Question for the Anti Single Mother Clique :unsure:

[Ooh Marty]

When I'm talking about single mothers, I'm talking about baby mamas who usually have children by lowlifes. A woman losing her man in death is a lot different than a woman losing her man to the pen. I'd consider her if she had all those qualities.

BTW: I hope the OP isn't looking for ways to on dudes, concocting stories to men she meet in her life about what happened to her baby daddy so they fukk with her. This question is quite peculiar

Question doesnt pertain to me...im single and childless.

What kind of question is that tho, why are men questioned for wanting our own woman to ourselves to build a legacy with and have our own kids and family with.



Would you want a man with all that baggage with 2 kids from other women that aren't even your's. Or would you rather start a family with a man with no kids, and have him to yourself

everyone isnt perfect ok? Ppl go thru shyt in life...just because she couldnt bare ur kids first doesnt mean she can't have your kids as well and build a legacy from there.

And my question has nothing to do with single childless women. This is about women with kids vs. women with kids with special situations, k?

Now stay on topic or bop ya ass outta my thread.

 

[Ooh Marty]

its not even realistic cus most black women don't get married before having children

i hope these black witches don't start lying. bytches getting pregnant off 1 nite stands with dudes who are currently in jail gone start lying, talking bout they were married and the husband died over in afghanistan or some shyt. i see you marty, trying to give these bytches a way out.

Marcuz

Da fukk u got to make every single thread into a black women bash fest???

THIS HAS NOTHING TO DO WITH RACE! Keep it up and you're going back on my shyt list

 

[marcuz]

Tell me about it . I'm try a go the traditional, non-matchmaking-site route to find a chick but I stay getting hit it "my kid/s". Happened four times n the past couple months.

So yea, if the husband is dead, and the kids are less than 3, then Id feel her out to see ifshe has a good head on her shoulders.

Either that or settle for some fat chick

these lowered standards is exactly what black women want

i'd rather be single then be forced into choosing from a bytch with kids or an obese chick

 

[Ooh Marty]

I forgot for a split second that I'm on the coli...the place full of scorned, damaged,beyond repair black men

 

[AZBeauty]

Tell me about it . I'm try a go the traditional, non-matchmaking-site route to find a chick but I stay getting hit it "my kid/s". Happened four times n the past couple months.

So yea, if the husband is dead, and the kids are less than 3, then Id feel her out to see ifshe has a good head on her shoulders.

Either that or settle for some fat chick

lol @ non matching make site route. Thats the norm now huh?

 

[winb83]

Now hol up

There is nothing wrong with having preferences but hear me out please.

Say if you meet a woman, shes everything youve been looking for in a woman: sweet, smart, beautiful, has a lot to offer, great qualities etc. But 5 yrs ago her husband died in a car crash/train accident/plane accident and left her with 2 kids.

Will you still pursue her or u just totally against dating/marrying/starting a relationship with a single mother?

if you're anti-single mother how can a woman with kids be everything you're looking for in a woman?

my answer would be i don't care how the kids got here the fact that they even exist disqualifies her. i would literally rather have nothing and gladly take it at this point in my life than accept less that what i want. and any woman with kids is less than what i want.

with a mother her children come first. if those are my children that's acceptable but why take a backseat to somebody else's kids? that's some serious beta shyt.

 

[Just like bruddas]

long as she share the same values as I then i have no problem being with her.

Its funny how these guys blame the women but not the men for leaving.

 

[Bigen King]

single moms are great FB's they call you when they need it and you serve em and keep it pushing

 

[The ADD]

I forgot for a split second that I'm on the coli...the place full of scorned, damaged,beyond repair black men

You knew before you clicked submit thread.

 

[marcuz]

long as she share the same values as I then i have no problem being with her.

Its funny how these guys blame the women but not the men for leaving.

nikka, ya ole simpin nice guy ass can't even get a fat bytch with kids. who you fooling?

 

[Just like bruddas]

nikka, ya ole simpin nice guy ass can't even get a fat bytch with kids. who you fooling?

u mad bro?

 

[Ooh Marty]

if you're anti-single mother how can a woman with kids be everything you're looking for in a woman?

my answer would be i don't care how the kids got here the fact that they even exist disqualifies her. i would literally rather have nothing and gladly take it at this point in my life than accept less that what i want. and any woman with kids is less than what i want.

with a mother her children come first. if those are my children that's acceptable but why take a backseat to somebody else's kids? that's some serious beta shyt.

First great opposite opinion in here so far

You got a point, having to take backseat to a woman with kids (no matter how they got here) isnt fair at all.

 

[WaveCapsByOscorp™]

i dealt with a woman like that once. except she only had one child, a girl, from the guy. and the guy didn't die in a car accident, he had a stroke and died. it's the only single mother i've every dealt with. wasn't like i dealt with her for long either, we just had sex a couple of times while she was in town...

 

[marcuz]

i dealt with a woman like that once. except she only had one child, a girl, from the guy. and the guy didn't die in a car accident, he had a stroke and died. it's the only single mother i've every dealt with. wasn't like i dealt with her for long either, we just had sex a couple of times while she was in town...

so you just used her for the disposable vagina she is? good job

 

[Ooh Marty]

You knew before you clicked submit thread.

I know but I thought that maybe if under different circumstances...these negros could stay on topic and give me a good answer either opposing it or for it. But nooooooo, nikkas just gotta fukk shyt up.