"nice guys aren't really nice" is a Cop out women use

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WRONG.

When a guy calls himself a nice guy, he's only a nice guy for the vagina, you reject him...he's an a$$hole that can't deal with rejection.
Nice guys do nice guy things. They don't say they do nice guy things.

Some men ARE nice just for p*ssy though :heh:

Then they are not nice guys.

Simple as that.

I can call myself Michael Jordan and yet everybody will tell me that im not because Im not MJ

Do the same thing with men who call themselves nice guys who arent really nice and stop calling them nice guys.
 

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Then they are not nice guys.

Simple as that.

I can call myself Michael Jordan and yet everybody will tell me that im not because Im not MJ

Do the same thing with men who call themselves nice guys who arent really nice and stop calling them nice guys.
I agree but that doesn't stop them from using the nice guy label.
 

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Plenty of dudes use the nice guy front. They basically simp extra hard and play the role because they believe that's what a woman would want, then when they get the p*ssy they flip it up. Females can do the same. My ex seemed like a super nice girl because she would put on the act around my family or out in public of her being so sweet and had them questioning why I wouldn't marry her when behind closed doors she was a bytch.

But it's bullshyt to front and act like there aren't legitimate nice guys and girls out there.
 

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It really isn't. When I was a "nice guy" I was just really naive to what women wanted and how to align that with what I wanted, but my ultimate objective was to get laid like everyone else. It ain't until I learn to be who I am but use my nice guy angle the correct way that I started getting laid with the women I actually wanted. In truth everyone is a selfish a$$hole in some form or manner.

Allathis.
 

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there's a difference between a man being nice and a man being a pushover.

A lot of women today like to twist shyt so that if she shuts him down romantically and he shifts his energy and attention to someone else, then he's somehow a fraud.

It's typical female deflection.

Pardon my language but, bytch please.

Edit - I'm not out to attack all women but some women like this do exist. That's all I'm saying.


There's also a difference between a man being nice and a "Nice Guy"

"Nice Guys" are only nice when they think it's going to lead to a relationship/sex

"Nice Guys" blubber and whine when their passive-aggressive ways flop, since they feel that they deserve sex for being "nice." You'll see them crying about "thugs" and "bad boys." You'll also see them insult the woman/women that rejected them, proving that being nice was just a means to an end
 

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Women just need to pick good men and we wouldn't have the rampant scurge of single mothers with fatherless kids:yeshrug:
What's fukked up is some of my females friends have ended up with actual nice guys and dumped them because of it. I can't tell you how many times I've heard "there was no drama" or "he treated me too good and it made me feel weird" and then in the next breath bytch about how they can't find a good man.
 

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There's also a difference between a man being nice and a "Nice Guy"

"Nice Guys" are only nice when they think it's going to lead to a relationship/sex

"Nice Guys" blubber and whine when their passive-aggressive ways flop, since they feel that they deserve sex for being "nice." You'll see them crying about "thugs" and "bad boys." You'll also see them insult the woman/women that rejected them, proving that being nice was just a means to an end
Then they are fake nice guys and not nice guys.

You guys talk as if no nice guys exist lol.
 
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Women don't like nice men. I have a buddy who's a legitimately good dude who just wants a relationship. He meets these women and puts in time getting to know them. He doesn't want sex he actually wants a relationship... Yet he's constantly taking L's....

I on the other hand am an a$$hole who has no interest in dating and I do just fine for myself. I don't even put effort in majority of the time and things tend to go in my favor. Women love to bytch to nice guys and claim there are no good men... The problem is they hate good men because they'd rather have the excitement factor than a good dude who treats them well
 

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There's also a difference between a man being nice and a "Nice Guy"

"Nice Guys" are only nice when they think it's going to lead to a relationship/sex

"Nice Guys" blubber and whine when their passive-aggressive ways flop, since they feel that they deserve sex for being "nice." You'll see them crying about "thugs" and "bad boys." You'll also see them insult the woman/women that rejected them, proving that being nice was just a means to an end

Yeah pretty much :ld:
Also, its usually nikkas that refuse to learn game
 
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