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1997 movie soul food.

Here we see a woman a man and children in the kitchen cooking.

How did this become so difficult in modern times?
 

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1997 movie soul food.

Here we see a woman a man and children in the kitchen cooking.

How did this become so difficult in modern times?


Grandmothers were still alive during this time. They would have seen a woman talking like these modern women for what they are.

A lot of the things my grandmother ever said to her grandkids were true. They spotted no good women when they saw them.
 

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do they really believe if they left the house with the dishes full, no dinner prepared, dirty toilet/tub, and trashes fun… that an actual man is just going to sit there, go :yeshrug: and leave it be?!?

unfortunately, these women have had to play 2nd mommy to some brehs out here. I get that, but they crazy asl to believe ALL men cannot care for themselves if shyt hits the fan.

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Grandmothers were still alive during this time. They would have seen a woman talking like these modern women for what they are.

A lot of the things my grandmother ever said to her grandkids were true.

The boomers. The most hated generation on the Coli. You can't talk stupid to a generation that you're supposed to be getting the traditions you like from. This is counter productive.
 

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The boomers. The most hated generation on the Coli. You can't talk stupid to a generation that you're supposed to be getting the traditions you like from. This is counter productive.

Well my grandmother was from the generation before boomers. This woman saw a world war. The Great Depression. etc, etc.
 
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That's the main point of the cooking. It ain't even about the man. But you're going to have your kids growing up not knowing what a good meal is? That's a terrible mother. And these women know deep down they are terrible mothers.
I’m blessed my fiancée can cook Mexican and soul food :blessed:but I’m gon keep it real if I get neg fukk it but a lot of women are lazy azz fukk in this generation don’t really wanna clean,cook,take care of the kids or work out one of my niqqas work for USPS and he still has to come home to cook and clean :dwillhuh: He was the first one of the crew to have kids their oldest is 11 and none of the kids have chores all four girls don’t do shyt :snoop:
 

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Well my grandmother was from the generation before boomers. This woman saw world wars. The Great Depression. etc, etc.

Post war generation. My grandparents was from this generation as well. All of them generations didn't have a problem with cooking. When black women started hanging tough with white women is when this shyt kicked off. Cooking is healing. I believe if men pointed out the importance of a home cooked meal, women will eventually get the message. This cook because you a woman is bone head talk.
 

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Post war generation. My grandparents was from this generation as well. All of them generations didn't have a problem with cooking. When black women started hanging tough with white women is when this shyt kicked off. Cooking is healing. I believe if men pointed out the importance of a home cooked meal, women will eventually get the message. This cook because you a woman is bone head talk.


I know what's going to turn it around and most people will not pass the test. Eventually these wars happening overseas are going to affect the economy in America and cause a sad situation for people dependent on the system for survival. But that's the only way a majority of people learn most of the time. Hard times. We're a few well places bombs and a couple natural disasters away from famine that will kill a whole lot of people.
 

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1997 movie soul food.

Here we see a woman a man and children in the kitchen cooking.

How did this become so difficult in modern times?

People got older and passed away. It was different back then because black people only had each other. That's still the case now but, its easier for c00ns and black feminists to delude themselves. Back then, there wasn't any of that. In result, Women born in the 10s, 20s, 30s would've never imagined saying some foolishness like the women of today. Grandma from the Soul Food movie was in that group. Women born in the 40s, 50s, 60s still had some of their mother's femininity and traditions but, they're also the bridge generation to today. They came to adulthood/womanhood during the 70s, 80s when alot of things shifted culturally. Women born in the 70s, 80s, 90s and onward....forget about it :francis:
 

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People got older and passed away. It was different back then because black people only had each other. That's still the case now but, its easier for c00ns and black feminists to delude themselves. Back then, there wasn't any of that. In result, Women born in the 10s, 20s, 30s would've never imagined saying some foolishness like the women of today. Grandma from the Soul Food movie was in that group. Women born in the 40s, 50s, 60s still had some of their mother's femininity and traditions but, they're also the bridge generation to today. They came to adulthood/womanhood during the 70s, 80s when alot of things shifted culturally. Women born in the 70s, 80s, 90s and onward....forget about it :francis:

I knew crack heads back in the 80s who use to cook for their kids. They use to live in the basement of their parents houses, and when they were hungry they'd just fire up the stove and cook a meal for everyone. It was nothing.

Women talking about clicking a mouse for 40+ hours a week being exhausting is bullshyt. They just lazy and wasn't showed how to manage time.
 

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How can you say they do this more than black men? I'm not denying, I just don't get how you're able to compare. Where's the data? I know Italians are very traditional. The males stay at home and have moms cook for them and they move out when they meet a woman and get married. Very traditional..so I'm trying to understand how the men do most of the cooking there. I just don't see it and I know plenty of Italians.
I have no data, I'm based it entirely on cultural norms and traditions. I don't think it's controversial to suggest the generic American holiday tradition (food wise) starts with women figuring out who is bringing what dish, meeting at the house of whoever traditionally holds the event (usually grandparents), women control the kitchen while men do men things (watch sports, BBQ, drink, etc whatever). My point is that I believe non-American cultures here (Asian, Italian, African, islands, etc) feature more men cooking than we do. We being American men, be you black or generic white.
 

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It also doesn't help that alot of today's women that are grandmothers don't have many kids, esp daughters compared to previous generations

At most, these days, most women have 1 sister. Women don't have daughters like they used to and that needs to be examined why
 

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He might be talking about black American specifically.

even so, what is he using as the basis of that thought? Saying Italian men are more modern than black men…are they? I don’t know. What is he basing it on? His interactions with black people vs Italians?

This is only an issue because it involved a black man. If it was a white man, not a peep.
 
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