likely drove him away. Moreover, how are you gonna claim you aren't a whore? I thought you didn't care? I'm pretty sure he wasn't thinking of you as a whore...he just really wasn't thinking of you.

Babe, I just want you to repeat after me: NO nikka CARES ABOUT HOW WET OR TIGHT I AM. NO nikka CARES ABOUT THE BODY ATTACHED TO THE VAG, MUCH LESS IF THEY MET THE BODY ON OKC. You mean nothing to this nikka and your mistake was making him mean anything more than dikk to you.


Anyway, hun. Don't take this the wrong way. I'm just trying to be real with you.

i usually don't fukk with your posts but i gotta give credit where credit is due

 

[Hacksaw Jim Thuggin]

Your honest opinions are wanted.
This may be long

Okay so, I met a guy on okcupid. The day that we met, we had sex. That was what I planned on.
But instead of leaving right after, the guy wanted me to chill there. I ended up staying until about 2am. The next day, he called out of work, and we chilled again (he called out specifically so we could chill). Both days we spent a great deal talking. He kept talking about what he was going to do in the future, and including me in his plans. (Like telling me his plans for his birthday, and inviting me to go). And he also said he deleted his account on okcupid, since we met.
So that made me think it was going to be more than just sex.
So we talk/text just about everyday on the phone.
One day we'd made plans to hang out around 8. At like 6:30, he tells me that his daughter is going to come over, and he'll call me after she leaves. Now I should have just told him to hit me up the next day, because I was thinking his daughter wouldn't be at his house for only 2 hours or whatever. But I just said okay. By 11, I didn't hear from him, so I sent him a text letting him know I wasn't a whore. I said done thing about him (probably) fukking other girls. And then I told him I blocked him. I blocked him on my phone & on Instagram.
I'm very sensitive and seeing how we got together I felt insecure. Like if he had sex with me the first night, how many other girls was he meeting and fukking?
So 2 days later I unblocked him, and asked him if he was using me just for sex. Incredulously he said no, and said I shouldn't think that. He said the message I sent him was 'crazy', I said it wasn't because that is how I was feeling. We talked some more and he said he understood where I was coming from. He said he wasn't judging or complaining about me (having sex with him the 1st night). I asked him if he still wanted to talk to me, and he said yes. So we were good.
The next day (yesterday) we were texting, and we were making plans to hang out. But half way through the conversation, he just stops responding. It wasn't like we were arguing or anything, we were talking about where to hang out. That was last night at 6pm, I haven't heard from him since.
I text him at like 9, and said, 'if you didn't want to hang out with me all you had to do was just say so'. No response.
I don't know what to think.
Part of me thinks that he was chilling with (fukking) another girl, the other part of me thinks maybe he had his daughter again.

When we had sex, he kept talking about how good I was, and how tight and wet I was and things like that. So I would think he wouldn't miss the chance to have sex with me again.

I was so stressed last night, that I couldn't sleep, and I didn't eat dinner.

What do you guys think, and what should I do?

im not gonna make fun of you...but this is a good learning situation....

dude just wanted to have sex....accept that...move on....and make better decisions in the future

 

[concise]

This is a crazy-ass story, OP!

I'm really sorry you felt stressed and shyt. Sounds like this dude is super bad at communication. With that said, baby girl you messed up. Big time. There is so much wrong with this narrative. Let me break it down.

This nikka didn't call off work for you. He's either unemployed or he actually working later on and lied to you because he still wanted your company. Maybe he's lonely-- he sounds like it. He sounds like he was selling you a dream from the jump: calling off work for you , deleting his OK Cupid for you . You bought it all because as much as you fronted like you just wanted sex in the beginning, all your actions and thoughts in this post show how much you really wanted the man attached to the D because you're lonely, too.

That text you sent him was wild as fukk . Who does that? Crazy texts are for scorned 17-year-old hos. Real women ignore the shyt outta nikkas or ask straight up, direct, non-aggressive/non-passive-aggressive questions. You showed your crazy and likely drove him away. Moreover, how are you gonna claim you aren't a whore? I thought you didn't care? I'm pretty sure he wasn't thinking of you as a whore...he just really wasn't thinking of you.

Babe, I just want you to repeat after me: NO nikka CARES ABOUT HOW WET OR TIGHT I AM. NO nikka CARES ABOUT THE BODY ATTACHED TO THE VAG, MUCH LESS IF THEY MET THE BODY ON OKC. You mean nothing to this nikka and your mistake was making him mean anything more than dikk to you.


Anyway, hun. Don't take this the wrong way. I'm just trying to be real with you.

oh snap, I didn't even notice that he called out of work in the story.

 

[mamba]

it happens, most of my one night stands came from POF. But I don't judge

Most of those slores on POF are desperate single mothers. So, this doesn't surprise me.

 

[Mass]

Ten pages of advice for a simple situation.

Yea ima sit this one out...

 

[360crazy]

Why would a guy with a future want to mess with a thot?

My brothers are continuing to fail every chance that they get smh.

Can't blame him or you though honestly. I guess in this quantum reality idiots like him and shameless women like you are bound to exist.

 

[Ohene]

did people really talk bad about the dude on the first page? This chick is whilin with them texts. If a girl down to smash I'm down to beat that p*ssy up until theres too many miles. But them texts? If he wouldve let that slide it was cauuse he had no other p*ssy on deck.

 

[Ohene]

tbh there are multiple reasons why he couldn't get back to you, blocking him just makes you sound unstable if it was me I would have cut you off and kim

thank you

 

[Stuntone]

He probably was really feeling you until you went off for no reason to him. Then you starting acting insecure about sex on the 1st date, that's a major turn off. It probably wasn't an issue with him until you made it one.

 

[Ohene]

I didn't want to touch on it too much, but this the only place I know where nikkas, basically, think it's weird and shameful that chicks wanna fukk them.

A woman wants to have sex with me on the first night, I applaud her for recognizing how great of a guy I am and for making the right decision and being quick on her feet. On the Coli though, a woman wanting to have sex with you means she's obviously disgusting so

It be the same nikka crying about bytches playing hard to get too