Need some advice from you men

[DrX]

What do you guys think, and what should I do?[/QUOTE]
come on babe.....obviously hes not a good catch....im so anti simpin but fukk it, im gonna give u some game because i dont u to be scorned and too miss out on a man that really like u


sleeping w/ him on the 1st night wasnt the a great move but also its not a deal breaker for a mature dude....u blocking him that quick probably did give him the creeps tho...that was an hyper emotional response

A. either u seem "crazy" and "clingy" to him he dont wanna deal with

B. or he was using u forp*ssy and was willing to pull u on his roster , but since u got emotional he feel like it ins't worth it to smash u some more without trouble


both r smart from a player perceptive(kudos to him)


but from a "good guy " perceptive he wouldve followed through with yall plans and would stop flaking on u......im tired of typing but long story short...u can do much better.....and if u dont believe that ...u wont ever do better when it comes too men


dont mean too sound harsh, but grow a pair...sitting by the phone for that fool is pathetic...move on too a guy that will treat u w/ mutual respect

*cringes @ what i just typed....feeling simppy*

 

[DrX]

come on babe.....obviously hes not a good catch....im so anti simpin but fukk it, im gonna give u some game because i dont u to be scorned and too miss out on a man that really like u


sleeping w/ him on the 1st night wasnt the a great move but also its not a deal breaker for a mature dude....u blocking him that quick probably did give him the creeps tho...that was an hyper emotional response

A. either u seem "crazy" and "clingy" to him he dont wanna deal with

B. or he was using u forp*ssy and was willing to pull u on his roster , but since u got emotional he feel like it ins't worth it to smash u some more without trouble


both r smart from a player perceptive(kudos to him)


but from a "good guy " perceptive he wouldve followed through with yall plans and would stop flaking on u......im tired of typing but long story short...u can do much better.....and if u dont believe that ...u wont ever do better when it comes too men


dont mean too sound harsh, but grow a pair...sitting by the phone for that fool is pathetic...move on too a guy that will treat u w/ mutual respect

*cringes @ what i just typed....feeling simppy*

 

[lightbearerchef]

Never expected to read this from a female
But tbh u sound
A. Desperate
B. Got hit wit tha dope dic

I'd move on

 

[T-K-G]

@ the responses, to every who told OP she's just crazy

so many girls go through that same thought process OP did tho then wonder why nikkas smash and dash on em

@ anyone who tried to act like old dude was in the wrong, aint his fault she was immature/hyper-emotional about the whole thing

 

[360dagod]

YOU GOT HIT WITH THE DOPE dikk HA?

 

[thekyuke]

Your honest opinions are wanted.
This may be long

Okay so, I met a guy on okcupid. The day that we met, we had sex. That was what I planned on.
But instead of leaving right after, the guy wanted me to chill there. I ended up staying until about 2am. The next day, he called out of work, and we chilled again (he called out specifically so we could chill). Both days we spent a great deal talking. He kept talking about what he was going to do in the future, and including me in his plans. (Like telling me his plans for his birthday, and inviting me to go). And he also said he deleted his account on okcupid, since we met.
So that made me think it was going to be more than just sex.
So we talk/text just about everyday on the phone.
One day we'd made plans to hang out around 8. At like 6:30, he tells me that his daughter is going to come over, and he'll call me after she leaves. Now I should have just told him to hit me up the next day, because I was thinking his daughter wouldn't be at his house for only 2 hours or whatever. But I just said okay. By 11, I didn't hear from him, so I sent him a text letting him know I wasn't a whore. I said done thing about him (probably) fukking other girls. And then I told him I blocked him. I blocked him on my phone & on Instagram.
I'm very sensitive and seeing how we got together I felt insecure. Like if he had sex with me the first night, how many other girls was he meeting and fukking?
So 2 days later I unblocked him, and asked him if he was using me just for sex. Incredulously he said no, and said I shouldn't think that. He said the message I sent him was 'crazy', I said it wasn't because that is how I was feeling. We talked some more and he said he understood where I was coming from. He said he wasn't judging or complaining about me (having sex with him the 1st night). I asked him if he still wanted to talk to me, and he said yes. So we were good.
The next day (yesterday) we were texting, and we were making plans to hang out. But half way through the conversation, he just stops responding. It wasn't like we were arguing or anything, we were talking about where to hang out. That was last night at 6pm, I haven't heard from him since.
I text him at like 9, and said, 'if you didn't want to hang out with me all you had to do was just say so'. No response.
I don't know what to think.
Part of me thinks that he was chilling with (fukking) another girl, the other part of me thinks maybe he had his daughter again.

When we had sex, he kept talking about how good I was, and how tight and wet I was and things like that. So I would think he wouldn't miss the chance to have sex with me again.

I was so stressed last night, that I couldn't sleep, and I didn't eat dinner.

What do you guys think, and what should I do?

WHAT IN THE ACTUAL MUTHAFCUK DID I JUST READ??

 

[J Money]

Chick hasnt even replied back since the 1st page cos of how bad people were going in on her and 14 pages later people are still ethering her

Let her have some peace people damn lmao

 

[MooseMouthMthafuga]

Your honest opinions are wanted.
This may be long

Okay so, I met a guy on okcupid. The day that we met, we had sex. That was what I planned on.
But instead of leaving right after, the guy wanted me to chill there. I ended up staying until about 2am. The next day, he called out of work, and we chilled again (he called out specifically so we could chill). Both days we spent a great deal talking. He kept talking about what he was going to do in the future, and including me in his plans. (Like telling me his plans for his birthday, and inviting me to go). And he also said he deleted his account on okcupid, since we met.
So that made me think it was going to be more than just sex.
So we talk/text just about everyday on the phone.
One day we'd made plans to hang out around 8. At like 6:30, he tells me that his daughter is going to come over, and he'll call me after she leaves. Now I should have just told him to hit me up the next day, because I was thinking his daughter wouldn't be at his house for only 2 hours or whatever. But I just said okay. By 11, I didn't hear from him, so I sent him a text letting him know I wasn't a whore. I said done thing about him (probably) fukking other girls. And then I told him I blocked him. I blocked him on my phone & on Instagram.
I'm very sensitive and seeing how we got together I felt insecure. Like if he had sex with me the first night, how many other girls was he meeting and fukking?
So 2 days later I unblocked him, and asked him if he was using me just for sex. Incredulously he said no, and said I shouldn't think that. He said the message I sent him was 'crazy', I said it wasn't because that is how I was feeling. We talked some more and he said he understood where I was coming from. He said he wasn't judging or complaining about me (having sex with him the 1st night). I asked him if he still wanted to talk to me, and he said yes. So we were good.
The next day (yesterday) we were texting, and we were making plans to hang out. But half way through the conversation, he just stops responding. It wasn't like we were arguing or anything, we were talking about where to hang out. That was last night at 6pm, I haven't heard from him since.
I text him at like 9, and said, 'if you didn't want to hang out with me all you had to do was just say so'. No response.
I don't know what to think.
Part of me thinks that he was chilling with (fukking) another girl, the other part of me thinks maybe he had his daughter again.

When we had sex, he kept talking about how good I was, and how tight and wet I was and things like that. So I would think he wouldn't miss the chance to have sex with me again.

I was so stressed last night, that I couldn't sleep, and I didn't eat dinner.

What do you guys think, and what should I do?

That's a bold faced lie and most likely where you fukked up at.

It's deeply embedded in the male psyche to be skeptical of a chick who puts out on the first night.Anything to the contrary is just him telling you what he thinks you wanna hear.You're vulnerable/easy access p*ssy.He's just trying to stock up.

Chicks need to revamp the game.There's other ways to show a man that you like/appreciate him that don't involve sex.Bake that nikka a cake or something.

Females these days just throwing porno/no holes barred sex at nikkaz on the 1st night(not saying you, just in general.Got chicks out here doing anal & swallowing the second they come in contact with a nikka)

He's going to continue to come at you like a ding bob chick because you allowed him that easy access.Could be a half dozen more.Maybe whole dozens.Online dating makes it too easy.The best rat trap ever created

 

[Malcolmxxx_23]

Chick hasnt even replied back since the 1st page cos of how bad people were going in on her and 14 pages later people are still ethering her

Let her have some peace people damn lmao

She needs to hear the honest truth

 

[Real N Quotes]

charge it to the game and move on...we all take l's here and there




but never have sex with a dude on the first date ever again

 

[T-K-G]

Behave like a whore then get mad when treated like one brehettes

the amount of dudes in here sayin that ole boy was in the wrong is embarrassing idk if they think they were gettin some e-points from lying to this girl or what

 

[Sleepy Walker]

That's a bold faced lie and most likely where you fukked up at.

It's deeply embedded in the male psyche to be skeptical of a chick who puts out on the first night.Anything to the contrary is just him telling you what he thinks you wanna hear.You're vulnerable/easy access p*ssy.He's just trying to stock up.

Chicks need to revamp the game.There's other ways to show a man that you like/appreciate him that don't involve sex.Bake that nikka a cake or something.

Females these days just throwing porno/no holes barred sex at nikkaz on the 1st night(not saying you, just in general.Got chicks out here doing anal & swallowing the second they come in contact with a nikka)

He's going to continue to come at you like a ding bob chick because you allowed him that easy access.Could be a half dozen more.Maybe whole dozens.Online dating makes it too easy.The best rat trap ever created

 

[MooseMouthMthafuga]

It's a classy move

 

[ryshy]

Thats rly sad if hes playing you thats fukked up. Thats kinda why i wouldnt date online for the same reasons you said, whats the chance theyre up there meeting and fukking all types of ppl

 

[ryshy]

That's a bold faced lie and most likely where you fukked up at.

It's deeply embedded in the male psyche to be skeptical of a chick who puts out on the first night.Anything to the contrary is just him telling you what he thinks you wanna hear.You're vulnerable/easy access p*ssy.He's just trying to stock up.

Chicks need to revamp the game.There's other ways to show a man that you like/appreciate him that don't involve sex.Bake that nikka a cake or something.

Females these days just throwing porno/no holes barred sex at nikkaz on the 1st night(not saying you, just in general.Got chicks out here doing anal & swallowing the second they come in contact with a nikka)

He's going to continue to come at you like a ding bob chick because you allowed him that easy access.Could be a half dozen more.Maybe whole dozens.Online dating makes it too easy.The best rat trap ever created

Yet most dud3s bytch about women not throwin p*ssy at them