PANIC Time: If you're around 30 (flabby and sick) and still single.

[Nemesis]

I know this is a troll thread, but damn, I feel bad for some of you dudes.

Y'all are definitely some very late bloomers, on that 2nd childhood/Peter Pan syndrome status. Most of y'all haven't been right your whole damn life, and are now talking about you've reached your peak at 30-32. A lot of your reasons for such is "p*ssy", but damn brehs, I'm sorry with the chicks and numbers posted here, I'd have to say you might as well get a chick cause you're not pulling anything impressive "ratings" or numbers wise, so what's the point.

Y'all sound so childish and foolish, it's hilarious. Y'all are happy about being +30 and still renting apartments and then saying such like it's something good. Guessing you moved out of your parents house at 18, you've been throwing money away for +12 years. Like, you're clearly deficient/immature in other parts of life too and it shows.

Anyway, I don't know any guy who is THAT dude that isn't married or hasn't been married by 30 unless he's a straight up gay. Most dudes who have been that popular/wanted guy, or who are successful are trying their best to find a woman who is down for the cause, not someone to come in to simply reap the benefits of what they've make after the fact.

I know brehs who have done extremely great things, who have accomplished all of their dreams, who have millions of dollars and access to women they would want. Guess what? They didn't make it there on their own. I don't get what people are so afraid of.

LOL..... utter nonsense

only an idiot believes in absolutes.... my fathers younger brother has four wives owns a shipping company and hes happy as hell

His best friend owns a golf course never been married , rich as fukk happy as hell..

Some people just dont want to get married or have kids, its that simple ... not everyone is wired the same and for you to assume that the desire to remain unmarried is due to a lack of immaturity....... highlights your own immaturity....

For every millionaire that was successful due to having a good woman behind him I can think of one who was self made.....

You are one of those dudes (and Im not trying to disrespect you) that leads a 9-5 lifestyle...house married two kids picket fence solid job...etc...etc

problem with people like you is you find it hard to believe that other people dont want what you want and that it must be due to some immaturity on their part why they dont have it....

You have a very closed mind and simple mentality...

try and accept the fact that people want different things in life for different reasons....

If a man is happy being 30+ and married its all good...if hes happy being 30+ and single who are you to say he is childish and foolish just because he doesnt want what you want



grow up..... Try and mature a bit

 

[Stuntone]

I know it's cool to pretend to be alright with being still single well into your 30s. Lying saying "I like being single." You're a damn lie. Don't lie to yourself. That's cool if you in-shape, money right and still look young. But most of you all best day's are looonng gone. You fatter, you broker and uglier than you ever been. You got that nasty gut pouch! How you figure you're going to find the person of your dreams?


If you're not dating the best women or men of your life right now, that means you're past your prime. You need to be locking the next best thing you can find. The dating pool gets smaller as you get older, unless you're looking to date 30s/40s blk women. There a lot of them in the most major city.

Especially women, how long you going wait for Mr. Right? You think about what Mr. Right is looking for? Probably not you. He hasn't picked you after all this time.

Ladies and gents stop chasing dreams and lying to yourself. You know you'd love to be sitting the beach with someone you're in love with. A lot of you are in danger of being the taco meat showing, gold nugget geneva jewerly wearing old man in the club. And a lot of you women and next in the old, police calling, nose azz creepy cat lady line. Find you someone nice to love and do nice things with and settle down. I did. Old men look real creepy/gay when they're 40 with no kids and wife.

I said if you're still in-shape and your money is str8, this doesn't really apply to you. Some of you are so bytchmade, you start arguing before you comprehend what you read.

 

[Stuntone]

I will say this, regardless how you look and how much you have. Being 50+ with no kids or a loving mate around when your parent and relatives are passing. You will be miserable and lonely. I lost my grandmother and 2 cousins got murdered in the same week. My mom and grandmother were like sisters. If she didn't have our family love it would be so hard to keep going on. That made me realize that this playa life and having no kids mentality is cool in your 20s and 30s, but when you get older, you going to need that family love. You might get injured badly and sick, who are you going to call? Who's going to check on you and come take care of you?

My grandma died smiling with a house full of family and love ones. Do you want to die alone in some old folk home? Unless you're wired totally different from most humans.

 

[Mr Hate Coffee]

I'm the opposite, no matter what I always seem to find myself in the company of a nice lady that wants to lock me down. Relationships are cool, but extremely overrated at times. Some of yall need to work on your co-dependency issues.

31, single, no kids, got rid of the HIV, good car,good condo, best shape of my life and smashin the type of women early 20s yr old that wouldnt have given me play back in the day. life is great!

So we just gonna ignore this!??!?

 

[Nemesis]

I will say this, regardless how you look and how much you have. Being 50+ with no kids or a loving mate around when your parent and relatives are passing. You will be miserable and lonely. I lost my grandmother and 2 cousins got murdered in the same week. My mom and grandmother were like sisters. If she didn't have our family love it would be so hard to keep going on. That made me realize that this playa life and having no kids mentality is cool in your 20s and 30s, but when you get older, you going to need that family love. You might get injured badly and sick, who are you going to call? Who's going to check on you and come take care of you?

My grandma died smiling with a house full of family and love ones. Do you want to die alone in some old folk home? Unless you're wired totally different from most humans.

you are obviously young......

why is it so difficult to comprehend that just because you like something and it suits you then it should be the same as everyone else

Look Im straight and I cant comprehend how a dude could be attracted to another dude, but that doesnt mean that I believe that If you are gay then you must be unhappy....

I know people who are happy and married I know people who are happy and single of all ages....



grow up

 

[Stuntone]

you are obviously young......

why is it so difficult to comprehend that just because you like something and it suits you then it should be the same as everyone else

Look Im straight and I cant comprehend how a dude could be attracted to another dude, but that doesnt mean that I believe that If you are gay then you must be unhappy....

I know people who are happy and married I know people who are happy and single of all ages....



grow up

You know someone that's 50+ with no kids or anyone that really cares about them around and they are happy?

 

[Nemesis]

You know someone that's 50+ with no kids or anyone that really cares about them around and they are happy?

my Uncle on my mothers side, hes her older brother, in his 60s never married never wanted kids, got tons of friends and we are a close family, hes happy as fukk

my pops best friend, hes a rich dude that never wanted to get married or have kids, they are both happy....

I know quite a few people like that, and all of them have friends and family that care about them...

I know its hard to comprehend but some people prefer to live life alone...we are all different

 

[TEKBEATZ]

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[DaRealness]

You learn something new everyday in this place.

I swear, some of you jokers really kill me on here.

So let's see, on the one hand people (rightly) complain about grown ass dudes with their pants sagging, no ambition in life, still living with their mother etc.

But yet, you have a man who is 30+, works hard....basically that pretty much has his shyt together, who, at the moment may be single and/or is not looking to get married for whatever the reason may be and now suddenly men like that are "selfish" and part of the problem or downfall of the family unit? So what about all the many single "independent" women who are like 40+ without kids? Do they get a pass?

How do you know maybe a dude isn't trying to work on himself and improve his personal circumstances so that when he eventually does get hitched (married or just living with a woman) he could be a great asset to his other half? Why do you not think that maybe he has just as much a right to be selective about the kind of partner he wants as women do? What if he doesn't want to risk everything he ever worked hard for being sabotaged by some chick with an ulterior motive? Or if he's just happy and content within himself and doesn't want or need to change things, what is it to you?

So what man in any scenario is the ideal for some of you fools?

As for calling single men who are 30+ without children "suspect"....grow the fukk up. Those kind of shaming tactics are just immature and really starting to wear thin now.

Do your thing and let other people do theirs. You ain't fukking paying anyone else's bills but your own.

 

[Stuntone]

my Uncle on my mothers side, hes her older brother, in his 60s never married never wanted kids, got tons of friends and we are a close family, hes happy as fukk

my pops best friend, hes a rich dude that never wanted to get married or have kids, they are both happy....

I know quite a few people like that, and all of them have friends and family that care about them...

I know its hard to comprehend but some people prefer to live life alone...we are all different

Do you live with him?

I've never met anyone that was happy as fukk. So many people and front like they're happy. Most humans are never satisfied or happy for long. That's just life. You don't know who's happy or content.

 

[Nemesis]

Do you live with him?

I've never met anyone that was happy as fukk. So many people and front like they're happy. Most humans are never satisfied or happy for long. That's just life. You don't know who's happy or content.

you are contradicting yourself....

If thats the case then why are you assuming that most married people arent fronting.... do you live with them?

 

[TLR Is Mental Poison]

Any man who knocks the next man's choices or projects their opinions/values on everyone else shouldn't be taken seriously...

 

[DaRealness]

Any man who knocks the next man's choices or projects their opinions/values on everyone else shouldn't be taken seriously...

Exactly. I don't know why some people on here always concern themselves with how others choose to their lives as if it has a personal effect on them.

 

[Huellz Santana]

for the last time...

why don't you nikkas just live your lives the way you want and not worry about the other side??!?! each post in this thread is someone trying to justify their position on the issue and convince the other side why its the way to go

i gives a fukk if you wanna get married and do daddy day care or be on some clooney shyt.

DO YOU​

 

[DaChampIsHere]

So by that logic shouldnt you be rolling around in cash by now seeing as your the product of a few generations working hard for the next?

I somewhat am breh. Sometimes I imagine if my family never strived or pushed for better just because they didn't "feel" like doing something.

LOL..... utter nonsense
only an idiot believes in absolutes.... my fathers younger brother has four wives
His best friend owns a golf course never been married , rich as fukk happy as hell..
Some people just dont want to get married or have kids, its that simple ... not everyone is wired the same and for you to assume that the desire to remain unmarried is due to a lack of immaturity....... highlights your own immaturity....
For every millionaire that was successful due to having a good woman behind him I can think of one who was self made.....
You are one of those dudes (and Im not trying to disrespect you) that leads a 9-5 lifestyle...house married two kids picket fence solid job...etc...etc
problem with people like you is you find it hard to believe that other people dont want what you want and that it must be due to some immaturity on their part why they dont have it....
You have a very closed mind and simple mentality...
try and accept the fact that people want different things in life for different reasons....
If a man is happy being 30+ and married its all good...if hes happy being 30+ and single who are you to say he is childish and foolish just because he doesnt want what you want
grow up..... Try and mature a bit

Breh, I actually have my own business and I work for myself. Nice try though. The funny thing is, you'll tell me I'm being immature for putting people into a box and then do the same thing to me. Typing "you're immature" several times over, doesn't make you any more right when you do the same thing as me.

You keep talking about "immaturity", but who wants to be old, sick, and alone? I'm sorry but people build their own families to take care of them, not to take care of someone else who couldn't get it together. Don't be that person who wants the allegiance of a child or wife, but wants to make everyone else fill in that position because they were too stubborn to ever see the value of such things.

There's no way you can get me to believe that a fully heterosexual male who isn't anti-social is saying "I never want a wife or a woman to stick by me and I want to die alone".

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