nikkas can't even ask for Sunday dinner without being attacked

[Chrishaune]

Alot of men are stuck in old paradigms and alot of em abuse it because they want women to be their second mother. Gotta call a spade a spade. Everyone working now, take turns cooking Sunday dinner.

You didn't read the thread and jumped to conclusions I see.

 

[ThrobbingHood]

Men are expected to bring home the bacon and cook it too. bytch please. Let my woman even suggest that bullshyt to me.

 

[hatealot]

You didn't read the thread and jumped to conclusions I see.

Nah I didn't tk be honest. I just logged on and went to whatever comment caught my attention. I'm sure I'll go through all the pages later.

 

[Chrishaune]

Nah I didn't tk be honest. I just logged on and went to whatever comment caught my attention. I'm sure I'll go through all the pages later.

That's a common issue in today's world.

 

[ORDER_66]

This thread is kinda making my blood boil a little.

I can't believe yall are in here suggesting that grandma needs to be working 40+hrs of manual labor every week and then turn around and basically slave in the kitchen every Sunday to feed a bunch of grown able bodied adults. Seriously. Wow. This is what yall reduce us to?

I see black women bashing is starting to ramp up again around here. Looking for every excuse to make it seem as though we are unwanted and unworthy.

It's why many chics out here wildin in the first place. Bc there really ain't no pleasing yall (even in a historical context when bw as a whole were doing all the "right" things if we're being honest)

Da fukk none of us said cook every damned Sunday crazy. This is not about y'all not cooking this is bigger than that it's about y'all females throwing away tradition keep it 100...

 

[hatealot]

That's a common issue in today's world.

We 15 pages deep into a convo and premise hat has been had 20 plus times on this site.

Everyone already made up their mind on the issue.

 

[Ezekiel 25:17]

You didn't read the thread and jumped to conclusions I see.

Nah y'all getting worked up over what a random woman said.

Those women are right, cook Sunday dinner yourself, ain't shyt stopping you from doing so. You not mentally and physically disabled

And if she wanna be lazy kick her ass out the door. It's not that hard.

 

[The Wolf Among You]

Black men and Black women are never gonna move forward if we continue to be at each other’s necks for the most trivial shyt.
Like someone mentioned this is Twitter, so take this shyt with a grain of salt, every single Black woman that I’ve met thus far has been proud of their cooking skills, but they also don’t want to be treated or looked to like a pseudo housemaid. Which I think is reasonable since I don’t wanna be looked at as a walking Mac machine, people need to find a partner that’s on the same time as they are, and remember to show appreciation for the shyt that they do.
The problem with traditional gender roles is that people start to take it for granted on both sides, you gotta remember that shyt is a luxury, and that’s coming from someone that doesn’t want a traditional relationship.

 

[Ezekiel 25:17]

Da fukk none of us said cook every damned Sunday crazy. This is not about y'all not cooking this is bigger than that it's about y'all females throwing away tradition keep it 100...

We don't need women to carry tradition.

 

[WaveWhisperer]

If they refuse to cook why should I really give a damn? I'm not dating them, I'm not married to em. That's their preference and I have no qualms with them.

Reciprocate only becomes an issue when you put up with their minimum asses

im right there with you on that

 

[Ozymandeas]

A lot of these females today have been meticulously socially engineered to perceive their male counterparts as not deserving their submission or support as wives and help meets as it's unbecoming in a lot of their minds.

They're basically in this endless tug of war between their natural essential nature and what they've been programmed to be like in these modern times.

You'll find a diamond in the rough every now and then if you're blessed but the majority of these females are just lost.

Intergender relations are at an all-time worse.

Black men aren't respected by Black women. That's all there is to this. I guarantee the black women married to white men baking cookies, muffins along with Sunday dinner. This conversation is stupid as hell. If you have kids, you have to feed them, do you not? Or are they eating McDonald's every night?

 

[Chrishaune]

Nah y'all getting worked up over what a random woman said.

Those women are right, cook Sunday dinner yourself, ain't shyt stopping you from doing so. You not mentally and physically disabled

And if she wanna be lazy kick her ass out the door. It's not that hard.

pandering again I see

 

[Ozymandeas]

That's the main point of the cooking. It ain't even about the man. But you're going to have your kids growing up not knowing what a good meal is? That's a terrible mother. And these women know deep down they are terrible mothers.

That's what has me like wtf are they talking about? If you have kids, you have to cook. I guess they're planning on getting fast food everynight or cooking for the kids and telling their husband he's on his own

 

[Chrishaune]

That's what has me like wtf are they talking about? If you have kids, you have to cook. I guess they're planning on getting fast food everynight or cooking for the kids and telling their husband he's on his own

A man is going to find a way to eat. We don't depend on any woman to do that. Threatening us with that won't gain any ground. But it just shows us not to ever think about having a family with you.

 

[Alvin]

You all should pawg. Maybe their grandmas still cook big Sunday meals. I don’t know how their food taste (I don’t like to eat white peoples food because I don’t believe they wash their hands when they cook lol) but that’s always an option for y’all.