1. You’re talking about a black adult woman learning etiquette to move at a certain socioeconomic level vs women who have understood this etiquette since they were little girls… huge difference.Etiquette like what? Black women can't be taught etiquette?
You think ball players come into the NBA with etiquette?
2. They don’t come in with it. But their status and situations force them to adapt or be less successful. They are forced to by their lifestyle.