Need some advice from you men

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So you would respect and wife her if need be :sas2:

:pachaha: I didn't want to touch on it too much, but this the only place I know where nikkas, basically, think it's weird and shameful that chicks wanna fukk them. :pachaha:

A woman wants to have sex with me on the first night, I applaud her for recognizing how great of a guy I am and for making the right decision and being quick on her feet. On the Coli though, a woman wanting to have sex with you means she's obviously disgusting so :yeshrug:
 

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Ok friend you did alot of rambling here so let me get to the meat of your problem.

The day that we met, we had sex. That was what I planned on.

I haven't heard from him since.

This is very simple. Please stop degrading yourself and men will stop using you as a toilet for their demonic urges and treat you the way a human being deserves to be treated. You carried yourself like demonic filth and were basically treated in that fashion so you should never be surprised when disrespectful or degrading things happen. You should just take your L and keep it pushing, making yourself reborn in a more angelic manner so hopefully, god willing, the next man gives you the respect you feel you deserve. To be honest with you, friend, its difficult for men to respect a complete stranger that has given them sexual gratification, especially when this individual has some kind of expectations for their relationship.

Its so dmeonic, friend. :sitdown:
 

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:whoa: In fairness, dude sounds like a master of selling dreams, and this chick is whatever comes before novice. I mean this dude layed (what must've been) good dikk and started talking about a future, so her mind, body, and heart were all invested within only a few hours. It's just a rookie mistake, tbh. If one doesn't know the rules of the game, they have no chance of winning.

To OP, just relax. You might have gotten played or you might have played yourself by overreacting. It's hard to tell, but continuting to act like a chihuahua on meth is only gonna make things worse.

Like others have said, learn from the experience. Definitely don't have sex on the first night (there's about half a dozen reasons why this is a bad idea). Next time take the time to learn about a person and enjoy their presence. Anticipation is sometimes the best part of life. To quote myself: Do not rush to checkmate, but rather just enjoy the game of chess.

:tu:

I thought that's what I said, either way I agree with you she sounds young and it could be either or both of those things.
 

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the L is her catching feelings when she went into the situation KNOWING that it was 100% SEXUAL :smugmcnabb:


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I got the best advice -









:ufdup:Go talk to him about it. Not us. Ask straight questions that get to the point, no reading between the lines or grey area that you women love so much. And take his word for it, dont read into anything. If you ask a straight question and get anything other than a direct answer from a man, maybe he thinks you cant handle the truth.

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You think dude gonna be alone with her again after he knows she's crazy :rudy:

If he's smart he will never contact her again or if he does see her, makes sure it's out in public with plenty of witnesses and cameras....I wouldn't trust her alone :lupe:
 
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