This method doesn't work unless you spend the money on cars, clothes, and other material items that show that you have money. I don't know why people keep repeating this bullshyt.
approaching sober > when drunkI was curbed a few times yesterday trying to holla at chicks at some club. Sucks because a few cuties gave me the eye but I was on some gay shyt. Gotta take more shots and start doing cold approaches but I'm #teamaverage with awkward black dude swag
. Sucks because I don't think most black chicks that I approach get my sense of humor (unfortunately for me, I don't date non blacks to try it on them). Chicks that know me love me (okay, they think i'm decent
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You're doing things that show off that you have money, which was my point.
. I've also had gum fly out too. "suck never chew" I take Ls but I dish em out too I got no problem hollering at babes.
Timing and atmosphere. (I can elaborate for a small fee)
But anyway nikka... If I'm around some hos and I'm not hollering I call that discipline.. Not gay
lol thing about being sober is you will notice elements of body language easier and can control / direct the conversation to where you want it easier as wellYeah, I need to work on that. I've had some terrible moments when drunk trying to talk to females. I was in Atlanta a few months back talking to some chick and had some tic tacs fly out of my mouth
Yeah, sometimes I forget that I'm on a forum and that word usage is very important. I mean acting shy/scary because there were chicks that i wanted but i made excuses. When i finally started getting at chicks it was pretty late and I was ready to leave. And timing is def important because people aren't watching but people def are.
I was curbed a few times yesterday trying to holla at chicks at some club
I ain't talking about family or one or two dudes who like the shyt you may say. Like more in particular, are there instances when you've attracted ladies based off of said Humour? 'cause you really gotta step back and look at the type of shyt you be saying, see who laughs and who finds offense, and find ya lane.
Do other people get your sense of humour, though?
'Cause as funny as alot of people tell me I am, with all the shyt I talk and done and endured, I know the type of chicks I can pull with my humour and way of thinking so I fukk with with that group and politely slide out of instances where I'm caught up with chicks that ain't like my Katt Williams style of cussing and absurdity and don't even waste my time, I just keep that shyt moving.
I've seen too many dudes linger on chicks that ain't feelin' 'em and the shyt they talking, yet they steady driving to the basket and the whistle done been blowed and the coach is waving 'em out.
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Yeah, I need to work on that. I've had some terrible moments when drunk trying to talk to females. I was in Atlanta a few months back talking to some chick and had some tic tacs fly out of my mouth
Yeah, sometimes I forget that I'm on a forum and that word usage is very important. I mean acting shy/scary because there were chicks that i wanted but i made excuses. When i finally started getting at chicks it was pretty late and I was ready to leave. And timing is def important because people aren't watching but people def are.
Other people get it. I'd say i'm okay and i do have an audience. When I'm trying, i'm gold baby!! I'm also an a$$hole and i'm extremely (can't stress this enough) short with people so that doesn't help me. I have more of a hannibal buress/ george castanza sense of humor (so you gotta somewhat be a weirdo or not take yourself seriously) and when I do holla at chicks i'd say 35 to 45 percent of the time I get their number. The thing that women don't like is insecurity and when meeting them, i sometimes have self deprecating humor (which can be annoying). And nah, i don't linger at all. In fact, i usually leave too early. Was recently talking to a girl, she went to talk to her friend who was standing right next to her and I just left. Saw her later and she was like "where did you go? I was looking for you.". I was like, thought you weren't interested
I usually make others laugh and while I never say shyt that I don't find funny myself, It's a rare find when a chick has me cracking up over her observation and we just entertaining each other on some bullshyt, sober or otherwise.
Way better wish I could see their reactions
