Nice guys & Nice Girls...does anyone notice the double standard?

[DarkHorse23]

@ nikkas you don't want in your threads cause you can't handle the truth brehs.

Tell lies and cite unprovable stats/truths to validate your pity party self-responsibility free world view, brehs.

Get out of my thread you fukking simp. You're disgusting to me. I'd spit in your face, but my spit is worth more than you

 

[DarkHorse23]

How many times can the same topic be reworded and made into a different thread?

I don't think this thread has been made to be honest.

 

[Neuromancer]

I was saying this in the needy brehs overlooking nerdy women thread. People are really out here trying to say there are armies of dorky dudes turning down easier opportunities for women that they don't even see in real life.


Truth I somewhere between for both sexes, and two nice people dont automatically make a nice pairing. Some people really are happier with opposites.


Anyway, women have support systems men don't. Men, adapt or perish. Woman, just wait, someone will be on your side always. Tis life.

Fax

 

[delta]

I was saying this in the needy brehs overlooking nerdy women thread. People are really out here trying to say there are armies of dorky dudes turning down easier opportunities for women that they don't even see in real life.

Breh that shyt made me. Them swag less nikkas ain't turning down no pizza because they wont evet get that chance twice

 

[Saysumthinfunnymike]

We talk about this before, most nice guys aren't nice, they are lames who are pretending to be nice. A nice guy doesn't say he's a nice guy, he just DOES shyt and keeps it movin

actions not words.

but make no mistake, if you have a good heart, u still gotta keep these broads off balance or they will get "bored".

 

[Prince Mongo]

I don't think this thread has been made to be honest.

I've seen the premise of this thread a million times. "Nobody likes black men who are 'nice guys'" or "why don't 'nice girls' want nice guys?".

 

[PeridotPuss]

there are a lot of flaws in this logic and line of thinking

 

[Hacksaw Jim Thuggin]

I was watching a video on youtube titled "On Nice Guys: A brotha's take, pt 3" (there is 3 parts) and he made some interesting observations. In our society "nice" guys are largely criticized for their tactics they attempt to use to try and gain a woman's attention. They are called "entitled", "lames", and whatever else for expecting a woman to be with them because they are so "nice" despite their unattractive qualities. They are told, you can't change women, instead change the world, change men, and most importantly change yourself. They are told that if they are having struggles in the dating world, it is their fault. However if you pay attention to society, women use the same "nice" guy tactics when they aren't as physically attractive, because more so with women they are heavily judged on their physical appearance and sex appeal. Society deep down knows this, and that's why our economy is heavily based on improving a woman's appearance. Gyms, Personal trainers, Clothes, Shoes, Makeup, Plastic surgery all meant to help improve the average woman's sexual market value. It's because of this alone, ANY woman walking around fat, unattractive looking, there's absolutely no excuse, and that woman has issues, but i digress. Anyway the same tactics women and society shame men for, women ironically use it everyday. They are Slut Shaming,Fat shaming, Body Acceptance and specific to the black community we have Colorism. It's really quite funny when you think about it, nice guys are literally fukked with no vaseline by society, women(of all races), simps, manginas, sir lancealots, but nice girls, fat women, dark skinned black women ect are coddled in society. Another interesting thing is while men are told to lower their standards, even the top 20% of men, society tells women to raise their standards, even women who are homely, fat, and unattractive.

So my question is....why is their a double standard?

Serious discussion and answers. So simps like @Matt504 , and @GinaThatAintNoDamnPuppy! stay the fukk out of my thread. Deflections aren't welcomed either. So women who can't add anything intelligent to the conversation stay out of my thread. You know who you are.

breh...nobody is reading that shyt...use paragraphs...not walls of text

 

[DarkHorse23]

We talk about this before, most nice guys aren't nice, they are lames who are pretending to be nice. A nice guy doesn't say he's a nice guy, he just DOES shyt and keeps it movin

actions not words.

but make no mistake, if you have a good heart, u still gotta keep these broads off balance or they will get "bored".

Ok and most nice girls aren't really nice. Why the double standard though? Lol you fit my narrative btw. Instead of addressing the question you just dismiss it and call these black men "lames".

 

[GreenGhxst]

double standard because a man is a man, not a woman

I don't behave like a woman, why do other men

 

[DarkHorse23]

there are a lot of flaws in this logic and line of thinking

I don't think so BUT I'd be interested in hearing your perspective. You're one of the few intelligent women on this forum.

 

[DarkHorse23]

double standard because a man is a man, not a woman

I don't behave like a woman, why do other men

But I thought we were all equal? So women can redefine what it means to be a woman but in 2016 I'm suppose to live by rigid prehistoric standards of what being a man is. fukk outta here. Times have changed and thankfully men are smarting up to the games women play and calling them out on their BULLshyt

 

[AintNoCrampInYaMouthTho]

Idk. I guess because they are good people and hearts are in the right place.

Okay now what makes these folks undesirable, as you say? What quality is turning folks away from them?

 

[DarkHorse23]

I've seen the premise of this thread a million times. "Nobody likes black men who are 'nice guys'" or "why don't 'nice girls' want nice guys?".

I haven't but okay. Doesn't invalidate anything I'm saying, but hey I know you simps gotta do your civic duty. Carry on.

 

[Saysumthinfunnymike]

Ok and most nice girls aren't really nice. Why the double standard though? Lol you fit my narrative btw. Instead of addressing the question you just dismiss it and call these black men "lames".

I don't think there's really a double standard. Some people are going to accept u for who you are and some aren't. The problem with most people and this includes women and men is they chase after those who aren't going to treat them well instead of stayin with someone who will.

dudes be like "I can't get a girlfriend " but what they really mean is "I can't get that insta THOT I been thirstin over"

Women be like "I can't find a good man " but meanwhile they've already curved some who are..