Need some advice from you men

[Fefe]

Your honest opinions are wanted.
This may be long

Okay so, I met a guy on okcupid. The day that we met, we had sex. That was what I planned on.
But instead of leaving right after, the guy wanted me to chill there. I ended up staying until about 2am. The next day, he called out of work, and we chilled again (he called out specifically so we could chill). Both days we spent a great deal talking. He kept talking about what he was going to do in the future, and including me in his plans. (Like telling me his plans for his birthday, and inviting me to go). And he also said he deleted his account on okcupid, since we met.
So that made me think it was going to be more than just sex.
So we talk/text just about everyday on the phone.
One day we'd made plans to hang out around 8. At like 6:30, he tells me that his daughter is going to come over, and he'll call me after she leaves. Now I should have just told him to hit me up the next day, because I was thinking his daughter wouldn't be at his house for only 2 hours or whatever. But I just said okay. By 11, I didn't hear from him, so I sent him a text letting him know I wasn't a whore. I said done thing about him (probably) fukking other girls. And then I told him I blocked him. I blocked him on my phone & on Instagram.
I'm very sensitive and seeing how we got together I felt insecure. Like if he had sex with me the first night, how many other girls was he meeting and fukking?
So 2 days later I unblocked him, and asked him if he was using me just for sex. Incredulously he said no, and said I shouldn't think that. He said the message I sent him was 'crazy', I said it wasn't because that is how I was feeling. We talked some more and he said he understood where I was coming from. He said he wasn't judging or complaining about me (having sex with him the 1st night). I asked him if he still wanted to talk to me, and he said yes. So we were good.
The next day (yesterday) we were texting, and we were making plans to hang out. But half way through the conversation, he just stops responding. It wasn't like we were arguing or anything, we were talking about where to hang out. That was last night at 6pm, I haven't heard from him since.
I text him at like 9, and said, 'if you didn't want to hang out with me all you had to do was just say so'. No response.
I don't know what to think.
Part of me thinks that he was chilling with (fukking) another girl, the other part of me thinks maybe he had his daughter again.

When we had sex, he kept talking about how good I was, and how tight and wet I was and things like that. So I would think he wouldn't miss the chance to have sex with me again.

I was so stressed last night, that I couldn't sleep, and I didn't eat dinner.

What do you guys think, and what should I do?

This is a crazy-ass story, OP!

I'm really sorry you felt stressed and shyt. Sounds like this dude is super bad at communication. With that said, baby girl you messed up. Big time. There is so much wrong with this narrative. Let me break it down.

This nikka didn't call off work for you. He's either unemployed or he actually working later on and lied to you because he still wanted your company. Maybe he's lonely-- he sounds like it. He sounds like he was selling you a dream from the jump: calling off work for you , deleting his OK Cupid for you . You bought it all because as much as you fronted like you just wanted sex in the beginning, all your actions and thoughts in this post show how much you really wanted the man attached to the D because you're lonely, too.

That text you sent him was wild as fukk . Who does that? Crazy texts are for scorned 17-year-old hos. Real women ignore the shyt outta nikkas or ask straight up, direct, non-aggressive/non-passive-aggressive questions. You showed your crazy and likely drove him away. Moreover, how are you gonna claim you aren't a whore? I thought you didn't care? I'm pretty sure he wasn't thinking of you as a whore...he just really wasn't thinking of you.

Babe, I just want you to repeat after me: NO nikka CARES ABOUT HOW WET OR TIGHT I AM. NO nikka CARES ABOUT THE BODY ATTACHED TO THE VAG, MUCH LESS IF THEY MET THE BODY ON OKC. You mean nothing to this nikka and your mistake was making him mean anything more than dikk to you.


Anyway, hun. Don't take this the wrong way. I'm just trying to be real with you.

 

[Formerly known as...]

Imma need yall to stop dropping game dammit... even though they still wont catch on

Haha,

There are too many, don't be fooled into thinking women don't have their typical lines to men though.

 

[Formerly known as...]

@Luciphen When you get hold of him or he contacts you, feel free to let us know his excuse so that we know which Chapter of the 'rules of playing a woman' he is on.

 

[MekaCatt]

I'm quite sure it's been said a few times, but you seriously overreacted. That breh probably thinks you're crazy. If that's how you react to something as minor as that, I'm sure he's imagining you're really going to act a fool over something serious and slash his tires. Plus he probably thinks you're going to end up being more of headache than he's looking for.

 

[Jone2three45]

You wanted to have sex,
And on the first meet up at that,
It shouldn't matter if he thinks positive or negative of you,
You got what you wanted.
And if he does think something of you,
It's too late.
You overreacting is not a saving grace.
You should have at least let him speak his mind before blocking him. That's making you look way worse doubled with you're sex on the first meet up incident.

 

[Commander in Chiefin]

I still have women that love me to this day based off similar game you received. Women fall in love from all the shyt other than sex, like chilling and talking.

You gave it up to quick in this instance!

I bet dude hits you with the 'My phone been acting crazy lately, just sorted a new one. Hows things?' txt

I've definitely used this line with a few different chicks

 

[Fun Sized Psycho]

I'll reply to what I remember.

I don't come from a fatherless home. My parents are married and have been so for over 25 years.

He isn't white. He's black.

To all yall calling me crazy, I told him the day we met that I was crazy!! So he was forewarned. He's lucky he doesn't have a car at the moment, cuz them windows would be all types of smashed.
He started laughing and said, 'yo I had sex with a psycho' then he asked me waft crazy things I've done, but I didn't tell him. Tell him so he could be prepared?!? Hell no.

I know I fukked up when I sent that message and blocked him. I shouldn't have, but I can't go back in time. I wish I could.

And yes I checked to see if his account was deleted, and it was.

 

[Formerly known as...]

I'll reply to what I remember.

I don't come from a fatherless home. My parents are married and have been so for over 25 years.

He isn't white. He's black.

To all yall calling me crazy, I told him the day we met that I was crazy!! So he was forewarned. He's lucky he doesn't have a car at the moment, cuz them windows would be all types of smashed.
He started laughing and said, 'yo I had sex with a psycho' then he asked me waft crazy things I've done, but I didn't tell him. Tell him so he could be prepared?!? Hell no.

I know I fukked up when I sent that message and blocked him. I shouldn't have, but I can't go back in time. I wish I could.

Girl got played. Confirmed!

 

[Commander in Chiefin]

Never fails, even better when you prepare them for it.

Date: Work been crazy lately, been working crazy hours

Hook up with next chick then come back to original with the:
'Had crazy amount of meetings, aint had time to do nothing in the evenings but get home and sleep, it's calming down now though, you good? when you free?

Breh, you tapping my phones and following me around. Been saying the same shyt to 3 broads off of tinder, the last few weeks

 

[Diondon]

Maybe you should have rubbed one out before you went on the date

 

[Formerly known as...]

Breh, you tapping my phones and following me around. Been saying the same shyt to 3 broads off of tinder, the last few weeks

It's so godly how it works.

 

[Mordith]

I'll reply to what I remember.

I don't come from a fatherless home. My parents are married and have been so for over 25 years.

He isn't white. He's black.

To all yall calling me crazy, I told him the day we met that I was crazy!! So he was forewarned. He's lucky he doesn't have a car at the moment, cuz them windows would be all types of smashed.
He started laughing and said, 'yo I had sex with a psycho' then he asked me waft crazy things I've done, but I didn't tell him. Tell him so he could be prepared?!? Hell no.

I know I fukked up when I sent that message and blocked him. I shouldn't have, but I can't go back in time. I wish I could.

And yes I checked to see if his account was deleted, and it was.

You have got to be .

Crazy broads are some of the biggest hoes there are....There's no way you could've gone years without having sex.....

 

[MekaCatt]

I'll reply to what I remember.

I don't come from a fatherless home. My parents are married and have been so for over 25 years.

He isn't white. He's black.

To all yall calling me crazy, I told him the day we met that I was crazy!! So he was forewarned. He's lucky he doesn't have a car at the moment, cuz them windows would be all types of smashed.
He started laughing and said, 'yo I had sex with a psycho' then he asked me waft crazy things I've done, but I didn't tell him. Tell him so he could be prepared?!? Hell no.

I know I fukked up when I sent that message and blocked him. I shouldn't have, but I can't go back in time. I wish I could.

And yes I checked to see if his account was deleted, and it was.

...... ok yeah that breh is gone.

 

[Jone2three45]

I'll reply to what I remember.

I don't come from a fatherless home. My parents are married and have been so for over 25 years.

He isn't white. He's black.

To all yall calling me crazy, I told him the day we met that I was crazy!! So he was forewarned. He's lucky he doesn't have a car at the moment, cuz them windows would be all types of smashed.
He started laughing and said, 'yo I had sex with a psycho' then he asked me waft crazy things I've done, but I didn't tell him. Tell him so he could be prepared?!? Hell no.

I know I fukked up when I sent that message and blocked him. I shouldn't have, but I can't go back in time. I wish I could.

And yes I checked to see if his account was deleted, and it was.

What kind of It's A Thin Line Between Love And Hate steeze are you on?

 

[KinksandCoils]

Da hell is this B.S? :dafuk: The first mistakes you made is sleeping with him when you just met him. It seems like you care about people based off of nothing or you care about him for no reason. While that man thinks it's cool for him to sleep with you the first night he most likely thinks you're a ho because he probably goes off of the double standards that we all know about.

He is playing you. He seems like the type of guy that is willing to talk to women have them chill but ultimately just want sex. Some guys will sleep with you and never talk to you again but he is not one of them. He wants to make sure you give it to him again.

Stop talking to him now because it seems like you have developed feelings to quick and it will only get worse. I don't think you can handle the friends with benefits thing like some women can. You are the relationship type.

He played you and you played yourself for thinking you only wanted sex.