Wash your legs.
"No flowers, no planned dates, just “wyd” texts & 50/50"
- Thread starter Sad Bunny
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It's definitely levels out here. They be in the DM's sending heart eyes while I got the WiFi passwordfunniest thing ever is seeing a chick you do your thing with on social media and her comments full with hearts and “queen” post from brehs who dont stand a chance
It's definitely levels out here. They be in the DM's sending heart eyes while I got the WiFi password
i dont even comment on sportscenters posts hell ima comment on random ig chicks posts thinking thats gonna get me something
Ain’t nothing to be unaware of. Too many people too scared or anxious to do anything these days. Dating included. People don’t even have FRIENDS, so I’m not surprised that dating has become a huge damn event.
But that’s part of the problem. People have lived in their heads so much, taken a bunch of cues from online shyt that they got crazy expectations. They’ve built the process up so much that something as simple as meeting people has become this monumental colossus.
I said what I said. Dating should be an enjoyable experience. It’s as simple as you planning something you like to do, and inviting the person you are interested in along to do it with you.
That’s it.
Simple shyt. But because some of these dudes got these ideas in their head from offline that everybody is getting p*ssy on the first date, and chicks think every girl is getting $300 dates, they feel like they getting curved if they put in even the bare minimum effort and not getting sloppy head or a Fendi bag seconds within meeting a random person.
“I guess she/he don’t like me!”
That’s what’s stressful.
So they try all this autistic ass PUA shyt, can’t be themselves, sound weird as fukk, escalating to sex every 10 seconds like they thirsty as hell, trying to get nikkas to drop major bread on them and just come off looking weird and creepy instead of being themselves and letting the chips fall where they may.
Men AND women out here looking stupid as hell because they trying to sell themselves to people they want to impress instead of moving with people that actually LIKE them.
Dating is a simple sweet process. I met a guy at a damn bagel shop yesterday. And we sat and just enjoyed each other’s company until my homegirl came through and worked on some dissertation shyt.
People have lost the art of simply BEING with someone b/c they too worried about what they can get outta somebody else. And they worried about that b/c they comparing their lives to dummies fake flexing on the internet.
I swear people just slow ass hell these days.
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@Booksnrain the issue with your last post is that you bringing up male versions of what we're complaining about ("men do it too") doesn't prove us wrong. It actually validates what we're saying, or dodges it. And some other parts I already addressed before in the post before yours ("I know not all women are like this, but weeding out who isn't is harder than it looks").
But I get your overall point about just doing what you wanna do of course.
But I get your overall point about just doing what you wanna do of course.
Inspect Her Deck
Skins of all colours come together as brothers
This thread is a classic example of how women generally just don't know what the fukk men actually want. You're too busy looking at things from your female lens/perspective and then get shocked when you are let down by men that you desire and you don't know why it went wrong. Learn to listen to men who are telling you up front what they want and what they're thinking.
If you want more than a sexual relationship, bring something other than p*ssy to the table. It's that simple. If you want a man who has options, make sure you stand out above said other options. It's that simple.
Women crave attention as much as men crave sex and that's why the dating game has become a GAME. It's about who can extract their addiction from the other without having to give up much on their end.
If you want more than a sexual relationship, bring something other than p*ssy to the table. It's that simple. If you want a man who has options, make sure you stand out above said other options. It's that simple.
Women crave attention as much as men crave sex and that's why the dating game has become a GAME. It's about who can extract their addiction from the other without having to give up much on their end.
I wasn’t deflecting, just providing much needed perspective. I only brought it up how men do the same things to illustrate how absurd it is for men to hold women to a standard they can’t maintain for themselves, and why women don’t take these complaints from men seriously. It’s hard to expect somebody to care about what a hypocrite is complaining about.@Booksnrain the issue with your last post is that you bringing up male versions of what we're complaining about ("men do it too") doesn't prove us wrong. It actually validates what we're saying, or dodges it. And some other parts I already addressed before in the post before yours ("I know not all women are like this, but weeding out who isn't is harder than it looks").
But I get your overall point about just doing what you wanna do of course.
But even beyond that, the other solutions still stand. I directly addressed the heart of the issue men were complaining about and addressed the entitlement and delusion and unmet needs that need to be addressed prior to dating so the process can be better for either party should they choose to move forward. But, regardless people gon people either way.
fukk it..this shyt is not cut and dry. You don't always know what the other wants or is thinking. Got to remember they're as human as you are . Act in good faith and be honest about what's going on.
People generally are bad at empathizes with other people or seeing reality vs what they think reality should be
It’s always helpful to understand what they other side is thinking even if you disagree
I will say tho that I find most women generally incapable of empathy towards men unless those men are gay or their very close friends
There’s a whole host of reasons why (patriarchy, past experiences, believing men to be emotionless robots, misandry etc.) but that’s my observation
The opposite is true obviously but when men express themselves both men and women tend to be like “
shut up fakkit“
Inspect Her Deck
Skins of all colours come together as brothers
People generally are bad at empathizes with other people or seeing reality vs what they think reality should be
It’s always helpful to understand what they other side is thinking even if you disagree
I will say tho that I find most women generally incapable of empathy towards men unless those men are gay or their very close friends
There’s a whole host of reasons why (patriarchy, past experiences, believing men to be emotionless robots, misandry etc.) but that’s my observation
The opposite is true obviously but when men express themselves both men and women tend to be like “
Agree with the bold in particular.
I'd argue that women specifically are more idealistic in thinking than realistic; possibility, no matter how slim, trumps probability in their minds. Women are incapable of empathy nowadays because women are becoming increasingly masculine and are out of touch with traditionally feminine qualities. Average women think they have a God-given right to men out of their league and won't even look a man's way until he's the finished product and brings a laundry list's worth of value to the table. On top of that, they have the nerve to demand a man be traditional (protective, chivalrous, provide security etc.) but will throw a tantrum if you even ask them to adhere to their traditional qualities i.e. cook, clean, nurture.
Men are slowly catching up to this reality and realising that it's not worth it anymore and are playing the same game with women that women have played way earlier and way more successfully in finessing men. Women are still to this day way ahead of the curve on this game and a lot of weak-minded, simpish men are allowing this to continue. I just fear that if this disingenuousness on both sides sustains you aren't gonna see any genuine relationships with real emotions being evoked from both sides.
Sad reality, but women created this reality.
It's definitely some insecure brehs on here so focused on the next man they can't even enjoy their time on the rideI wouldn't know because I wouldn't be asking some insecure shyt like "hey how much “effort"did the last guy you were with put in? And I wouldn't care either
Can you imagine you knee deep in some guts and instead of enjoying this broad in the moment, the only thing you wondering is how long it took compared to another guy in the past?
This broad invite you to her spot to cook you a meal but only thing in the back of your mind is "I aint gonna enjoy this unless I know for a fact it didn't take more days to get here than the last guy she was with"
Got this bad ass broad kickin it with you and the only thing you can do instead of enjoying the moment is think about her with other nikkas. You don't see how insecure that is?
And that's the issue. These young brehs that were raised in social media be leading more with their emotions than the females do these days. Their reasoning is all over the place so much that it only makes sense to them.
These new age brehs be pumping out more feminine energy than the females these days. I'm just sitting here reading and wondering who hurt them...
she should choose better ..
both sides can tell if the other party can make shyt happen
A nikka n a bytch that does shyt .. will do shyt without askin about shyt
all ima tell a bytch in a text is don’t wear no panties n drop the menu
I told you these new age brehs are missing a screw or two...There was something to win?
LMAO, y’all are weird
