I don't see anything wrong with this. The coli is a strange place
Plan First Dates in 2016, Brehs and Brehettes...
- Thread starter William F. Russell
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sanityovar8ted
OG Moma Coli....dat bytch Thowd!!!
chicken wings n fries weont go on datesShe would've been down for Chicken wings and fries.....
Bugatti Biceps
Supreme Hacker
IF that's your avi you really not cute enough to decline meet and greets, ma.
A point no one has made. Online profiles and ig accounts are deceiving. There are too many filter options and too many angles to disguise who you are really double tapping and sweatin. I rather my first date be something lowkey so you can see me on cute but with minimal effort. No cakeface, no spanx. You're gonna see me in a cute messy bun, light lipgloss so I can get a good bite of that chili dog without lipstick transfer to my chin, and some jeans that hug every curve just right w some chuck taylors so we can see how our height matches up. Lol. Don't nobody like surprises.
If we like each other the date will run on...coffee turns to a walk, a walk goes on forever because of good convo and now we're hungry. Hunger is satisfied by a quick burger or a dog by the window so we can ppl watch. Then maybe a drink, a kiss, and a promise to set up a date later in the week. I got the coffees you get the dogs. Simple shyt. AND don't get picked up. Always MEET UP on the first date. fukk an awkward car ride or feeling stuck somewhere you don't wanna be.
Now date 3 or 4, you'll be on hard the whole night one hand in your pocket trying to keep homie calm because your date is cute undone....but omg that dress. You'll wanna make her feel special because she's making you feel special with how she just put on JUST FOR YOU.
If we like each other the date will run on...coffee turns to a walk, a walk goes on forever because of good convo and now we're hungry. Hunger is satisfied by a quick burger or a dog by the window so we can ppl watch. Then maybe a drink, a kiss, and a promise to set up a date later in the week. I got the coffees you get the dogs. Simple shyt. AND don't get picked up. Always MEET UP on the first date. fukk an awkward car ride or feeling stuck somewhere you don't wanna be.
Now date 3 or 4, you'll be on hard the whole night one hand in your pocket trying to keep homie calm because your date is cute undone....but omg that dress. You'll wanna make her feel special because she's making you feel special with how she just put on JUST FOR YOU.
I wouldn't decline startbucks or something casual, drinks, ice cream, free things, etc...but it's not too much to ask for effort. You shouldn't expect a woman to come to your house or you to come to theirs for Netflix. If you just want to screw her and move on, and she isn't down it's best you both KIM anyway.
International Playa
Playa with a Passport
Dates are very expensive you have to be smart out here. Imagine if you got 5 women you talking to, that means 5 expensive dates, fukk that. If you got your own place, there really is no need to be even going on dates. Stock your crib up with snacks and drinks that most females like, make sure your crib is clean, entertainment system is A1. Home dates you shouldn't dive in for pussssy as soon as she comes over, let the female get comfortable in your environment, she will drop them panties by the end of the night
what exactly is effort tho? how is that casual meet up not effort on his part?
not talking about netflix and chill here
I think Netflix and chill is viable depending on the person but hell if I know, I haven't dated in ages.
I think netflix and chill is fine. I just wanna know what she thinks "Effort " isI think Netflix and chill is viable depending on the person but hell if I know, I haven't dated in ages.
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I'm mainly refering to the netflix and chill attitude, "You ain't worth xyz" Well she thinks she is so if you just wanted a pump and dump move around.
I'm saying if you ask someone out, plan a date. It doesn't have to be expensive or formal. That's effort. What are you asking someone out for if you have nothing in mind? I don't even ask my friends to do anything without at the very least an idea.
You could even plan together if you aren't sure of what she likes, that shows effort. You should still have suggestions to run buy her. If you start making suggestions like "I was thinking we could get smoothies and go to the park or this outdoor exhibit, just walk and talk..." That shows effort if she has a stank attitude about it move around. Talking and planning a date is a good way to gauge what a person is all about before you spend a dime or waste gas for both parties. Whoever male or female asking a person out should have a plan.
ightmortuus est
Veteran
ok not gonna lie star buck is tacky for a first date 
and im a dirty dude and i wouldnt even do that,i feel like only white people go there
second thing, dates are not even that expensive tbh, if the chick look good enough to eat then why not up the levels? yes yes i know ,hard on hoes, but still
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@PicoRoscoe i saw a chick that looked just like you on the train on friday , cot damn
and im a dirty dude and i wouldnt even do that,i feel like only white people go theresecond thing, dates are not even that expensive tbh, if the chick look good enough to eat then why not up the levels? yes yes i know ,hard on hoes, but still
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@PicoRoscoe i saw a chick that looked just like you on the train on friday , cot damn
Bless't
Living the dream
Fair point.Real talk I ain't mad at her. If she's a decent woman worth having she probably gets spit at on the regular. Why waste your time meeting up with cats on the regular for coffee? Put it this way: If I'm really feeling a woman initially, I wouldn't have any problem planning to actually take her out. Doesn't have to be a ton of money but I'd be cool with dropping some change to show her a good time. And a woman having those standards is an even better look for me. Not like she said she gotta eat lobster, just said if a dude wants to spend time with her make it interesting. If you can't rock with that you either broke or mess with too many garbage females