agnosticlady
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Whenever I wear heels I always bring a pair of sandals with me. Like I just can't wear heels for long periods of times
It is just soooo freaking painful 
I love heels, but I am mostly a flats/sandals girlfriend
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Whenever I wear heels I always bring a pair of sandals with me. Like I just can't wear heels for long periods of times
It is just soooo freaking painful I love heels, but I am mostly a flats/sandals girlfriend
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Yep very true...insanely clickish but there are some gorgeous women at Howard though...did test the waters and mess around with a chick from Howard who was also a AKA awhile ago, I took double, capital sized Ls on that one...my god.
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Does your family dislike her or anything like that?
I am actually considering moving to Philly for Gradschool. I am going to apply to temple for grad school
she comes off as pretty standoffish. maybe cuz she's puerto rican. but my fam is used to interracial marriages cuz my little sister's husband is while. however my wife is black. everytime she's supposed to come out here for the holidays, she ducks it and gets out of it somehow. but my bro be letting her pull that shyt, so maybe he's the sucker to be honest.
also the fact that my brother in law can't get along with her screams red flags, cuz he's the type that gets along with anyone. hell, he works for a mexican tv station here and don't speak spanish and still able to make a lot of friends there.
Story, breh?
way more important
Word. If I'm with. My girl who I will take out to dinner cause she's my girl, then sure we can get dressed up. But why should either of us be uncomfortable upon first meeting, we're probably both nervous so we should at least both be comfortable. Although if we feeling each other you may not have to keep pulling that dress down.
Lol that dress moving up your behind is not comfortable. I'm not trying flash anybody.
Whenever I wear heels I always bring a pair of sandals with me. Like I just can't wear heels for long periods of times
I wear heels to work pretty much every day but they're the comfortable ones. When I used to actually go out to clubs, I could probably stand up for an hour and then I'm done, lol. I would to go to the VIP sections and ask random people if I can sit down with them if we didn't have a table of our own. It's just not worth it. I'm now a flats/sandals girl too when going out.
I once told a chick I was fukking Batman Arkham city was too important for me to see her mainly cause she brought up that"what are we" Bullshyt. fukked the next weekend.way more important
DC is really what you make it, IMO. I've never had a problem with anyone from this area.
We could go somewhere quiet , ain't nobody gotta see.
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I know where he's at. You might be the exemption as well as @Amethyst but my dating experiences lead me to believe that DC is the worst major city for serious dating as a Black male. No other city comes close. By far the worst. I do have to say, never have I dated so many women with so many accomplishments professionally and personally in my life. If it was just me, it's one thing but most of the dudes I know who relocate say the same exact thing. After awhile we come to realize it's ya'll.
I remember women complaining about men from Atlanta. I used to feel some type of way then after I moved I realized women were right. We had our pick of the litter. In DC, it's like everyone is fighting for the same man. If you got looks you will be easily chosen for
but don't do the dating thing. Please don't do the dating thing. If she thinks you are fine, she'll cook for you and it will be terrible 
Even then, DC has a high STD rate and best believe she has you on a rotation like she's the Nats or O's manager.Black women with no soul but ya'll classy and pricey. Man, I had to get me an Queen from the South. I couldn't do the DC area dating thing. Like I said, it ain't everybody but for a fact, it was everybody that I dated with maybe one exception and she was the worst of all. I got love for the ladies here for their goals and ambition but a lot was lacking. I suggest seeing someone that piques your interest online and date them long distance and do the travel thing. DC men fukked up too for the most part if they from here. Everything is about urges and impulses and that's from the good dudes
Good luck to you all.
To answer your question: The DMV females. The worst- DC, I don't know why either, I just stop thinking about it. Sistas get horny if you work for a top firm or company. Like a company makes her click wet
. The most sidity and likely to wench, NOVA. Whenever I go to my church at Alfred St, it always remains true and of course Maryland is the best but it's not much better.Honestly, it's the best hookup city I've been to if that's what you are. Even Atlanta ain't like that if you don't want it. Here, it's forced on you or take that L.
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I'll give my anecdotal experience. My first date with my son's mother, I took her to pappadeaux and she was like "I kinda want shrimp, but I also want lobster". So I told her to go ahead and get it. She ordered the surf and turf and subbed the shrimp for the steak....then got a key lime pie to go. Breh's, do not do what I did. That first date set the tone for our relationship and I'm still paying for it to this day.
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How did it set the tone?
FredG
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Ever increasing demands, even when we weren't together and whenever I said no, I had to explain why and no "excuse" was good enough or a real reason to say no. It was just always a unbalanced relationship and when I wanted something, it was like pulling teeth.