Old Heads That Arent Married
- Thread starter CHILLL
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What's wrong with you?
Ashley Banks
All I ever wanted was the world
I don't know...it just hasn't happened yet.
when it does I better be invited to the wedding
mbewane
Knicks: 93 til infinity
Interesting that you call marriage the "final step" in a relationship...
I joined #GMB it changed my life 
For the better
For the better
When I say final step, I mean the final step functioning as two individuals. I feel that marriage is a completely new journey and not just a continuation of a relationship if that makes sense.
You ain't see shyt, you just wanted to be a c*nt.At the moment, nothing.
edit - i see what you were saying now
I haven't figured my career out yet either. Plus I am nowhere ready for kids (and I see that as happening quickly after marriage).
I got too many other problems too. I can't even figure my shyt out. How am I gonna get married?
I recently lost a very long term relationship because of this.
Looks like I'm not getting married until mid to late 30s now. I'm 32.
I'm gonna keep it light with mid twenty year olds.
There was actually an interesting article on NPR that said more people are waiting until they are "together" before they get married and while it makes sense, I don't think it's the best move in a lot of cases. The "right" person (if that exists) isnt' going to mind that you're not at the top of your game as long as you have a plan to get there and I don't think a relationship is or should be a hindrance to meeting your goals.
Honestly, The more you wait until you're together, the less beneficial you find the opposite sex...unless it's just for sex. That's my opinion anyway.
mbewane
Knicks: 93 til infinity
I get your point, and your pov makes sense. I just feel it's a continuation of what has been built over the years (most people I know who have married have been living together for years, might even already have kids together) so it doesn't really feel to them as a "new" journey, more so a new step in what has been going on. Plus over here (Belgium-France) people don't care much about religion so marriage is less of a big thing.
No. I see what you were saying in your second post,"whats wrong with you". I was actually asking for real but whatevs.
Im still a big kid and a bit of a loner, so I'd make a great father but a lousy husband.
None of the girls I dated were high quality enough to introduce to the folks, and think of settling down with..
My folks already had to deal with 2 divorces in the family, I didnt want to hurt them further with another child of theirs failing at marriage.
Ive seen enough illicit shyt to know I dont trust these women out here no matter how innocent they appear..thats really whats holding me back, I dont trust these hoes and I see them as being wishy washy and deceptive..
None of the girls I dated were high quality enough to introduce to the folks, and think of settling down with..
My folks already had to deal with 2 divorces in the family, I didnt want to hurt them further with another child of theirs failing at marriage.
Ive seen enough illicit shyt to know I dont trust these women out here no matter how innocent they appear..thats really whats holding me back, I dont trust these hoes and I see them as being wishy washy and deceptive..
The Embellished Bell Hair
The most belling
I've never been cool. I didn't lose my virginity till I was 25. What the fukk do I give about a chick to get married to one?