NYC heads, school me on interborough dating?

[HarlemHottie]

No chicks in Harlem thinking “nah this nikka live in Brooklyn I’m not dating him”

I dated Brooklyn nikkas almost exclusively, but they had to come see me. The two from uptown/ bx paid for the cab.

yeah, i have a car here now, but basically everyone is telling me to leave it at my fam’s crib and come to the city without it. (They say More of a hassle to park and stuff then the benefit of having it)

I agree about the hassle, but everybody I know with reliable parking loves having a car here. Esp during covid.

Well, imo, you would have to be very compelling to get me to travel to another borough. But, then again, I'm not really your typical rough and tumble nyc girl so it might work for yall. I guess it depends on the type of women you deal with.

 

[UberEatsDriver]

Btw I don’t think his question is dumb.


A girl from New Jersey and a girl from Freeport Long Island wouldn’t date me because of my location in Brooklyn. Having a car didn’t help either.

their reasoning was also confusing but some people will only date people who are local.

 

[ExodusNirvana]

harlem is also directly on the metro north line, which would make that an easy trek for both of them breh.

i was asking a general question, like someone in riverdale BX dating someone in far rockaway.

And i have personally seen girls dub ppl for this exact reason lol. Maybe im just around fickle types (rich young preppy women in soho, where my office is based)

Those women are stupid and there's a reason why many of them in this city are single as fukk

 

[Phantum]

Those women are stupid and there's a reason why many of them in this city are single as fukk

You'll always run into those types. A few tried to look at me funny when I said I lived in JC but I could practically anywhere in the city faster than them and have a nicer apartment.

 

[UberEatsDriver]

If you are into hipster woman good luck cause those girls never leave their gentrified neighborhoods

 

[Manolo]

If you are into hipster woman good luck cause those girls never leave their gentrified neighborhoods

Facts and they rarely date outside their social circles

 

[Rell Lauren]

This is a very big city. If you're dating someone from another borough, it may as well be a long distance relationship. I don't check for anyone from the Bronx or Upper Manhattan (Harlem/Washington Heights) or Queens.

 

[WaveMolecules]

If you drive it’s not an issue.

I’m in queens and mostly dated in queens but have had girls in the city and BK.
Not trying to go to the BX or SI so she’s gotta be Naomi russsel to make that hike.

 

[BigMoneyGrip]

Btw I don’t think his question is dumb.


A girl from New Jersey and a girl from Freeport Long Island wouldn’t date me because of my location in Brooklyn. Having a car didn’t help either.

their reasoning was also confusing but some people will only date people who are local.

Breh I’m from the BX and my wife from East New York it don’t get no opposite than that

 

[WaveMolecules]

Breh I’m from the BX and my wife from East New York it don’t get no opposite than that

she was obviously worth it. That’s not a trek I make for fun

 

[Ironman]

As long as they like you distance doesn't matter bruh If you don't drive traveling by train will be annoying if you live in Queens trying to get to BK/BX but if she's worth it fukk it

 

[Nicole0416_718_929_646212]

I live in london and honestly this is somewhat a valid question. I ended up not going on a date with a chick because she loved way too far and she was career focused so I knew meeting on a working day would almost be impossible

London isn’t NYC - his questions are stupid as shyt to those who actually live here. The ramblings of a Socially maladjusted mental case.

Why can't nikkas just answer his question lol nikkas always gotta be extra.

because it’s a dumb fukkin question. Y’all stay letting these undercover Reddit cacs troll in this space. That’s why. If you want to entertain these dumbass digital black face cacs trolling on here, that’s on you.

 

[Nicole0416_718_929_646212]

As long as they like you distance doesn't matter bruh If you don't drive traveling by trail will be annoying if you live in Queens trying to get to BK/BX but if she's worth it fukk it

OP ain’t black - don’t waste your energy

 

[Ironman]

OP ain’t black - don’t waste your energy

 

[NaijaProdigy Redux]

To be honest, I don't date outside of my borough.

And even within my borough, it tends to be within certain neighborhoods by function of proximity