DarkHorse23
Banned
I was watching a video on youtube titled "On Nice Guys: A brotha's take, pt 3" (there is 3 parts) and he made some interesting observations. In our society "nice" guys are largely criticized for their tactics they attempt to use to try and gain a woman's attention. They are called "entitled", "lames", and whatever else for expecting a woman to be with them because they are so "nice" despite their unattractive qualities. They are told, you can't change women, instead change the world, change men, and most importantly change yourself. They are told that if they are having struggles in the dating world, it is their fault. However if you pay attention to society, women use the same "nice" guy tactics when they aren't as physically attractive, because more so with women they are heavily judged on their physical appearance and sex appeal. Society deep down knows this, and that's why our economy is heavily based on improving a woman's appearance. Gyms, Personal trainers, Clothes, Shoes, Makeup, Plastic surgery all meant to help improve the average woman's sexual market value. It's because of this alone, ANY woman walking around fat, unattractive looking, there's absolutely no excuse, and that woman has issues, but i digress. Anyway the same tactics women and society shame men for, women ironically use it everyday. They are Slut Shaming,Fat shaming, Body Acceptance and specific to the black community we have Colorism. It's really quite funny when you think about it, nice guys are literally fukked with no vaseline by society, women(of all races), simps, manginas, sir lancealots, but nice girls, fat women, dark skinned black women ect are coddled in society. Another interesting thing is while men are told to lower their standards, even the top 20% of men, society tells women to raise their standards, even women who are homely, fat, and unattractive.
So my question is....why is their a double standard?
Serious discussion and answers. So simps like @Matt504 , and @GinaThatAintNoDamnPuppy! stay the fukk out of my thread. Deflections aren't welcomed either. So women who can't add anything intelligent to the conversation stay out of my thread. You know who you are.
So my question is....why is their a double standard?
Serious discussion and answers. So simps like @Matt504 , and @GinaThatAintNoDamnPuppy! stay the fukk out of my thread. Deflections aren't welcomed either. So women who can't add anything intelligent to the conversation stay out of my thread. You know who you are.
So no replies. So y'all REALLY going act like this doesn't exist. Smh I'm so glad the average brother is waking up and treating black women accordingly.
thats life nikka
What makes them nice? Both female and male? Explain