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Real talk I ain't mad at her. If she's a decent woman worth having she probably gets spit at on the regular. Why waste your time meeting up with cats on the regular for coffee? Put it this way: If I'm really feeling a woman initially, I wouldn't have any problem planning to actually take her out. Doesn't have to be a ton of money but I'd be cool with dropping some change to show her a good time. And a woman having those standards is an even better look for me. Not like she said she gotta eat lobster, just said if a dude wants to spend time with her make it interesting. If you can't rock with that you either broke or mess with too many garbage females :yeshrug:

She was rude and that last line.... She told on herself. She sound like a lipstick alley resident
 

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Fake or not theres TONS of women all over twitter who say this everyday

shyt is disgusting as fuccc, and its always from black women too and when you refute it they call you broke straight up... like :what::martin: FIRST OFF

1) I dont know you, why am i breaking bread with you
2) since when did an expensive date = having a great time

Legit.. the best date i went on was a museum date and all i paid for was drinks for the both of us, we walked across the london bridge and enjoyed the scenery of london at night..

these new generation heauxes are annoying..

In black women's defensive black men are always trying to low ball. OP or whoever the dude was was a nice enough dude but you should see the kinds of shyt men say to women. This chick was just rude.
 

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In black women's defensive black men are always trying to low ball. OP or whoever the dude was was a nice enough dude but you should see the kinds of shyt men say to women. This chick was just rude.

Not all black men low ball women. The last two girls I dated started off with dinner dates. Spent like 70 on one and 54 on another. Though still too much for a first date , I had a good time but on the same token I have come across some ridiculously entitled women. It didn't come off as games

Women like the one in the Opie act entitled as fukk. Many have no intentions on being serious (especially online dating hoes with tons of options) as some simp will do it. I am going out with this girl tomorrow or so, I am only putting the effort because she has shown she is into me. These things are earned, I am not going all out for a woman who thinks she is doing me a favor by being in her presence.

I have been on free dates to the MLK museum that have been amazing. A lot of the women that feel entitled to a certain amount of money on dates get straight bushes :camby: I don't give a sheet how fine they are.
 

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Game card night...then sex afterwards

Females are so easily to manipulate
Like I said....MIGHT. Meaning it's definitely gotta be around the right group of ppl. If you say just you and me...NAH loser. If you say you me and your boys. ..HELL NAH loser. But if you say a few couples you know or a mix of male and female cousins and I can bring some ppl. Now we're doing something. Gtfoh w the bs.
 

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Then what's the point of the meet up if ur never gonna hit ger again?
I would have hit her with the coffee meet up due to the fact that I'm leaving to go out of town in a couple of days and I wouldn't have time to set up a real date:jawalrus:


Get her on that face to face meet up :steviej:and never call that damn bird back!!:camby:
 

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I only fukk with down to earth chicks. If a girl really wants to get to know you, she'll be good with a low-key first date. There just happens to be a lot of women with wayward motivations. One of the worst things a man can do is be selfless to the selfish. Leave those chicks alone.
 

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Netflix ain't cool for a random because a woman should not be alone with a man she don't know at all. That's how women get raped.
I think it's fair to say you deserve a good date if you put in time before the date but on some blind shyt, you deserve Netflix at best and even you know it's true. You even stated you don't date randoms.
 

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Im a traditional, gender-role typa dude so i dont mind paying on dates but i do mind chicks telling me how much i should pay. Im not the kinda guy that would spend more than 20 dollars on a first date cuz its supposed to be about testing the vibe.

As soon as you feel like you have control of my pockets ya ass is fired
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I'm confused as to where this woman said she was looking for something extravagant and expensive?

also she wanted him to "plan" something cuz she was getting dressed up, which screams expensive. why is it all on the OP to plan a date??? she just wants to come out with minimal effort and have him trick off. I mean the least she could do is offer to drive since she wants him to plan a date and pick up the tab.
 

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I'll give my anecdotal experience. My first date with my son's mother, I took her to pappadeaux and she was like "I kinda want shrimp, but I also want lobster". So I told her to go ahead and get it. She ordered the surf and turf and subbed the shrimp for the steak....then got a key lime pie to go. Breh's, do not do what I did. That first date set the tone for our relationship and I'm still paying for it to this day.
SEEEEEEEEEE. LEARN FROM THIS MAN!
 

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Little does she know, white women are just as trifling.

http://jezebel.com/5863621/woman-lets-matchcom-dates-pay-for-all-of-her-dinners

These women are finessing the heck out of males. I don't feel bad telling a woman that we are going dutch.

my friend who's white uses match, and he says a lot of the white women are willing to go dutch, and some will pick up the tab on the first date.

that's unheard of with black women.

he also went out with a black woman off there, and said that broad was always wanting to go somewhere expensive and dressy. he gave her the :camby:
 

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Does your family dislike her or anything like that?


I am actually considering moving to Philly for Gradschool. I am going to apply to temple for grad school :ohhh:

she comes off standoffish to me. but I only met her like 2 times. and the last time I met her, we drove all the way to DC for the 4th of july, and got there around 8am after me driving the entire night. we get there to his apartment and she tells my brother that we can't come in cuz she's washing her hair :comeon: :wtf:

needless to say, my wife was :fire: as hell and my fam was pissed when I told them about it when we came back.

not like we were staying there, but it was too early to check into our hotel. we ended up going to my wife's best friend's house in VA, which was close by and crashing there til it was time to check in.
 
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