Plan First Dates in 2016, Brehs and Brehettes...

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Like I said years ago. If she doesn't want to go to chikfila or panera bread on the first date and she eats their on the regular, throw her in the bushes. She's running game and isn't really trying to get to know you or she's weak minded and has been brainwashes by TV into thinking the first date should be some magical event.

Yall are suppose to be trying to get to know each other. That should be her main objective.

I tell a chick, "aye I'm washing my car or shooting ball. Stop by and holla at me real quick." If she can't do that, she doesn't deserves a nice dinner date. If she's cool to just chill and talk to and do simple things, I don't mind taking her out to a hookah bar or something.
 
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From a females pov...I'd much rather meet for coffee or drinks or a walk because the dude might be on straight creep mode. Or you may not have any chemistry beyond ig likes, #wcw's, and text convo. It could be dumb awkward and I don't wanna have to pretend my kid needs me or I'm all of a sudden sick to get away from a nikka. I wanna meet you, vibe, and be excited to see you again. But a man should have some kind of plan and time. None of that "let's chill" and expect me.to come to your house and sit on your couch to share a blunt and wait for you to try to make moves. Eew. Now if u say hey its game/card night at my crib. I might be down.
 
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First off, I am a female.

I don't really understand, because wouldn't you rather keep it simple at first, just to make sure you're both equally interested?

I went on a well planned first date, and it ended terribly because we really weren't hitting it off in person. I would've much rather had a low key, chill, "sense the vibes" type of date than a 5 star first date. It'd be different if we had already been talking a while and were going out already knowing one another and feeling comfortable.

Otherwise, just keep it simple and see if it's going to build from there. That's just me tho!
 
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Trill Russell said:
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That sense of entitlement :ohlawd:

That stray bullet to white girls :ohlawd:
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You got a pic?


Cuz fine girls can get away to this shyt. But theres too many regular chicks trying to do what dimes do. Not going to happen.
 
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Atlrocafella said:
the problem is she said "if you want to see me, plan a date worth having", WTF is that? that let's me know from the jump that she's all about the scene and nothing more.
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I remember the first time I went out with my wife. I actually offered to take her to a bar/restaurant by my crib cuz she drove all the way across town.

and I remember it to this day she said :whoa: "we can just go to mcdonalds" :gladbron:
 
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beaniemac said:
I remember the first time I went out with my wife. I actually offered to take her to a bar/restaurant by my crib cuz she drove all the way across town.

and I remember it to this day she said :whoa: "we can just go to mcdonalds" :gladbron:
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Thats when you knew that she needed to be barefoot and pregnant cooking in your kitchen:ehh:
 
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