nikkas can't even ask for Sunday dinner without being attacked

[blase_chic]

why are you so mad at the thought of cooking? When granny(rip) was alive she loved cooking. Both my parents cooked as well. it was a great positive experience that later taught me how to do things. I love cooking for women when I meet them and I have been lucky I guess that they could cook as well. So we both did for each other




like i said before, waste bytches

This thread is about black grandmothers. I'm nobody's grandma.

So again, When your grandma was alive, how often did you treat her to a spa day so she could kick her feet up for a while and be pampered for once?

 

[CarmelBarbie]

Where and what posts did they do that? I haven't seen that in here.

I for one have never encouraged anyone to PAWG. If you wanna fukk a white girl go ahead p*ssy is p*ssy use them white hoes for that purpose alone p*ssy, but don't seed her up and pass on any wealth to peckerwoods they don't need any more help.

Don't stoop to that level, you're better than that.

You already quoted @Love Sicharre but here’s the other.

I'm not saying anything... but for you single brehs it's best to "explore your dating options" if you know what I mean.

And I see where they’re coming from because truth be told, if Brehs are unsatisfied with “modern” bw, why still try to date them?

I am an unruly modern bw, so you can take my opinion with a grain of salt.

I do cook and bake because my son is an eater (that boy can eat) and I want to make sure he gets healthy meals that aren’t filled with chemicals or heavily processed. But I know there’s been days where Im tired and don’t feel like it, especially when you just trying to recoup over the weekend. Some women don’t like to cook—I have friends who don’t. So in these days and times, if that is something a breh values, either he finds brehette that values it too or date out.

 

[Piff Perkins]

You Mexican Piff?

Nah I'm black, but I've dated a Mexican chick. Those dudes wylin on levels other dudes aren't reaching.

 

[Kiyoshi-Dono]

This thread is a perfect example of the paradigm shift and hypocrisy in society today
It also shows how women really resent their Grandmothers, Mothers and Aunties
It also shows the disdain for Pop Pop, Uncles, Fathers, Brothers and Sons
Cooking should be a basic skill for every able bodied adult
It truly makes you wonder how some women are surviving day to day
Week to week
You can’t seriously be eating out everyday can you
This also shows the lack of fundamental thinking some women have out here
Sunday dinners and cooking is not something men desire to keep you “oppressed”
You young bytches don’t know shyt about real oppression anyway
Most modern women can’t last a day without technology and the validation they receive from it
So you damn sure weren’t going to make it through JIm Crow
Men asking women if they like to cook, know how to cook shows that in the event of our timely demise as a provider
You have the ability to feed our seeds healthy nutritional diets not fast food garbage
I don’t know why that’s so hard to comprehend
This furthermore acknowledges that some women are just grown, entitled children
If you can’t distinguish the message of why cooking is so vital to every human being walking
That says a lot about your lifestyle and is a red flag on how a relationship will go with you
It’s a difference in not cooking period and the willingness to learn
Selfish vs Partnership
Trying to told you
These women don’t want TRUE partners
They want nikkas to shut up and succumb to their every whim
Cold world fellas

 

[WaveWhisperer]

I’m not a grandma. I cook for my son nearly everyday. And both my grandmas are dead, but when they were alive they cooked all the time.

There’s no deflection of a shortcoming as far as this topic goes because I don’t have a choice but to cook because im a mom.

but I do advocate for Brehs to pawg so they can get the things they complain about when it comes to brehettes. It’s a solution.

is there a man in your life you cook for?

 

[Code]

Honestly I'm getting sick and tired of men complaining about modern women

Women can only do what men allow and modern men are spineless fakkits with no standards

 

[Piff Perkins]

Nah…it’s still the women doing most of the cooking ESPECIALLY Italians.

I'm not denying this, my point is that Italian men learn how to cook and carry on their family traditions. It's not a coincidence that "Italian men are the best cooks in the world" is a pretty common saying/stereotype. Even in pop culture...the men are cooking. Clemenza cooks in Godfather, multiple people cook in Goodfellas, etc. Yes the women cook, and yes a major staple of Italian American culture is the mother or grandma making "Sunday gravy" - pasta with meat that last days. But when mom/grandma is gone, her children carry on that tradition. Including her sons. That's not happening with African American culture, and it's certainly not happening with generic white American culture.

That's my entire point in this. If our concept of tradition is going to your mom's house, watching the game until the food is ready, and then taking your plate downstairs to watch the game with the fellas...that's not sustainable culture in this country. At that point you are nothing more than an observer of culture. You contribute nothing. You make a plate and leave. Often times you don't even help clean the dishes. Men who do that don't give a fukk about culture. And when they get older, are unmarried, don't have children (or have children out of wedlock)...they let the culture die because mom and grandma passed away x years ago.

 

[Cereal_Bowl_Assassin]

I understand where the women are coming from especially if they are working a full time job

This thread is about black grandmothers. I'm nobody's grandma.

So again, When your grandma was alive, how often did you treat her to a spa day so she could kick her feet up for a while and be pampered for once?

I know you weren't talking to me but I used to take my grandma to all of her favorite places, run errands for her and I loved it. She was definitely the back bone for my family (they had 9 kids).

miss my grandparents to death

 

[MajesticLion]

Thread inspired me to go walk up and down around my way and hug and smooch every woman who cooked Sunday lunch today.


Well played, Coli denizens, you've made the world a little bit better for a change.

 

[Panther]

black women want traditional men but dont expect them to want traditional women

 

[Rawtid]

That doesn't mean much. There's a difference between men who know how to cook and men being the main cooks in the family.

When you have family get togethers...who's in the kitchen? The women or the men?

But that leads back to some of the women's complaints in the original tweet. If men are cool with pursuing cooking as a profession or being the better cook, then they should be cool with pursing cooking as a way to continue family traditions. Why hold so tightly to the idea that it's the woman that's slacking and not the men aren't stepping up? Family dinner is family dinner, regardless of who prepared it.

As far as my family dinners, it's women, but also far and few between due to some of the complaints mentioned. My brother is one of those men that don't bring anything, but leaves with a handful. There was a member here I spoke with offline and his sister would make dinner and he never brought anything. I told him he should at least bring some rolls or something. I don't come empty handed and if I do it's because I sent or giving money toward something. From a man's perspective, it's women slacking off, but from our perspective, men can come off ungrateful and it's not worth the effort and cost.

 

[Genos]

women like this are weirdos. a man can do basically anything a woman can do, and often better than she can. one of the things most men do not want to do is cook, so women traditionally have done that. if women start saying what all they ain't gonna do, then what do men need them for exactly? there's supposed to be things the woman does and things the men does.

What about raising kids?

 

[TaxCollector13459]

same broads asking god why she cant find a good man.
get that stove hot!
cop a house coat or gown with butt naked under that bytch!
stop talking to god behind my back!
get some shut the fukk up!
that hoe aint got a man.....how she giving you advice?

know i'm talmbout?

Let em know gang

 

[Thurgood Thurston III]

The worst thing America did in the modern era, is to make fast food CHEAP and ACCESSIBLE. Undisciplined actions led to the obesity epidemic.

That's just how business works. An individual saw an opportunity to make money and took it. That's the beauty of capitalism I guess.

 

[Ezekiel 25:17]

My grandparents had 9 kids and both found time to cook for all the kids, these new age women just don't want to admit that they're lazy. Having a job doesn't make you a superhero, it's simply another requirement to help take care of your family. A lot of these women use feminism to avoid doing basic shyt.

Y'all love complaining about new women not cooking, but continue to lay up with em. You're part of the problem.

I made a thread and several dudes in ltr said they rather eat out or they got a personal cook