Need some advice from you men

[Claudex]

I only blocked him because I didn't want to read what his response was.
I know it was stupid.

You lost your cool mah.
Scratch that one up, charge it to the game and keep it moving. Don't block him, and don't say anything else (least you make things worse), if he contacts you again make sure to start off on a good foot.

 

[mortuus est]

@Luciphen i respect your honesty

 

[Detroit Wave]

You gave up the p*ssy to a nikka u met on the net on day 1? :martincmon: take your L and keep it moving

 

[Still Benefited]

Don't worry he'll call you when he want some more puzzy,on the bright side if he don't that will teach you a lesson to never let ya puzzy get rusty and then be cocky enough to try it out on a complete stranger...No matter what happens you will never be wifeable,but eternally

 

[Detroit Wave]

Broads like OP are exactly who nikkas were talking about in the single moms thread.

 

[-G$-]

i forgot this is derek, carry on

 

[Raava]

I'll reply to what I remember.

I don't come from a fatherless home. My parents are married and have been so for over 25 years.

He isn't white. He's black.

To all yall calling me crazy, I told him the day we met that I was crazy!! So he was forewarned. He's lucky he doesn't have a car at the moment, cuz them windows would be all types of smashed.
He started laughing and said, 'yo I had sex with a psycho' then he asked me waft crazy things I've done, but I didn't tell him. Tell him so he could be prepared?!? Hell no.

I know I fukked up when I sent that message and blocked him. I shouldn't have, but I can't go back in time. I wish I could.

And yes I checked to see if his account was deleted, and it was.

Last thing I will say is something you said in your initial post. Don't think "good vagina" is going to keep a dude no matter hiw good he says it is.

 

[mortuus est]

lol nah u guys got to stop dissing her man, she just wanted her nut but shyt has got deep, i hope all is well for luciphen and that she takes this as a learning curve.

 

[Darts]

Lol this thread right here is a fascinating peak inside the female's mind and emotions.

• A few weeks ago OP was mad horny and made a thread asking for sites where she can meet and fukk...with no strings attached.
• She found a site and fukked the nikka the same night.
• Mission accomplished right? Nah, she somehow catches feelings and is now stressing over the nikka.

Women ...that's why we love y'all.

 

[Elle Driver]

Honestly you need to relax and you shouldn't be hooking up. You're not suited for it.

 

[Taadow]

c/s everything @Raul said except "seek counseling".

You just need to stick to da scrizzipt is all.

If you meant to just have him crack the seal, you shoulda just did that and skirted out bumpin' this chit here...

 

[RAX 010]

 

[The Odum of Ala Igbo]

Your honest opinions are wanted.
This may be long

Okay so, I met a guy on okcupid. The day that we met, we had sex. That was what I planned on.
But instead of leaving right after, the guy wanted me to chill there. I ended up staying until about 2am. The next day, he called out of work, and we chilled again (he called out specifically so we could chill). Both days we spent a great deal talking. He kept talking about what he was going to do in the future, and including me in his plans. (Like telling me his plans for his birthday, and inviting me to go). And he also said he deleted his account on okcupid, since we met.
So that made me think it was going to be more than just sex.
So we talk/text just about everyday on the phone.
One day we'd made plans to hang out around 8. At like 6:30, he tells me that his daughter is going to come over, and he'll call me after she leaves. Now I should have just told him to hit me up the next day, because I was thinking his daughter wouldn't be at his house for only 2 hours or whatever. But I just said okay. By 11, I didn't hear from him, so I sent him a text letting him know I wasn't a whore. I said done thing about him (probably) fukking other girls. And then I told him I blocked him. I blocked him on my phone & on Instagram.
I'm very sensitive and seeing how we got together I felt insecure. Like if he had sex with me the first night, how many other girls was he meeting and fukking?
So 2 days later I unblocked him, and asked him if he was using me just for sex. Incredulously he said no, and said I shouldn't think that. He said the message I sent him was 'crazy', I said it wasn't because that is how I was feeling. We talked some more and he said he understood where I was coming from. He said he wasn't judging or complaining about me (having sex with him the 1st night). I asked him if he still wanted to talk to me, and he said yes. So we were good.
The next day (yesterday) we were texting, and we were making plans to hang out. But half way through the conversation, he just stops responding. It wasn't like we were arguing or anything, we were talking about where to hang out. That was last night at 6pm, I haven't heard from him since.
I text him at like 9, and said, 'if you didn't want to hang out with me all you had to do was just say so'. No response.
I don't know what to think.
Part of me thinks that he was chilling with (fukking) another girl, the other part of me thinks maybe he had his daughter again.

When we had sex, he kept talking about how good I was, and how tight and wet I was and things like that. So I would think he wouldn't miss the chance to have sex with me again.

I was so stressed last night, that I couldn't sleep, and I didn't eat dinner.

What do you guys think, and what should I do?

Your first mistake was sleeping with a man on the first meeting. Men form perceptions of people real easy and you sleeping with him confirmed his darkest thoughts and desires

My advice for next time is to hold out for a month or two when dating someone to see if they're "okay". Also, didn't you plan to sleep with him? Both of y'all are at fault.

 

[concise]

Don't worry he'll call you when he want some more puzzy,on the bright side if he don't that will teach you a lesson to never let ya puzzy get rusty and then be cocky enough to try it out on a complete stranger..

 

[Chelsea Bridge]

If this girl goes to that guys place....



This should be a lesson for both men and women.

Women shouldn't put themselves in these positions because it usually results in them getting hurt and men shouldn't let women know where they live that early on because some chicks are crazy and won't go away just because they're being ignored.

Men also shouldn't play games but y'all dudes won't listen to that.