Peridot Cares: Step 3 - So you think you're ready to commit?
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@PeridotPuss Where does simping factor in
Imagine this kool aid, you tellin your boys found you a fresh fizzy coca-cola shaped new jawn.....real bad, real cool all that, you just imaging you two riding out together, just you and her like....maybe even hit a vacay like
True love. You're feeling it.
But meanwhile, she hates them khakis you wearing, she only on this damn vacation cause you paid for everything and truth be told, she waiting on Mr. Pibb to get his shyt together and text her back so they can link when she land.....and get it popping for real
. This is the picture of simping. When the man is making a fool of himself because the woman is using him.Point is, Kool aid, it's only simping if she doesn't like you.
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Imagine this kool aid, you tellin your boys found you a fresh fizzy coca-cola shaped new jawn.....real bad, real cool all that, you just imaging you two riding out together, just you and her like....maybe even hit a vacay like
True love. You're feeling it.
But meanwhile, she hates them khakis you wearing, she only on this damn vacation cause you paid for everything and truth be told, she waiting on Mr. Pibb to get his shyt together and text her back so they can link when she land.....and get it popping for real
Point is, Kool aid, it's only simping if she doesn't like you.
While this is good, it lacks spiritually, family values, culture, goals and mental awareness of where you want to be. Without what I just mention, you can have a decent relationship but without the foundation, nothing will last and you will always be looking for your next high. There is more to commitment then just being committed with times are good.Please find links to Peridot Cares Steps 1 & 2 below:
http://www.thecoli.com/threads/peridot-cares-step-1-early-stages.357687/
http://www.thecoli.com/threads/peridot-cares-step-2-securing-the-smash.361345/
A lot of folks *think* they want a relationship (cue the nikkas like why?cue the nikkas like when?
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*sigh*
No matter where you coming from here's some basic activities to avoid that often have fukkboys tripping up out the gate, just got a bytch with her fresh waxed p*ssy out wearing your funky ass tshirts, cooking breakfast and shyt and you acting like a fumbling the kickoff ass bullshyt ass nikka:
- Thinking flipping your phone over or keeping it in your pocket is slick and anything less than an invitation for a good and hungry bytch to CIA sweep your whole life.
- Thinking those early fukkups won't come back and bite a nikka. "Only been together two months" is not a hall pass to fukk your ex....and she will be heated no matter how long ago it happened.
- Thinking you know more about someone than you actually do and then wanna come crying to the homies when you find out some shyt you don't like .
- fukking raw in less than 90 days, all them unknowing of each other sexual fluids mixing becomes a witches brew for fukkkery. If yall fukking with no condom and doing so early in .....brace yourself bytch, your whole life will look different next year.
Sooooo you think you're ready to commit?
- Etc., etc., etc.
Lets focus on 3 keywords:
Sex
Intimacy
Relationship
First thing to establish...... nikka, do you know the difference between these three things???????
Second thing to establish before committing to another person and involving their time, emotions and finances. Who are you? What are your needs? What do you have to give? Next, decide if you're seeking....sex, intimacy or relationship.
Clearly, both fukkboys and fukkgirls have major difficulty understanding this information here
Sexual/physical needs = You need a nut or to be physically acknowledged as desirable. You likely can give sexual pleasure and attention.
Intimacy = You may desire, closeness, sharing and excitement ***warning the commitment-phobic are often intimacy addicts***. You can give time but are not willing to compromise your needs.
Relationship = You desire giving, joining, and sacrifice. You are ready to put another's needs before your own. You have love to share.
A lot of men want sex. A lot of women want intimacy. Rarely are either honest or clear about their wants as far as a relationship.Many relationships go awry because one or both parties are often seeking sex and intimacy with no intentions of doing the sometimes difficult shyt the relationship entails.
Now if, if after all this, you know you actually want a relationship?? Do your groundwork, develop yourslf always, commit fully to the relationship and not the person, know when to keep it 100 and when to hold an imaginary Land you're good to go. Happily ever after and all that shyt in your near future. Peridot cares.
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1. Be cute.Until the title reads "peridot cares: how to get into my panties 100%" I don't care for these threads
2. Be tall
3. Be an exhibitionist and do not be afraid, she's only human.
4. Keep her interested, boring convo bores her as she doesn't want to hurt a man's feelings by him catching feelings.
Just don't expect a commitment and she'll see where it goes.
You need to leave her alone unless you really feel you have the experience and you know you like to be on your toes often. Otherwise, she will get bored with you.
