This conflict has everything to do with how their government treats their own people and it shows why they can't be allowed to have nuclear weapons and ballistic missiles. Iran's actions in this conflict of indiscriminate killings and bombings have laid that bare.

every side is doing heinous shyt. If we going by what people do with their bombs neither Iran, Israel or the U.S should be allowed to have them. They all killing innocent folks like it's a sport.
You are in this thread trying to push "why don't more people complain about Iran doing fukked up shyt" which is valid in the sense that they are doing fukked up shyt and acting like they are "good guys" is straight up moronic. But you can't act like both sides don't have enough ammo to do whataboutism whenever they feel like it, because everyone involved has a fukk ton of instances of shyt that could be argued justifies a retaliation of some sort.
Hell, Bahrein and Saudi have done fukked up shyt on their own people as well. I don't see what's the point of doing "no no, THEY are the problem" when you can pull receipts in most of the players in the region.
I think you're wrong. The reason there is so much tension and violence in the region is because Iran has armed it's proxies to the teeth. See Lebanon, see Syria, see Yemen and see Iraq. It doesn't take a miracle. Iran failed in Syria. Iran failed and or are close to failing in Lebanon. It's time for governments to stop putting their hands in the air and walking away.
Iran is a major destabilizer, but not the origin of the region’s problems. Most of the region’s conflicts existed before Iran’s current regime and are shaped by local politics, colonial borders, resource competition, and failed states. Iran pours gasoline in any fire it can find and is a huge problem, for sure, but it did not starts those fires. Thinking that with them being a "good boy" shyt gets fixed is reductionist and naive, imo. And for them to become a "good boy" -which again, I don't see as the grand solution of this shyt- you probably have to commit worse levels of atrocities you hate about them.