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Yes, there is truth for men who deal with women with childish mindsets. I believe I said that in the post you quoted. Women with adult priorities do not have time or the patience for immature BS.


I am not attracted to games, men who cannot control their dikks, or disrespect; so try that BS with a woman like me and get the :camby:

I wish my husband would tell me he needed to flirt with other women in order to keep me interested. Please. If he needs to do that, then he should do that and hope one will be is new wife. Either I am Queen or GTFOH.

Grow up.

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I agree that the more insecure a woman is, the more she gets addicted to mind games. That's not exactly what I'm discussing here...of course it would be absolutely ridiculous if your husband explicitly said that he is going out to flirt with other women.

Instead of responding to some of the points I made, which I think several of them were quite good, you gave a very defensive reply which kills the potential for a fruitful discussion. I'm not at all interested in a lame ass gender war, but I would like to understand more about how women feel and think.
 

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I'm sorry but what women say and do is totally opposite. He spoke nothing but truth based on real life experience.

I am a woman, and I am going by my real life experience. I do not compete for men.
He is going by his interpretations/opinions of what he has observed and the type of women that he has chosen to deal with. I am going by what I am living and experiencing.

All women do not do that, only a certain type. The type the he deals with. The immature type. It's probably best to stay away from those type of women if you're looking for a relationship.
 

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I don't think OP is implying that you need to be a flirt to maintain a long lasting relationship. If you're a 6 pack, 6 cert, dream bruh and women are naturally drawn to you, keeping the talk to a minimum is probably a good idea. However, for #teamaverage brehs, such as myself and most others, I think that the women we end up with want to feel like we didn't settle with them simply because we felt like we couldn't do any better for ourselves. Plus, the op included the fax that it does increase testosterone which is also a desirable trait in a male partner. Also, going back to what I said earlier, if a man cuts off all his woman friends outside of his mate then he may very well become too dependant on her as an outlet and start becoming clingy.
 
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I agree that the more insecure a woman is, the more she gets addicted to mind games. That's not exactly what I'm discussing here...of course it would be absolutely ridiculous if your husband explicitly said that he is going out to flirt with other women.

Instead of responding to some of the points I made, which I think several of them were quite good, you gave a very defensive reply which kills the potential for a fruitful discussion. I'm not at all interested in a lame ass gender war, but I would like to understand more about how women feel and think.

And it would be absolutely ridiculous for him to do so if he is still interested in a relationship with me. I believe in guarding marriages fiercely. My attraction to him is not based on how others perceive him. Fortunately, my King and I are on the same page as far as proper vs. improper conduct.

I cannot respond to your "birdbrained women 101" points because I am not one of them. I'm sure you make great points for foolish men who deal with idiot women. And as I originally stated, if an immature man is with an immature woman do what works for you, but don't spread the filth to others.
 

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I am young or "early in life" and you are wrong. I don't want a thot/cheater/player.
no, in theory you dont want one. but in reality you're still going to be attracted to dude. why? because he's a pro at attracting chicks. thats what he does. its also why he can never settle down with one. because if you pay good enough attention to detail you would know he does a lot of things you read about that are romantic to ladies or sexual, etc. literally everything in the playbook, he's using it. This is why nothing he does for you or gives to you seems personal if you're paying attention. again if you had a legit father that was a legit husband to your mother. then these kind of clowns wont work on you. but if not. they will get to you.

its the equivalent of a chick thats ultra sexy, the way she walks, the smell, the look. she doesnt even have to be physically a dime. but she has that it factor. because she's a male version of a ladies man. a dude will get caught up if he didnt have that mother figure around that was also a solid wife to his pops.
 

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And it would be absolutely ridiculous for him to do so if he is still interested in a relationship with me. I believe in guarding marriages fiercely. My attraction to him is not based on how others perceive him. Fortunately, my King and I are on the same page as far as proper vs. improper conduct.

I cannot respond to your "birdbrained women 101" points because I am not one of them. I'm sure you make great points for foolish men who deal with idiot women. And as I originally stated, if an immature man is with an immature woman do what works for you, but don't spread the filth to others.

Agreed

If you knew anything about my background and where I am in life you wouldn't be able to insult and dismiss me and the women in my life by calling us idiots, but that's the downside of trying to have a conversation online I guess. You're obviously not interested in challenging your own views right now, so let's leave it at that.
 

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Same lesson for men and women. People like to feel like they're winning. We as humans define what we value as influenced by what others values. The strongest among us can see past all the bullshyt and love who they love. :to:

And they can have their sloppy loves.. I'll stick to dimes and be vain. :takedat:
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I cant believe how much the coli girls be talking:duck:


I unexpectedly got some p*ssy of this concept

I was trying to fukk a woman for a couple weeks

She was taking her time but i had got a phone call while she was with me and so since i figured i was friend zoned i took the call.

Her competitive spirit kicked in and the competition was on

She figured one of the girsl i was talking to was gonna give me p*ssy

So it motivated her to be number one and she went on and gave ya mans the p*ssy


All yall coli girls on here hate your biological nature to compete and take men away from other women

Stop lying there is something to this :umad:
 

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I am a woman, and I am going by my real life experience. I do not compete for men.
He is going by his interpretations/opinions of what he has observed and the type of women that he has chosen to deal with. I am going by what I am living and experiencing.

All women do not do that, only a certain type. The type the he deals with. The immature type. It's probably best to stay away from those type of women if you're looking for a relationship.
We can't agree on this one sorry. The fact that not on woman could be honest about this topic in here is telling. This ain't women bashing just harsh reality, women compete with each other. It has nothing to do with immaturity.
 

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I dislike competition. If there's competition, I'd just kill them hoes.

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you turning me on with that crazy talk young lady!
 
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