NYC heads, school me on interborough dating?

Patrick Kane

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Nahhh breh I strictly meant in a distance/traveling wise thing, not neighborhood beef lmao.

like ive heard girls in Manhattan openly dub dudes in Jersey who were only like 30 mins away, because “he’s too far”

that’s all i meant,

nikka it’s NYC, a whole damn city.

No chicks in Harlem thinking “nah this nikka live in Brooklyn I’m not dating him” :mjtf:

You getting pressed cause it’s a weird ass question. People are grown with their own vehicles or use Uber/Public Transit and NYC got some of the best in the world. It’s no issue getting around the city and if someone wants to see you, they’ll see you.
 

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I live in london and honestly this is somewhat a valid question. I ended up not going on a date with a chick because she loved way too far and she was career focused so I knew meeting on a working day would almost be impossible
 

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Brooklyn keeps on taking it.
My lease is running up in westchester and i want to move to the boroughs next. Ive “dated” women from the city (as in i just met them at their cribs really, not longterm)
But im curious about the dating aspect when you live there fulltime.

for example, if i lived in harlem, would a woman from astoria queens not want to date me? (Im speaking travel wise)

If I lived in Jackson heights queens, would women from Washington heights even consider dating me?

if i lived in the bronx, does that basically block off all brooklyn women from considering me?

I just wanna get the most ideal social location for my crib. Would suck to always meet great dating options who like you, but they dont wanna mess with me cause im “too out the way” for them:manny:

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If you or the girl have a car you can date anyone in the entire tri state area honestly but if you and her are some transportation shyt then yes it will be very annoying living in the Bronx and dating someone who lives all the way in far rockaway. That’s like a damn 2 hour train ride and using Uber all the time will be a waste of money.

I’ve had my own car since 21 so dating all over the tri state was never an issue, I was in Bridgeport, CT last weekend with a girl.
 

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Why would someone from the NYC metro even have to ask this question?

my mans is from westchester and his girl in High School was from Harlem.

something ain’t right about this question, interbourough dating has never been an issue if they like you.

harlem is also directly on the metro north line, which would make that an easy trek for both of them breh.

i was asking a general question, like someone in riverdale BX dating someone in far rockaway.

And i have personally seen girls dub ppl for this exact reason lol. Maybe im just around fickle types (rich young preppy women in soho, where my office is based)
 

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I don't think it matters unless she lives in the BX :huhldup:


Nah but it depends on what type of chick she is. I've dated chicks from all 5 boroughs when I lived in Manhattan and Jersey City. I just had to educate a few on using the PATH train when I was in NJ.
 
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