DarkHorse23
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Looks would be the obvious answer.Okay now what makes these folks undesirable, as you say? What quality is turning folks away from them?
Nice guys & Nice Girls...does anyone notice the double standard?
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Get out of my thread you fukking simp. You're disgusting to me. I'd spit in your face, but my spit is worth more than you
Classy, and level-headed response to someone you disagree with. You're definitely a "nice guy". I can't imagine why any woman would consider you high-risk and unstable, and someone to avoid.
The OP is all over the place...
On one hand you're saying nice guy tactics don't "work" and the nice guys are told it's their fault....
But nice guy tactics do work....just often not on the women the nice guys are going after. Most devout Christian woman and other sheltered types....see what we are calling "nice guy" here as the norm.
It's like being a housecat but expecting to catch and pull down an antelope. That's for lions. Stick to mice.
Then the rest is your run of the mill I don't have much experience with women ranting. A key there is undue focus on appearance or perceived social status. Deal with enough women and you'll realize our world is emotional, connection based and future oriented. All that "her looks/their looks" is the perspective of an outsider looking in.
In short, the assumptions are not only wrong and unfounded....they make little sense.
Not everyone is attracted to everything, not everything is somebody's fault.
Projecting your problems onto the world at large...doesn't solve your problems.
DarkHorse23
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I don't agree, there is a double standard. While I do agree with the middle part except I think it's mainly women curving good guys instead of men chasing IG thots. I'm sorry but that's BS. I have friends who are players and arent,and NONE of them are talking about bagging an IG chick.I don't think there's really a double standard. Some people are going to accept u for who you are and some aren't. The problem with most people and this includes women and men is they chase after those who aren't going to treat them well instead of stayin with someone who will.
dudes be like "I can't get a girlfriend" but what they really mean is "I can't get that insta THOT I been thirstin over"
Women be like "I can't find a good man
DarkHorse23
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When did I claim to be a "nice" guy? I claim to be my first and last name...nothing more. All those other projections and deflections I won't respond too, so save your breath.
Dameon Farrow
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People came in with the quickness proving the man's point for the sake of having a point. Typical.
DarkHorse23
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Oh they make perfect sense, in fact watching the 3 videos could better explain than I ever could. Nice guys tactics work for women because most men are shamed into lowering their standards(if they have any). It's really quite sad when you think about it.
DarkHorse23
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Slow clap
DarkHorse23
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Define masculinity?
And you mean to tell me that men who mentor young boys, start up businesses, step into to be a stepfather and role model for some woman's kids isn't masculine.
Like really?
Neil Tyson
YYZ
I'd rather let others speak for me on whether I'm nice or not. Calling yourself "nice" is just raising alarm bells, if you say you're nice to people, wouldn't the people that you interact with be a better judge of that characteristic?
So if girls say they're nice, probably not. If dudes say they're nice, probably not. Am I nice? I don't know, people say I have a rough exterior to get to that "nice" part of me. I'll let others be the judge
So if girls say they're nice, probably not. If dudes say they're nice, probably not. Am I nice? I don't know, people say I have a rough exterior to get to that "nice" part of me. I'll let others be the judge
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GreenGhxst
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But I thought we were all equal? So women can redefine what it means to be a woman but in 2016 I'm suppose to live by rigid prehistoric standards of what being a man is.
fukk outta here. Times have changed and thankfully men are smarting up to the games women play and calling them out on their BULLshyt
it is what it is, a man supposed to be solid, why we gotta change up like bytches
DarkHorse23
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You know what that is? anecdotal evidence. It doesn't mean anything.
I didn't create my post based on that though. I was just sharing some of my personal experiences/observations. It ain't anecdotal though if it's a large number of black men are saying the same thing. Stop making excuses.
DarkHorse23
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it is what it is, a man supposed to be solid, why we gotta change up like bytches
The manipulation and shaming ain't going work bruh. Try someone else, i'm not the average coli member.
