"nice guys aren't really nice" is a Cop out women use

[thirdeye]

so then nice girls are only nice for material things. You don't get her what she wants and she acts like a miserable bytch.

See how this game works?

Pardon me? Because I didn't want to rush into a relationship with a self-proclaimed nice guy, he called me a whore and a slut.
So I should've rushed into a relationship with the nice guy, right?
I don't need material shyt from a guy, that's why I work for ME to buy MYSELF those things. Get the hell out of here.

 

[Remote]

Pardon me? Because I didn't want to rush into a relationship with a self-proclaimed nice guy, he called me a whore and a slut.
So I should've rushed into a relationship with the nice guy, right?
I don't need material shyt from a guy, that's why I work for ME to buy MYSELF those things. Get the hell out of here.

You're connecting men being nice with going after p*ssy.

If that's the game you wanna play then people can equally connect women being nice with going after material.

This idea that men are by nature NOT nice unless it's for p*ssy is fukking insulting and flat out bullshyt.

 

[thirdeye]

You're connecting men being nice with going after p*ssy.

If that's the game you wanna play then people can equally connect women being nice with going after material.

This idea that men are by nature NOT nice unless it's for p*ssy is fukking insulting and flat out bullshyt.

 

[Remote]

And that fellas is how women admit they're wrong

 

[Arishok]

You're connecting men being nice with going after p*ssy.

If that's the game you wanna play then people can equally connect women being nice with going after material.

This idea that men are by nature NOT nice unless it's for p*ssy is fukking insulting and flat out bullshyt.

Some men ARE nice just for p*ssy though


There are dudes who are naturally nice but again not all.

 

[The Mad Titan]

This might go places

 

[Remote]

Some men ARE nice just for p*ssy though


There are dudes who are naturally nice but again not all.

Sure. Some.
But women on the coli have habitually condemned all so-called "nice guys"

But let's be honest. If nice guys are frauds because they're just after p*ssy, then what are bad boys? Because they're after p*ssy too.

And if we men are all just after p*ssy, nice guys or not...then the whole fukkin thing of "nice guys aren't nice" loses all its meaning

 

[No_bammer_weed]

lol....a lot of you niccas seem to define "being nice" with how infrequently one gets laid (the "nicer" you are the less you get laid), and in conjunction how frequently you can attack women because of it ("nice" guys irrationally blame a whole gender for their own inadequacies I suppose). Being a nice guy with respect for all is not mutually exclusive with having success with women, no matter how desperately some of y'all want this to be a social reality.

 

[Arishok]

Sure. Some.
But women on the coli have habitually condemned all so-called "nice guys"

But let's be honest. If nice guys are frauds because they're just after p*ssy, then what are bad boys? Because they're after p*ssy too.

And if we men are all just after p*ssy, nice guys or not...then the whole fukkin thing of "nice guys aren't nice" loses all its meaning

I can't argue with sentiments I don't believe though.

Some dudes are a$$holes because they think that'll give them p*ssy and some dudes are naturally a$$holes. Same goes for the reverse

 

[QuintessentialBM]

You guys really need some new material....

Stop giving fukks about what a lot of these women(who typically aren't shyt to begin with) that character assassinate decent, non-destructive men say. Let em say and do whatever they feel. In the meantime, your focus should be on whatever you got going on in your life..., and if you don't have anything, then get something.

 

[BaggerofTea]

Let's face it, most "nice guy" are nice in action only and not mindset.

They are nice for a lay but not for the woman

 

[Diondon]

I'm an a$$hole that dresses nice and has his shyt together

 

[MooseMouthMthafuga]

do you think Elliott rogers was a nice guy?

There's some questions to whether that was real or not.

Gun control/gender divide/racial tension propaganda is running rampant right now

 

[The Mad Titan]

Being nice sucks, I'm a nice guy. Not as nice or I should say a sucker like I was for a while growing up, I didn't expect to get the puss off just being a nice guy. But I did expect for the feelings I showed be reciprocated to a certain extent. This went for men and women. No homo



Being nice sucks until you find someone that is nice just like yourself or can really appreciate your kindness and not try and take advantage of it. I'm a loyal, self sacrificing, legit nice dude. I can say that with full confidence. I have my flaws, I'm mad stubborn, and Kind of lazy from time to time.... but I'm nice to both males and females. Its really easy to figure out if a man is a nice guy or just a super simp or "nice guy in disguise" Just watch how he interacts around other men and his male friends.

If he's still that really nice guy when dealing with other men you should probably scoop him up. (If you really want a nice guy that is)



Over all I agree with OP, I've dealt with many many women most of which I had zero interest an that thought I was too nice in a manner of so many words. I've had female co-workers tell me "I'd run all over you" lol ok...If that's what they want to believe... Only to get mildly aroused when I got upset over something or put them or someone else in there place. Its really crazy, I don't know why women assume nice dudes are hoes or soft.

 

[wet landscapes]

You're connecting men being nice with going after p*ssy.

If that's the game you wanna play then people can equally connect women being nice with going after material.

This idea that men are by nature NOT nice unless it's for p*ssy is fukking insulting and flat out bullshyt.

cmon breh
men will tell you that they cannot have platonic friendships with women
this certain group of guys will approach women in an asexual manner to intentionally make the women feel more comfortable around them as if sex is not involved with the expectation that sex will be involved
if a guy doesn't do all that then he's a friend. If he does, then he's a "nice guy".