"No flowers, no planned dates, just “wyd” texts & 50/50"

[Ezekiel 25:17]

Ladies PLEASE I'm begging yall to start fukkin with dudes that have their shyt together and actually like you enough to do the things you want them to, cus hearing yall complain about the fukkboys yall deal with is not the move. WE DONT CARE.

They might be dealing with good dudes, but them good dudes realize she ain't a good woman.

 

[dora_da_destroyer]

She gives you puzzy for nothing? Not even a meal from time to time?

Helluva assumption that she has zero demands for the puzzy when it comes to you but is very discerning with all other males.

message!

women don't see every man as relationship worthy, just like yall don't see every woman as wifey material. a woman might give it up easily to a nikka not doing anything for her because all she wants from him is some consistent D - shocking!! don't matter if he's not doing anything for her because she couldn't give AF about what he thinks of her since she aint trying to date him just make your D/face available when she calls and KIM

 

[Mirin4rmfar]

message!

women don't see every man as relationship worthy, just like yall don't see every woman as wifey material. a woman might give it up easily to a nikka not doing anything for her because all she wants from him is some consistent D - shocking!! don't matter if he's not doing anything for her because she couldn't give AF about what he thinks of her since she aint trying to date him just make your D/face available when she calls and KIM

Lol why l pay a high price for what other brehs got for free. I'd rather go cheap route.

 

[dora_da_destroyer]

Lol why l pay a high price for what other brehs got for free. I'd rather go cheap route.

not sure what you're trying to say here, but it doesn't take spending a lot of money to court someone seriously. if a woman is interested in you as relationship material, consistency is all she needs/wants to start feeling comfortable - consistent calls, texts, and opportunities to hang out - can be anything from sitting at the park to dinner to bowling to hanging at each other's place.

 

[tuckgod]

how yall know she's a whore? wtf....some men are just looking for a fling and approach everyone - a great woman and toss up - with low effort, men looking for a relationship or men who really come to like you put in effort - again, you can be a great woman or toss up, if a man is into you, he's into you

Nah, nikkas know when they got a great catch off top.

If you gettin treated like a whore, that’s the impression you gave off when he spotted you.

 

[mamba]

lotta dudes refuse to put in work to become their best self so they can then actually see where they stand on the market (so then they can work with whats at their level and minimize headaches).

like why in the hell would i want to be around someone who doesnt like me

Good point. As a man, if you put in the work and it is clear you are on top of your shyt, women choose hard.

All that performative shyt goes out the window. You then just have to choose which one, among many, to reward with the trappings of courtship.

 

[Ghost Utmost]

message!

women don't see every man as relationship worthy, just like yall don't see every woman as wifey material. a woman might give it up easily to a nikka not doing anything for her because all she wants from him is some consistent D - shocking!! don't matter if he's not doing anything for her because she couldn't give AF about what he thinks of her since she aint trying to date him just make your D/face available when she calls and KIM

You're sharing your puzzy with other guys with "good D" and nothing else.

That's all I am saying

When you want a woman to to yourself, you may have to do a little more

 

[mamba]

Usually women that date out of their league run into this.

Broad is a 6 and she catches an 8 for casual sex. He's lazy and just sticks with her since she's decent looking and offers the puzzy as much as he wants.

Then she tries to rope him down and can't. Breh is only interested because she's convenient. The minute she makes demands, he's moved on.

It's the sex that messes up their ability to judge their true value on the market. In her mind, a top-notch nikka flying her out to fukk means she can realistically get a nikka like that to commit to her.

NFL teams bring in borderline players for workouts all the time. Only a tiny fraction of them actually get signed.

Quite often, it's simply an exercise to get intel on other teams!

 

[dora_da_destroyer]

Nah, nikkas know when they got a great catch off top.

If you gettin treated like a whore, that’s the impression you gave off when he spotted you.

i'm not gonna argue if people know what they're getting - my point was it doesn't matter. a man who is not looking for a relationship is not going to put effort into women, no matter who they are. a man who is looking for a relationship/to be serious is going to put effort into pursuing the woman/dating her.

 

[Art Barr]

This is all a factor of women punching above their weight class. Social media got them thinking they deserve men bringing way more to the table than them. They don't realize that these men are punching down to secure some easy p*ssy. Since they're punching down they treat the women like shyt (as we all have done). Then women think that's the quality of men they deserve and complain about the way these same men treat them.

For all you female lurkers looking for the answer.
Here it is. Frfr.

Study up and know ya materials.


Art Barr

 

[KidJSoul]

not sure what you're trying to say here, but it doesn't take spending a lot of money to court someone seriously. if a woman is interested in you as relationship material, consistency is all she needs/wants to start feeling comfortable - consistent calls, texts, and opportunities to hang out - can be anything from sitting at the park to dinner to bowling to hanging at each other's place.

The whole point is that I'm putting in a lot of effort to be with her, but not even having much sex early on. While a bun dude who may or not give a fukk gets to fukk.

You know that most of the time, the man has to spend the money on the date. Plan the date. And overall drive the relationship early on. Be the confident one, the conversationalist. The responsibility is on me.

What am I getting out of that? If I'm not even getting the same level of upkeep let alone sex?

 

[tuckgod]

i'm not gonna argue if people know what they're getting - my point was it doesn't matter. a man who is not looking for a relationship is not going to put effort into women, no matter who they are. a man who is looking for a relationship/to be serious is going to put effort into pursuing the woman/dating her.

I disagree.

A man that isn’t actively looking for a relationship still ain’t gone let a good thing pass by.

It’s just gone take a little more to open his nose up than it would a dude out here looking to get hitched.

If we say or give off the vibe that we aren’t looking for a relationship, it’s we don’t want a relationship with you.

 

[tuckgod]

It's the sex that messes up their ability to judge their true value on the market. In her mind, a top-notch nikka flying her out to fukk means she can realistically get a nikka like that to commit to her.

NFL teams bring in borderline players for workouts all the time. Only a tiny fraction of them actually get signed.

Quite often, it's simply an exercise to get intel on other teams!

Repped.

 

[Turk]

Chose better. We dgaf

 

[dora_da_destroyer]

The whole point is that I'm putting in a lot of effort to be with her, but not even having much sex early on. While a bun dude who may or not give a fukk gets to fukk.

You know that most of the time, the man has to spend the money on the date. Plan the date. And overall drive the relationship early on. Be the confident one, the conversationalist. The responsibility is on me.

What am I getting out of that? If I'm not even getting the same level of upkeep let alone sex?

does it matter? if you actually want to be with her, you'll be fine having sex on the third date or third month. nothing is stopping you from smashing someone you don't want to be with in the interim...edit: if there weren't so many double standards about sex and so many men who hit and quit, a woman who is seriously interested might feel comfortable putting out early, but that's not the message that's engrained in us - we're taught to wait when we want a man to take us seriously, so again, if you like the chick, doesn't matter if you have to wait, she's likely doing that as a way to feel secure about having sex with you and what will come of that

um, no. again, not sure who yall are dealing with, but yes, outside the first date, there should be effort from both sides. i've never just sat around waiting for a man to decide everything. and i usually pay for stuff by date 2/3 if i'm feeling him, a chick with her shyt together and interested in you should have no problem planning or paying for something. and conversationalist? it takes two people to have conversations...

yall complain just like silly women. again, maybe you should date better/more interesting/better established women