Nice guys are frauds because they're acting as if they are in the relationship to be a friend, and not actually for sex.Sure. Some.
But women on the coli have habitually condemned all so-called "nice guys"
But let's be honest. If nice guys are frauds because they're just after p*ssy, then what are bad boys? Because they're after p*ssy too.
And if we men are all just after p*ssy, nice guys or not...then the whole fukkin thing of "nice guys aren't nice" loses all its meaning
Basically this. If you're nice and attractive, I'll probably be interested. But if you're not attractive to me no amount of niceness is going to get you in.
It doesn't help their cause that a lot of "Nice Guys" have some kind of strike against them as far as physical attractiveness goes (fat, short, big head, etc.) and they're often socially awkward/retarded with low self confidence. It's like a perfect storm of flaws that just happen to make that particular human an undesirable person regardless of how "nice" they treat women. They'd strike out playing an a$$hole/thug role too b/c the problem is THEM.
Just gotta fix ya self and try again.
ETA:
Yes.
.I think back in the day she was in the "fast lane"
and tell him he looked like a Mexican....He has a brother, but his brother is Tyrese dark.He told me his mom and his uncles used to tell him his brother was going to take all his girls because he was too "soft" and "pretty".
If you call yourself a nice guy you're not a nice guy.
If you call yourself respectful you're not respectful.
If you call yourself sensible you're not sensible.
These mufukkas on the coli today basically are saying that anything you proclaim about yourself is bullshyt.
It's a bunch of "physically attractive" guys who're are plagued by those issues, also.They get p*ssy by accident(because they're attractive to females), but they can't keep a chick around more than 30 days.
But I guess that's a better problem to have than the "non attractive" nice guy.
One of my boys is like that.NH, but first glance, you'd probably go "I bet that nikka's getting MAJOR p*ssy".....then you get to know him and you realize his self esteem is
In my boys case, his moms fukked him up.She's a dark skinned/pro black/afrocentric chick, but his mom somehow had a baby with a white man and produced him
But anyways....He told me he always felt like his mom resented him for being light skinned.He said his mom would look at him like
Normally it's the other way around in black families(the dysfunctional black families).The put the light skinned people on a pedestal and diss the dark skinned ones.
My boy got caught up in the reverse.Being a light skinned nikka in a extremely afrocentric/pro black family
if I'm not the kind of guy that my mom and sisters is always mad at, women won't have a reason to treat me like my mom and sisters do!" 
nope. got used up and fukked over countless times, watched my girlfriends get took by nikkas that let them wear gold chains, male strippers, rich nikkas and nikkas that agreed that their selfish motives were warranted then offered them whatever selfish thing they wanted, but didn't wanna work toward.
Most nice guys are products of single mother households.
Most single moms aren't going to sit down and tell you about the "ugly/dark side" of females.End of the day, they really can't.It takes a man to really be able to explain, in depth, the pain a woman can cause a man.
Single moms most of the time have already been burnt by some slick willy nikka.In turn, they try to raise their sons to be the exact opposite "You're not going to be anything like your father
The most successful a woman is going to be with that is raising a good "adult".An "adult" is somebody who doesn't end up in jail, graduates HS/College, and is able to provide for themselves.A woman can raise a guy like that......but she can't raise a man.He can have all that and still be missing his "manliness" that void as it pertains to the opposite sex will always be there.
He has a clean record, graduated from college, own house etc.....But he's stuck being moms "lil gentlemen sweetheart".He's the "champion" of his family.His grandmother, aunts, and female cousins tell him "how good of a man he is"....but outside of the four corners of his home/family life, he has zero luck with women
Not only that, but a lot of dudes raised by single moms have thatin em.They grew up watching their mother struggle, wishing somebody would come save her/them.So when they grow up, they're extra tenderhearted, and eager please(in regards to women).They become the guy they always wished would come save them.Problem with that, you have female sociopaths out here.The can see a nikka with a bloody heart like that coming from a mile away.They'll play him out of his socks.He'll be food out here.
So while his intentions to be nice were genuine, he soon learns that the way his mother taught him was erroneous.Itdoesn't work out here in the real world.He'll have to forge into that "Master Key that can unlock many locks" on his own.
It might not be that he's a "fake nice" guy.He could be genuinely nice down to his bone marrow.It's just that the way he's been raised to be doesn't work & he can't evolve past it.The man is frustrated to the 10th power.And that's with a mother who at least tried.
If we moved on to another topic, the single mom/ "ratchets" are the ones raising heartless nikkaz.In a lot of ways, "heartless" will get you laid quicker than "tenderhearted".Some chicks like nikkaz like that.They see it as a challenge---ol "I bet I can make his heart turn warm" type airheads
yep, I'll freely admit (but as more of a cautionary tale) that this is why I'm a nice guy.
My mom and sisters beat the shyt into me.
Then, I was like "
they did the shyt to me to serve their egoes. Because "men ain't shyt" but they did their best to stick with the dudes that fukked them and tossed them or slapped them around. They couldn't hurt them, so...
And since I live in a matriarchal family where the women outnumber the men 3.5 to 1, they did it to all my uncles and cousins, as well.
Only a few escaped.
Funny thing is, after they had their little flings, they always came back. Or tried to, anyway.
I'm a nice guy, meaning a safe kind of nikka that girls like to confide (re: tell you about the shyt the next nikka is doing) in, talk to about the kids and job, hang out with and try to boss around.
Oh, and soak up compliments and affection and free shyt cause we're soooo sweet.
Now that you recognize it, you're going to have to become the sacrificial lamb.Soak up all the game & lessons you can & make sure to pass it down to your son/nephews.Sit down and hold all male family member barbeques, have meetings, and lace em with game, breh
Basically this. If you're nice and attractive, I'll probably be interested. But if you're not attractive to me no amount of niceness is going to get you in.
It doesn't help their cause that a lot of "Nice Guys" have some kind of strike against them as far as physical attractiveness goes (fat, short, big head, etc.) and they're often socially awkward/retarded with low self confidence. It's like a perfect storm of flaws that just happen to make that particular human an undesirable person regardless of how "nice" they treat women. They'd strike out playing an a$$hole/thug role too b/c the problem is THEM.
Just gotta fix ya self and try again.
ETA:
Yes.
