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Maybe nice guys should date nice girls lol
"nice guys aren't really nice" is a Cop out women use
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SouthernBelle
#Feyonce
So when the girl at the cafe gives you an extra muffin or the girl at the office offers favors to help you, but stops after a while when she sees you aren't feeling her back, was she being "fake nice" too
yep.
it's funny women have no problem being with a fake ass thug or a fake ass hustler tho
and them dudes aren't nice guys... they are a$$holes PRETENDING to be ones.. what it sounds like me, is women are horrible judges of character.. they can't tell a real nice man, from a fake nice nikka, from a real goon nikka, to a fake thug nikka... they just jump from person to person, getting hurt.. never learning the lesson from the last relationship... or go the other extreme which is ALL nikkas ain't shyt
meanwhile a nikka can pick out a hoe from across the club in dim lighting with his shades on
hit it right on the head
I personally have never gone for the thug gang type. Not that I have a problem with that lifestyle it's just not for me. All people can be a bad judge of character, that's because some people men and women are liars and play that role until they get what they want from you.it's funny women have no problem being with a fake ass thug or a fake ass hustler tho
and them dudes aren't nice guys... they are a$$holes PRETENDING to be ones.. what it sounds like me, is women are horrible judges of character.. they can't tell a real nice man, from a fake nice nikka, from a real goon nikka, to a fake thug nikka... they just jump from person to person, getting hurt.. never learning the lesson from the last relationship... or go the other extreme which is ALL nikkas ain't shyt
meanwhile a nikka can pick out a hoe from across the club in dim lighting with his shades on
But that's why everyone should take a stdp back after a couple of dates and actually evaluate the situation and person before you get your feelings involved, imo by then you can tell the other persona values intention etc, and see if its worth taking a chance
The Devil's Advocate
Call me Dad
this and our other convo.. you seem like a real woman for real...
more people should think about who they really dating.. and not the dream of the person they wish they were dating
I can say personally i've stayed with people too long, after I found out how they really are, just hoping for the best because it always seems perfect at first and you're like it can again
but its just wishful thinking, I've had 3 serious boyfriends my whole life because it's hard to open your heart to people, so why think it wi be different with the next guy
But you can't think that way, it's hard for me to move on, it's hard for everyone to move on once your hearts involved, but life is so short you should enjoy it with someone who loves you for who you are, not on the outside like clothes cars money etc
when you are truly in love and truly happy with your bf/gf husband or wife nothing else matters
I'm single now but if people ask me if I have a boyfriend i always say yes, because I'm not ready to invest into anyone atm, and I know sometimes people take that the wrong way, in reality they should appreciate the honesty, people who aren't ready hurt other people, and alas the cycle continues
oh and don't call me a real woman you will get neg from angry people like i did lol
The Devil's Advocate
Call me Dad
REAL WOMAN lol.. i don't give a fukk about my reputation on a website
but yea... maybe you are good judges, you just choose to ignore it.. cause i see women daily who KNOW their man cheats, but lie to themselves about it... same with abuse.. it's like they can never tell the signs of a not shyt dude... when other men are in their ear from jump... nah don't fukk with him, i can tell he ain't worth shyt
but dudes usually know off top... look at her, she a hoe... hours later,... i told you!! i just smashed in one night.. maybe it's y'all style of dress where you can have a hoe outfit or a hoe makeup look or whatever.... just seems the signs are easier to read with women
but i agree fully.. once those feelings get involved.. it's a wrap for ANY logic on who that person is... you always they will change or you can change them or maybe they just tripping and gonna get back to who they first were
nah
philmonroe
Superstar
Suck a donkey dikk with the victim shyt. I also didn't leave a hateful message stop fukking lying. You do know people can read what I wrote stupid on the neg and learn how to @ people too moron.
well that's the problem with women, it's hammered into our brains at a young age, we dream of ballgowns and princes etc, and I think some just hold onto that, that he's my prince he "loves me"REAL WOMAN lol.. i don't give a fukk about my reputation on a website
but yea... maybe you are good judges, you just choose to ignore it.. cause i see women daily who KNOW their man cheats, but lie to themselves about it... same with abuse.. it's like they can never tell the signs of a not shyt dude... when other men are in their ear from jump... nah don't fukk with him, i can tell he ain't worth shyt
but dudes usually know off top... look at her, she a hoe... hours later,... i told you!! i just smashed in one night.. maybe it's y'all style of dress where you can have a hoe outfit or a hoe makeup look or whatever.... just seems the signs are easier to read with women
but i agree fully.. once those feelings get involved.. it's a wrap for ANY logic on who that person is... you always they will change or you can change them or maybe they just tripping and gonna get back to who they first were
nah
I've stYed with people to long but i think the main reason we do is because we seriously believe in them, even the people who betray you, like theres always hope
At some point it's too much and just ugh these years i wasted nooooooo, oh well you have to kinda take it on the chin like yes 3 years lost but are you gonna make it 3 years and a day?
no I didn't know sorry just joined Saturday, I didn't play a victim, but i guess it's hard to read sarcasm through type
I would never cry over anything you could ever type to me, you are words typed on a forum, feel better?
umm...lol.....let me make my posts more clearer...
i'm waiting until marriage to engage in intercourse
that's just what i want with a man...that is what's real to me...true love is what's real to me..
guys who thumb down/neg rep etc usually have feminine qualities
U Wont be having sex anytime soon
WaveCapsByOscorp™
2021 Grammy Award Winner
it's true sometimes though, when you treat people nice for personal motivations, that's not being nice for the sake of. how can you trust a person that treats you well only for their advantage? that's not to say those women aren't copping out but i know there's truth behind that idea...