1997 movie soul food.
Here we see a woman a man and children in the kitchen cooking.
How did this become so difficult in modern times?
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1997 movie soul food.
Here we see a woman a man and children in the kitchen cooking.
How did this become so difficult in modern times?
do they really believe if they left the house with the dishes full, no dinner prepared, dirty toilet/tub, and trashes fun… that an actual man is just going to sit there, goand leave it be?!?
unfortunately, these women have had to play 2nd mommy to some brehs out here. I get that, but they crazy asl to believe ALL men cannot care for themselves if shyt hits the fan.

Grandmothers were still alive during this time. They would have seen a woman talking like these modern women for what they are.
A lot of the things my grandmother ever said to her grandkids were true.
The boomers. The most hated generation on the Coli. You can't talk stupid to a generation that you're supposed to be getting the traditions you like from. This is counter productive.
I’m blessed my fiancée can cook Mexican and soul foodThat's the main point of the cooking. It ain't even about the man. But you're going to have your kids growing up not knowing what a good meal is? That's a terrible mother. And these women know deep down they are terrible mothers.
but I’m gon keep it real if I get neg fukk it but a lot of women are lazy azz fukk in this generation don’t really wanna clean,cook,take care of the kids or work out one of my niqqas work for USPS and he still has to come home to cook and clean
He was the first one of the crew to have kids their oldest is 11 and none of the kids have chores all four girls don’t do shyt 
Well my grandmother was from the generation before boomers. This woman saw world wars. The Great Depression. etc, etc.
Post war generation. My grandparents was from this generation as well. All of them generations didn't have a problem with cooking. When black women started hanging tough with white women is when this shyt kicked off. Cooking is healing. I believe if men pointed out the importance of a home cooked meal, women will eventually get the message. This cook because you a woman is bone head talk.
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1997 movie soul food.
Here we see a woman a man and children in the kitchen cooking.
How did this become so difficult in modern times?

People got older and passed away. It was different back then because black people only had each other. That's still the case now but, its easier for c00ns and black feminists to delude themselves. Back then, there wasn't any of that. In result, Women born in the 10s, 20s, 30s would've never imagined saying some foolishness like the women of today. Grandma from the Soul Food movie was in that group. Women born in the 40s, 50s, 60s still had some of their mother's femininity and traditions but, they're also the bridge generation to today. They came to adulthood/womanhood during the 70s, 80s when alot of things shifted culturally. Women born in the 70s, 80s, 90s and onward....forget about it![]()
I have no data, I'm based it entirely on cultural norms and traditions. I don't think it's controversial to suggest the generic American holiday tradition (food wise) starts with women figuring out who is bringing what dish, meeting at the house of whoever traditionally holds the event (usually grandparents), women control the kitchen while men do men things (watch sports, BBQ, drink, etc whatever). My point is that I believe non-American cultures here (Asian, Italian, African, islands, etc) feature more men cooking than we do. We being American men, be you black or generic white.How can you say they do this more than black men? I'm not denying, I just don't get how you're able to compare. Where's the data? I know Italians are very traditional. The males stay at home and have moms cook for them and they move out when they meet a woman and get married. Very traditional..so I'm trying to understand how the men do most of the cooking there. I just don't see it and I know plenty of Italians.
He might be talking about black American specifically.