Only single chicks wouldn't take back a cheater

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I think the OP's only major mistake is speaking in absolutes. Yes, some 'good' women will leave a 'good' man with resources and break apart a family after one incidence of cheating; yes, there are women that will cheat for 100% physical reasons. Yet these exceptions don't disprove the genral rule. Mountains of research and data point to men and women choosing partners and straying for distinct reasons. A man's power and resources are positively correlated with his potential dating pool while a women's power and resources are negatively correlated with her dating pool size. Also, if we rate people's looks from 1-10 (impossible to do, but humor me), I strongly suspect that for every number higher a man and women are on the looks scale, the women's dating pool size will increase exponentially higher than the man's. Put all of this together and the OP's conclusions, though maybe uncomfortable, are not at as crazy as some seem to believe.
 

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I bet @xXOGKILLERXx will ignore this. He keeps bringing up Bill and Hillary. Even tried MLK. Those people cared about public image, Tiger wood's ex didn't. She took her millions and moved on.
Which proves OP's point. And Tiger Wood's ex wife didn't have a public image to begin with (or so I don't think she did during at the time) because I didn't even know she was white or what she looked like. But she's an opportunist and a golddigger. After divorcing him and taking hundreds of millions of dollars from him, she went on to date a billionaire LOL.
 

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Good people are becoming collateral damage in todays self absorbed entitlement material culture.

Anyway leave it up to the couple in the situation. I don't think anyone who actually loved someone wakes up wanting to hurt them intentionally.
 

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Cheating is not in every mans dna stop it
I'm scared of my wife.

I wasn't scared of my ex-wife, but I still didnt cheat, because i was still in that stage where i was scared of p*ssy.


The closest i come to cheatin now is jackin off when i got the crib to myself. I even pull my pants up fast like "you gotta go before my wife gets home"


:dame:
 

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I'm scared of my wife.

I wasn't scared of my ex-wife, but I still didnt cheat, because i was still in that stage where i was scared of p*ssy.


The closest i come to cheatin now is jackin off when i got the crib to myself. I even pull my pants up fast like "you gotta go before my wife gets home"


:dame:
If your not trolling then you's a huge simp ass nikka. And your wife being dikked down by a more masculine, strong man isn't unlikely.

You better get your shyt together, it not for yourself but for your future children because your relationship with your wife will mold their future relationships. Do you want your sons to be simps walking around on eggshells with their girlfriends? Do you want your daughters to be in relationships with weak men who are scared of them? :ufdup:
 

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If your not trolling then you's a huge simp ass nikka. And your wife being dikked down by a more masculine, strong man isn't unlikely.

You better get your shyt together, it not for yourself but for your future children because your relationship with your wife will mold their future relationships. Do you want your sons to be simps walking around on eggshells with their girlfriends? Do you want your daughters to be in relationships with weak men who are scared of them? :ufdup:
Not scared of her like that:mjlol:


Scared of her reaction if i got caught cheatin.

Other than that, I stay hittin her wit the :childplease::rudy::what::dahell::camby:
 
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Stop with this fukkin DNA talk

If you're a cheater don't try to justify it with this nonsense which makes it look like humans have not evolved physically and mentally over the years.
 

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Stop with this fukkin DNA talk

If you're a cheater don't try to justify it with this nonsense which makes it look like humans have not evolved physically and mentally over the years.

I am truly convinced you nikkas either refuse to read or you just can't

It is coded in our DNA to do that shiit. Not justifying it, but it is what it is.
 

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Which proves OP's point. And Tiger Wood's ex wife didn't have a public image to begin with (or so I don't think she did during at the time) because I didn't even know she was white or what she looked like. But she's an opportunist and a golddigger. After divorcing him and taking hundreds of millions of dollars from him, she went on to date a billionaire LOL.
She left him too. She don't play
 

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"Good" men are valued once most women have been through players, bad boys, thugs, men who've dogged them out, used the just for sex then dipped etc. More often times than not they want the "good man" when the dude they really want won't provide them with what they want ie marriage, two kids and a picket fence. But the beta average dude will of course, so he's fine picking after they've been through trauma, drama, abuse, accumulated a lot of relationship baggage etc.

And I ain't even saying this out of being bitter or jaded. A female poster on here said her 22 year old self wouldn't want a Russell Wilson or a Carlton, but her 26 year old self would.
I don't get the Russell Wilson thing, he's literally the opposite of a beta (god i hate that term).

But actually it's a prime example of how the p*ssy confuses reality with perception & expectation. Russell Wilson is a top dawg alpha male, Super bowl winning franchise multimillion dollar QB, 5'10 215 of solid muscle, freak athlete, but because he chooses to be "good" and "wholesome" and doesn't act like Future or Young Thug type savage, women must think he's weak for some reason, but when you look at the objective facts, he's not like a Carlton in really any way. He's got everything women say they want in a dude, the confidence, the build, the success, the intelligence, literally the only thing he don't show is the arrogant swag of a dope boy or a rapper and the demeaning disposition toward females. But because of that he's now relegated sharing to the same space as Urkel and Carlton sexually. HUH?????:what::what::what: How?

He bushed his first wife when he found out she was sleeping with Golden Tate with the quickness, RW ain't no pushover like that, nor is he a weak person. It takes a lot of courage to be the dude of virtue in an NFL locker room. Ya'll ain't givin my boy enough credit here. He's more of an example to follow but we sitting around here talkin down like he's taking L after L like some of ya'll in here. I don't get it.
 
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Women generally don't leave men who cheat because they're still attracted to them.

If you still demonstrate commitment to them they will get over it eventually.

If a woman cheats on a man she has no respect for him, taking her back would be suicide.

Cheating shouldn't be phrased as "good" under any context.

Sure you could get away with it, but you gave your partner your word and going back on your commitment makes you a lesser person.
 
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I don't get the Russell Wilson thing, he's literally the opposite of a beta (god i hate that term).

But actually it's a prime example of how the p*ssy confuses reality with perception & expectation. Russell Wilson is a top dawg alpha male, Super bowl winning franchise multimillion dollar QB, 5'10 215 of solid muscle, freak athlete, but because he chooses to be "good" and "wholesome" and doesn't act like Future or Young Thug type savage, women must think he's weak for some reason, but when you look at the objective facts, he's not like a Carlton in really any way. He bushed his first wife when he found out she was sleeping with Golden Tate with the quickness, RW ain't no pushover like that, nor is he a weak person. It takes a lot of courage to be the dude of virtue in an NFL locker room. Ya'll ain't givin my boy enough credit here. He's more of an example to follow but we sitting around here talkin down like he's taking L after L like some of ya'll in here.

Finally someone with some sense on that topic.

Russell Wilson commands a force of 52 other muscle bound men through his sheer strength and skill.

He isn't any more "beta" than Tom Brady or Cam Newton.

Imagining yourselves as Russell Wilson in any scenario is fukking retarded.
 
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