99% of men not built like you. They won’t even fight for shared custody because truthfully they don’t want to be tied down by their kids.
So they rather just get their kid 1-2x a month or a few weeks a year, and complain about the child support they have to pay.
This and a lot of men have been feed the BS that you can't win in court and the judge is always gonna rule in favor of the ex. So many men are like why try when they gonna kick me in the ass anyway.
When actually if they get the right lawyers...document everything they can get joint custody (or in rare occasions full custody).
Finally we can't talk about this situation without admitting how society drives some of this. Society says any divorce its the husbands fault and that he should be ruined finacially, whipped in public and the kids should blame him for the family falling apart.
Society also says in the dating world that a man should accept a women with kids living with her from a previous relationship/divorce. But a woman shouldn't put up with the baggage of a man with kids living with him from a previous relationship/divorce.
No one mentions how difficult the dating game is for men who have sole or shared custody of their kids.
A lot of times women (even if they have kids) don't even want to deal with a man who is a single dad who has custody of his kids. Not the same as a dude who has kids that live with his ex (women overall don't really have as much of an issue with that).
