Peridot Cares: Step 2 - Securing the Smash

Larry Lambo

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@PeridotPuss @live it to the limit @claymatthewshot



Game doesn't matter? She knew she was gonna fukk me before I even started spitting? :dahell:

Why can't you just let nikkas know this shyt, immediately? :dahell:

All I got is personality and charm, don't take that away from me :damn:


Women like to say this, but I'd take that information with a grain of salt.

More than likely, if you said what was on your mind to a woman, you would not have sex with her (I am not referring to stating what your intentions are, just other things that you would typically say in a normal conversation with a friend). Having "game" still matters.

They think when we "talk ourselves out of the pu**y", that we are really engaging in abnormal, deviant behavior.

But we aren't, we are just not playing the song and dance and aren't portraying some uber confident, ultra suave, no flaw having individual . We are actually displaying normal human behavior. .

But since they are so used dudes to men portraying themselves as flawless, they expect that to be the norm.

How you portray yourself and what you say does matter. It can't make a woman that isn't attracted to you take her clothes off. But 80% of the possible things you could say or do around a woman would turn her off if she was attracted to you. So playing the game, and portraying yourself as a confident, intelligent, man with strong social skills and that has never made a real mistake in life, is imperative.
 

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If niccas need to manual to acquire the cat , they automatically lost .
"Yea...but dat don't mean yu can't help 'um mayne."
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The nikka that can't pull trim today:lolbron:, going to go pull a trigger tomorrow, man.:mjcry::deadrose::dead:
 

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But at the end of the day If you make a girl laugh a few times its over breh... you have created interest and some glimmer of a connection if nothing else. Dudes think about if they can smash and girls think about if they can chill (be comfortable) around you

:salute:
:salute:This man knows about it. There are SO MANY different type of dudes hollering at chicks out here but they all auditioning for the leading fukking roles in the 'who this nikka talking to me?' scenarios when meeting women.

:smugdraper:Playboys that got money and can take you places you see in magazines and rap videos. (I ain't that or willing to go broke tryin' to redman BE DAT:whoa:)

Buff nikkas looking prison hard swole or them skinny in shape cats who wear baggy basketball shorts and slippers, with 10 pack abs. (Can't get that tall, can't get that malnourished or willing to get that buff)

Tupac in a business suit type dudes looking corporate but got three pending charges for assault and done made his name on some 'Pookie from Richmond' type rep shyt. (I ain't about either of them lives and I ain't getting shot trying to either)

Be the nikka that can make a chick laugh. Especially if you ain't already transitioned into one of those roles and you out here crying on the inside wanting to know why you can't get girls. Make 'em laugh if you can or at the very least, appear interesting. The amount of times I find myself in American Strip clubs, fukk around and make casual conversation with some pretty cute strippers who all like ':lupe::jbhmm: How long you in town for?' GRANTED...Strippers should be the LAST type of chicks you looking to pull, but these are women who made it their business to chase cats with money and they willing to fukk around with a non-tall, average looking, non money throwing dude on some casual conversation shyt laced with mild flirtation.:sas1:

You make a girl laugh, you got a better chance at making her like you. Might take a bit longer to get to smash...but your odds are better provided you can continue being that 'funny dude' she met, then started kicking it with and is quickly warming up to against a sea of dudes who going ':ufdup: the minute she don't give it up on the first night of ANY sort of interaction.
 

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Im assuming that's not sarcasm so I'll answer honestly....

I'm dead ass breh. So theres a few spots in the city (513) that I'll go out with my boy to because they got drink specials or whatever and shyt is lit. Imagine me and my dude going out would be like.............. outkast.... a pretty boy type dude who could objectively be called good looking and me as an average dude.
:skip:

Mind you im not out there bagging all dimes and shyt BUT the shyt is just too easy. I have a few drinks before I go out (more of a cost/time saving thing than anything) and when im in the spot im ready. As soon as my dude here's me say "its lit" he knows what time it is.
:obama::whew:

I will strike up a convo with a girl over dumb shyt "yo is that toilet paper on your shoe? LOL" or ANYTHING. I started talking to this girl because she had a Reds tshirt on and then I told her im gonna call her Kamaiyah cause she look like Kimora Lee Simmons and Mariah Carey mixed LMAO... shyt made the convo interesting and genuine.....

One time we're out and im fukking drunk..... like should be impeding my game drunk :ufdup:
I see these two snow bunnies taking a selfie and a dude behind them like watching them take a selfie. So im like yoooooooo - old boy back here wants to get in your selfie, what do you think? they said "ok sure but you have to get in too". As soon as I get in, i start chatting them both up and Chad or whatever his name is just dipped because he couldn't make himself interesting enough to get in the scene. My dude ended up coming over and we were having a great time. Girl I was talking to ended up being engaged (thanks facebook) so that was weird... we were unintentionally wingmanning for our friends.

But at the end of the day If you make a girl laugh a few times its over breh... you have created interest and some glimmer of a connection if nothing else. Dudes think about if they can smash and girls think about if they can chill (be comfortable) around you

:salute:
I'm dead serious breh! I wish I had the courage to do that! Problem is that I don't drink or I don't go out!
Great story and advice!:salute:
 

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I'm dead serious breh! I wish I had the courage to do that! Problem is that I don't drink or I don't go out!
Great story and advice!:salute:

Breh - it's hard to be an outgoing/gregarious personality if you never try to put yourself out of your comfort zone so I can feel that. What I would advise you to do is this: talk to girls and only think of them as sexual beings of the opposite gender like 25% of the time. The rest of the time, how do you talk to someone in an engaging manner? How do you intrigue someone or get to know them to know if they are a scrub/worth the time to get to know? Same way you'd do that with a breh, do it with a girl. Then pepper in some jokes or compliments and you're good (for that cold approach).

If it was all about looks, then there would be no mismatches - baddies with ugly/fat dudes, rich girls with scrubs, straight girls with these ambiguous sexuality dudes, etc. There's a reason why shyt doesn't make sense on the surface and statistically speaking it cant always be money or power.

Whatever most people notice about you that's positive...... use that to help you talk to girls. For me its my sense of humor and wit. For you it could be something very different like fashion sense, interesting hobby, whatever.

I got you breh ..... Imma get you cross that finish line my G
 
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Damn, this thread is the opposite of all I need. Sex is too easy to come by, what about the other more serious stuff :jbhmm:

I got to work yesterday and got the bright idea to work in the lounge on the floor where I know this :noah: likes to work. She hasn't been in the building long, but since the first day I saw her she makes it a point to say hey now even when I'm not paying attention. Anyway, I took a seat on the sofa with my laptop/headphones on blast and she came to sit in the chair right across from me. So what did I do?
:lupe:



I ignored the shyt out of her.
:why:


fukked up in less than a week :snoop: @PeridotPuss what's your advice for emotionally retarded lesbians?
 
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like a bytch could lead you to the front door, slide off her sweaty leopard thong, give a nikka the :shaq: and walk inside and instead of following her inside like a gentleman, some nikkas would instead run up on the coli like "#HOH brehs, she tried to make me pick up her drrrrawzz off the ground, i told that bytch, do it herself and go washher flabby ass, dirty bytch! :damn: " and instead no p*ssy was had that day.

Just noticed this :deadrose::deadrose::deadrose::deadrose:
 
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