NYC heads, school me on interborough dating?

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It depends on you and it depends on the girl. Driving or not, do you really want to go from Brooklyn to the Bronx for some chick when it’s snowing out?
 

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London isn’t NYC - his questions are stupid as shyt. The ramblings of a Socially maladjusted mental case.

because it’s a dumb fukkin question. Y’all stay letting these undercover Reddit cacs troll in this space. That’s why.
London and New York are similar his question is valid if you live in the opposite side of london as someone else with no car you could be in a long distance relationship. Throw in careers etc and it could make the logistics a nightmare
 

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To be honest, I don't date outside of my borough.

And even within my borough, it tends to be within certain neighborhoods by function of proximity

Right. I can live in Clinton Hill, but if you meet someone and she lives in Brighton Beach, that's easily a $50 cab ride in one direction. The train ride is like going from Brooklyn to Harlem, if not longer. Having a whip is very advantageous in this city despite the push for public transportation.
 

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Nahhh breh I strictly meant in a distance/traveling wise thing, not neighborhood beef lmao.

like ive heard girls in Manhattan openly dub dudes in Jersey who were only like 30 mins away, because “he’s too far”

that’s all i meant,

Jersey to Manhattan is far. If you don't drive, you're at the mercy of NJ Transit or the PATH train. If you're from Jersey and you're talking to a woman from Manhattan, if you want to her to come over I legitimately think it's fair to pay for her Uber. Between the trains and if she has to take the bus, it could be hours before she gets to your door. Jersey isn't accessible like NYC is. I don't date women from Jersey.

Btw this is actually a good thread for those that aren't too familiar with the NYC Metro Area.

OP, bring your car with you to the city. You will not regret it. It's going to be a hassle finding parking sometimes, but if you wake up early for alternate side, you'll be fine.
 

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I strictly dated woman from
Manhattan when i was in that life. Born and raised round soho. Even fukked long island girls.

never messed with girls from staten island (to far)

the bronx came into the picture when i got a car and taking the train was a gamble late night.

dated chicks post gentrified bk and was great because how close it was to manhattan.

Its weird. They say never date a chick in your area, but when you broke and live in manhattan, its a no brainer.
 

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London and New York are similar his question is valid if you live in the opposite side of london as someone else with no car you could be in a long distance relationship. Throw in careers etc and it could make the logistics a nightmare

You’re not going to post from London and tell me about NYC. Fuk up UKak. You don’t leave your computer to speak on interaction . Dumb ass foreign Downton Flabby white boys fronting online.
 

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Why would someone from the NYC metro even have to ask this question?

my mans is from westchester and his girl in High School was from Harlem.

something ain’t right about this question, interbourough dating has never been an issue if they like you.

He could hop right on the Metro North and see her. MN is a bit more than your standard train ride, but it's extremely efficient. I've gone to Connecticut a ton and I can get to certain spots within an hour if not less from Grand Central. If his girl lived in East Harlem, he can take the Westchester line and literally be there in a half hour because it services less stops. I'm talking to someone who lives in Greenwich at the moment. I would be there within 45 minutes if I took the train.
 

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He could hop right on the Metro North and see her. MN is a bit more than your standard train ride, but it's extremely efficient. I've gone to Connecticut a ton and I can get to certain spots within an hour if not less from Grand Central. If his girl lived in East Harlem, he can take the Westchester line and literally be there in a half hour because it services less stops. I'm talking to someone who lives in Greenwich at the moment. I would be there within 45 minutes if I took the train.
Hudson and Bergen counties in New Jersey are about the same distance but I realize when people claim NJ, it’s usually places that are way further out
 

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He could hop right on the Metro North and see her. MN is a bit more than your standard train ride, but it's extremely efficient. I've gone to Connecticut a ton and I can get to certain spots within an hour if not less from Grand Central. If his girl lived in East Harlem, he can take the Westchester line and literally be there in a half hour because it services less stops. I'm talking to someone who lives in Greenwich at the moment. I would be there within 45 minutes if I took the train.

yep, harlem 125th MN station goes directly thru both bronx and westchester stops all local. I may not live in the city, but ive worked in the city long enough to know what im talking about.

My question wasnt crazy at all, these dudes are so extra lol i doubt alot even have the dating experience im referring to
 

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If a woman likes you she will legit travel 2 hours, rain, sleet, hail, snow, whatever
im saying...i had one drive 2 hours in a snowstorm to stay with me at my place for a weekend...she brought big bottles of wine and we got it crackin lol
 
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