"nice guys aren't really nice" is a Cop out women use

[Solomon Caine]

Damn western society care too much about what women/girls think or want.

Its thug life baby, we don't cater to these hoes.

 

[Lo-Co]

i like being cool with everyone. i dont treat any person different than the other. ive never referred to myself nice. id rather let people say that. sometimes id do a little extra to get my foot in the door. but it was my fault for being too passive to even make a move. i remain too stagnant, i believe in myself, Yet at times i feel like what i have to offer isnt enough.

 

[The_Truth]

There's some truth to it, but MOST women who say this are just full of shyt.

"We don't like 'nice guys' because they're all undercover a$$holes. But honest a$$holes are great!"

Only a woman can think of something so stupid.

 

[Danny Up]

There's some truth to it, but MOST women who say this are just full of shyt.

"We don't like 'nice guys' because they're all undercover a$$holes. But honest a$$holes are great!"

Only a woman can think of something so stupid.

It's really not stupid. The problems come in when she starts feeling the honest a$$hole.

 

[The_Truth]

Interesting point.


A little side note: In my experience, people who are nice have no choice but to be nice because they have little else to offer in terms of intelligence, etc.

Maybe women should stop projecting their cynical beliefs on genuinely nice men.

 

[Dreamer]

Nice guys don't exist, especially online, i have neg rep for not agreeing I was a tranny, and when I said i was in a wheelchair they said i was lying about that too lol, It's taken me many years to understand what "nice guys" were, and they are in disney movies

let the neg begin with im a ho faq etc, just proving the point idm

Women create men, if you have so much anger towards them just remember they are part of the reason you're here to have that opinion in the first place.

 

[philmonroe]

Nice guys don't exist, especially online, i have neg rep for not agreeing I was a tranny, and when I said i was in a wheelchair they said i was lying about that too lol, It's taken me many years to understand what "nice guys" were, and they are in disney movies

let the neg begin with im a ho faq etc, just proving the point idm

Women create men, if you have so much anger towards them just remember they are part of the reason you're here to have that opinion in the first place.

You probably getting negged for saying stupid shyt like bold. Without sperm no woman creating shyt period. It takes two to make a human y'all just do the heavy lifting lol

 

[Dreamer]

You probably getting negged for saying stupid shyt like bold. Without sperm no woman creating shyt period. It takes two to make a human y'all just do the heavy lifting lol

And you're dumb for not reading the whole sentence YOU just bolded lol, are a part?

 

[Dreamer]

You probably getting negged for saying stupid shyt like bold. Without sperm no woman creating shyt period. It takes two to make a human y'all just do the heavy lifting lol

also alllllll my neg was for claiming i wasn't a transvestite trying to "catfish" people I have never spoken to, because I signed in thru fb and my fb pic is on my profile

men are nice though lol

 

[philmonroe]

And you're dumb for not reading the whole sentence YOU just bolded lol, are a part?

Grasp for whatever straws you must to feel better you understand what I'm getting at unless you want to play obtuse

 

[Dreamer]

So "grasping at straws" is proving u wrong or reaching into ur pants? lol i kid

Idk what to say this is obvious women trollin hate thread i'm out, wallow away..

 

[PartyHeart]

Are these same guys turning around and complaining about being put in the friendzone? I am generalizing to the majority of guys. A small minority of guys get the p*ssy and do the leading on. Then again another poster (@PartyHeart) tells me that men don't need to lie because women are all good with casual sex because it's easier and are more cautious about who they will mess with long term because it's harder.

I never said that

My point isn't even hard to understand and a couple of other posters have understood it and echoed similarly in their posts. But whatever, you guys can continue to believe all/most women just want men who treat them horribly and the only reason "nice guys" can't get relationships is because they're just too nice. I can't force anyone to not believe nonsense just so that they never have to self examine. I can't force anyone to not believe nonsense so they don't feel bad about the poor way they treat the opposite sex.

 

[The Devil's Advocate]

Nah. Not always. Sometimes nice guys aren't nice. I got two homeboys who always swear they can simp their way into p*ssy. Then they come out looking extra creep when they show out acting like ol girl owes them sex. I'd rather be upfront with my intentions and get a yes/no than try to be a "nice guy" and look like a bigger fool if home girl shuts that shyt down.

I agree with everything else you said though.

it's funny women have no problem being with a fake ass thug or a fake ass hustler tho


and them dudes aren't nice guys... they are a$$holes PRETENDING to be ones.. what it sounds like me, is women are horrible judges of character.. they can't tell a real nice man, from a fake nice nikka, from a real goon nikka, to a fake thug nikka... they just jump from person to person, getting hurt.. never learning the lesson from the last relationship... or go the other extreme which is ALL nikkas ain't shyt



meanwhile a nikka can pick out a hoe from across the club in dim lighting with his shades on

 

[Still Benefited]

The thing that you are missing is that for many guys casual flings are just as difficult. When making comparisons across genders you must account for the different value systems. Sure getting sex is easy and requires no effort and doesn't have a bunch of factors for a woman but for man that's not 6'2 or rich or doesn't have the gift of gab or a lot of confidence/self-worth, it's just as hard to get as a relationship. As a matter of fact it's even harder to get than a relationship. The friendzone has all of the qualities of a relationship minus sex and exclusivity. Most guys have no problem getting into the friendzone and maintaining an intimate, supportive relationship with no sex. If the guy was having flings with these chicks then he wouldn't be taking L's.

The fact is he's trying to get into a relationship (something most females say they want) and he 's getting rejected constantly while his friend who gives no fukks and is all about the p*ssy (something most females say they don't want) is getting all the p*ssy he can stand. From an objective and logical place this does not add up. Just by pure probability, a guy in pursuit of a relationship should be more successful than a guy who just wants to fukk, if women are being real that is. I never hear women complaining about how they can't get dikk or can't find an a$$hole that doesn't care. Women complain about men being shytty and not wanting to commit. There are plenty of women in relationships with shytty dudes who don't want to commit. Thusly, you would think that a guy who as all about being good to women and committing would have some level of success. Now I am not saying that females should get with him just because he's nice or that he deserves anything other than what he's getting. I am just saying if you go by what is said by women and pure probability something isn't adding up.

Good post,yeah I'm not sure why people are quick to assume a nice guy couldn't be fed up and decide to be the "a$$hole".....At that point he's a nice guy being a fake a$$hole imo....Does taking on the a$$hole role disqualify him from being nice?Chances are he will fall back into nice guy mode quickly because he's a phony a$$hole

Good girls can go bad,nice guys can too is how I see it....Sure there are good girls and nice guys who make NO exceptions and will never change themselves....But if you have been taken advange of,whether you put yourself in the situation or you feel like you were mislead. If that shyt keeps on happening some people have a breaking point where they will put on a "act" or a "camoflauge" to protect themselves and so they don't get hurt,or so they can eat

Being that they are truly nice they will likely end up destroying themselves because of the new phony persona of "bad girl" or "a$$hole"....Think you gotta take it on a case by case basis.

 

[StickStickly]

It really isn't. When I was a "nice guy" I was just really naive to what women wanted and how to align that with what I wanted, but my ultimate objective was to get laid like everyone else. It ain't until I learn to be who I am but use my nice guy angle the correct way that I started getting laid with the women I actually wanted. In truth everyone is a selfish a$$hole in some form or manner.

That's the thing. Women think if you want sex than your ulterior motives aren't really "nice".

Still confident nice guys >>>>>>>>bad boys