She probably became this delusional for several reasons:
- Attractive (If she lost a considerable amount of weight, she could probably find that attractive fit guy she's looking for and she'll still probably find a simp version of what she's looking for on the market despite her current state)
- Light skin (The reality is that many men worship and kiss the ground that anything light-skin walks on)
- Gamer chick (Shes a gamer. Online gaming is mostly dudes, and dudes pretending to be women. So when gamers find an actual woman in gaming, they get crazy. So crazy that Lea "LegendaryLea" May can get a donation of $21,000 in one shot just for letting guys watch her play a game. So yea, they're probably desperately attempting to get her attention and telling her how beautiful she is and are failing miserably but building up her ego while she laughs at them
Still, she can actually find what she's looking for if she actually put the effort in to make herself better. She has the right to request good qualities in a partner. Everyone has that right. No one should want ugly, disrespectful, etc. If you had a mother or sister in her current state, you wouldn't want them to settle for less.
She want's a guy who is handsome, sweet, genuine, intelligent, fit, respectful and can give provide a list of flaws. But she's confused as hell. Right off the bat, she say's, "I'm tired of men who aren't what I'm looking for messaging me." But what if the guys messaging her believe that they're handsome and fit like she thinks her body type is "average."
Furthermore, she claims to be looking primarily for "friends," but since when did being "fit" and "attractive" become criteria for friends.
Why is she looking for "friends" and not something serious. At 28, and a single mother, shouldn't she be looking for a father that would be a good role model to her kid? Someone who will hopefully set the foundation to help that kid deal with relationships in the future?
And she so quick to demand those list of flaws that she doesn't even recognize her own:
- single mother who has never been married
- pushing 30 and most likely doesn't have a stable career as she's in school
- morbidly obese (ok maybe not morbidly, but she can stand to lose 75lbs)
- complete and utter lack of self-awareness
- desperate (signed up on multiple dating websites)
- c00n
- liar (talking about her body type is "about average"