NYC heads, school me on interborough dating?

[igottabaldhead]

My lease is running up in westchester and i want to move to the boroughs next. Ive “dated” women from the city (as in i just met them at their cribs really, not longterm)
But im curious about the dating aspect when you live there fulltime.

for example, if i lived in harlem, would a woman from astoria queens not want to date me? (Im speaking travel wise)

If I lived in Jackson heights queens, would women from Washington heights even consider dating me?

if i lived in the bronx, does that basically block off all brooklyn women from considering me?

I just wanna get the most ideal social location for my crib. Would suck to always meet great dating options who like you, but they dont wanna mess with me cause im “too out the way” for them

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[EBK String]

 

[igottabaldhead]

The city is a big place that can take you easily 45+ mins getting from one spot to the next. I know because i work with clients from Bronx down to long island. what is crazy about my question?

 

[Blankthawtz]

Harlem nikkaz love Brooklyn shorties but we don't get along with BK nikkaz.... Stay strapped....

 

[ExodusNirvana]

The city is a big place that can take you easily 45+ mins getting from one spot to the next. I know because i work with clients from Bronx down to long island. what is crazy about my question?

Your question is crazy because unless you live in hoods that got beef with each other or some shyt, it's not an issue

 

[igottabaldhead]

Your question is crazy because unless you live in hoods that got beef with each other or some shyt, it's not an issue

Nahhh breh I strictly meant in a distance/traveling wise thing, not neighborhood beef lmao.

like ive heard girls in Manhattan openly dub dudes in Jersey who were only like 30 mins away, because “he’s too far”

that’s all i meant,

 

[BigMoneyGrip]

Who mans is this?

 

[kingofnyc]

 

[morris]

As a grown person a woman will date you if she likes you. Used to have one drive from Crying to me in the city in the weekends.

And you might want to either learn the bus routes or occasionally get a taxi or Uber if it's cross town to save time. A train ride from the city to Jackson Heights could be long, but is usually quicker via car once you cross that bridge.

 

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[desjardins]

We live in an era where ppl get flewed out
I’ve had women who lived in other states drive and stay with me on weekends for weeks/months
If someone not willing to catch the subway to come thru they not that into you breh

 

[igottabaldhead]

As a grown person a woman will date you if she likes you. Used to have one drive from Crying to me in the city in the weekends.

And you might want to either learn the bus routes or occasionally get a taxi or Uber if it's cross town to save time. A train ride from the city to Jackson Heights could be long, but is usually quicker via car once you cross that bridge.

thank you breh, i was just asking a logical question that came to mind based on comments ive heard NY women make, idk why dudes so quick to get jokes off on everything

 

[ExodusNirvana]

Nahhh breh I strictly meant in a distance/traveling wise thing, not neighborhood beef lmao.

like ive heard girls in Manhattan openly dub dudes in Jersey who were only like 30 mins away, because “he’s too far”

that’s all i meant,

If a woman likes you she will legit travel 2 hours, rain, sleet, hail, snow, whatever

 

[HarlemHottie]

I see your point. I assume you drive...?

 

[Manolo]

You can, I have a lot of stories both good and bad, but most NYCers don’t leave their hoods. Even though online dating is big now, I personally find meeting women in person (esp in NYC) to the best method. Late last year I met a girl from Queens online who I’d never seen in person. She came over a few days later and looked nothing like her pics but because she traveled over an hour to me, I felt conflicted and let her stay. To be safe I’d say go out in the boroughs you wanna meet girls in so even if she lives far from you, you two have actually met first and she may wanna see you again. Rather than shooting shots on Tinder at girls you never met in Sheepshead Bay