Question for the older brothers...

[WaveCapsByOscorp™]

Damn, you gotta live with this woman during the covid19 outbreak

 

[I'm Blackman]

He wants p*ssy...young hassle free p*ssy. He prolly got a roster. Or he may want p*ssy and genuinely be interested in her.

She probably wants you, sees you're not interested and may just be fukking him out of spite.

Fam...if you have the means.... leave.

 

[SleezyBigSlim]

I already explained my live-in situation a couple times on here. I'll give it a brief summary then fill in gaps where needed...

My childs' mom and I are living together until our lease ends in June, we've been separated since last July. Victims of circumstance is why we've still lived together...

She's 25 and recently began seeing this 41-year old guy, according to her. Over the last 2-3 weeks she's brought up dude multiple times; most recently last night she asked me when I would like to meet dude, etc etc...

I already have responded with feeling like she's talking dude up to annoy me and feel great about herself, my question isn't pertained to that. My question is, what would a man want with a woman 16 years younger than him, who still lives with her kids father? At 41, what does this tell you about who he is and his motives?

She specifically asked me last week what I think about some info she shared, then when I told her I'm not impressed, she went in about how she thinks he's a "unicorn"--->he's unlike any man she's ever met before and she doesn't think she'll meet anyone like him ever again. She repeatedly asks me questions, I give an answer, then she debates me about my answer to a question she asked me unprovoked...

Woman of The Coli feel free to jump in if you have an opinion as well. I told her to take care of herself, he doesn't sound as genuine to me as she thinks he is, and instead she thinks I'm hostile and hating because she sees this as a long term relationship moving forward...

He never had a fam of his own and he is about to take yours

 

[Sankofa Alwayz]

Idk about that man, she’s been running from karma for a long ass time now


Shawty still does fukk shyt even tho she lost me and my brother to my pop, is about to lose her daughter to my pop and the streets, and is in the process of losing the house.


She cut me off last year and been calling my phone everyday for the last week, I ain’t got time for shawty

She sounds toxic as a mug, her cutting you off is a blessing in disguise. Don’t answer her calls and continue to do you breh, your mind and spirit will thank you for it

 

[SuavePrince]

I can't help but I hope you get through with everything breh

 

[CarmelBarbie]

Damn, you gotta live with this woman during the covid19 outbreak

I’m dead.


Op,
You have a few more months so hang in there. I think one of the things @AllHolosEve said applies here. Next time she talk about how good he is ask her why she still living around you then. Or pull an Omarion and act unbothered (what I would do knowing me) the less you engage and react the less she’ll talk about it with you because she’ll quickly see it’s like talking to a wall because you don’t gaf.

As for his mindset. Come on breh, as a man, would you ever seriously be involved with a woman living with another man that she used to fukk and probably still fukking? Look man when a breh is seriously interested in a female do you think he would really accept her living with a man she probably still has sex with? Hell nah.

This breh is not interested in anything other then p*ssy. She’s dumb asf for being so naive to think he’s taken her seriously. Trust me he’s not. He knows the situations a gotdamn mess. She’ll figure it out soon though when shyt never progresses. I would consider anything she says about this man as either being duck tales(with her embellishing shyt that’s barely happening) or as his finesse to get p*ssy from her.

Get you a fukk buddy that look better than her, to keep yourself distracted until you move out.

 

[Rollo Goodlove]

If u 30...u the exact same age as that 41 year old...after 30 shyt don't change much breh

nikkas cangtown leaps and bounds after 30

 

[Neo. The Only. The One.]

This is what I've told her, sounds like the honeymoon phase and good for her...

I'm older than her, I'm 30, and when she's wanted to insult me she says I ain't mature enough for her so she needs an older man with all his shyt together. That doesn't bother me and never really did, but that's her justification. For the record her dad is 44 and I asked her what he would think if he knew she was dating a man his age, she just said "I shoulda asked him for advice on you and seen what he said, but it's none if his business who I date"...

That's some ether right there

 

[Cat piss martini]

her: a good man has finally stole me from you:
me: petty theft.
her:
me: I'm happy for you.....honey I really am.
her: foreal.
me: hell yeah.....I want your blessings on my situation.
her: situation?......what situation?
me: she's a vision of loveliness.
her: so how long you been seeing her.
me: enough about my future and happiness.
her: so how serious are ya'll
me: bring dude by for a drink sometime.....i'm about to dip.
her: wait.....have i ever met her?
me: catch you later....date night.
her: she aint gonna treat you like i do.

 

[im_sleep]

You entertain her too much.

Conversations should be brief, straight to the point, and ONLY about the kids.

I get it, you being open about it is your way of showing you don’t give a fukk...but she’s young, silly, and ain’t gonna see it that way unless you check her.

 

[Scott Larock]

I already explained my live-in situation a couple times on here. I'll give it a brief summary then fill in gaps where needed...

My childs' mom and I are living together until our lease ends in June, we've been separated since last July. Victims of circumstance is why we've still lived together...

She's 25 and recently began seeing this 41-year old guy, according to her. Over the last 2-3 weeks she's brought up dude multiple times; most recently last night she asked me when I would like to meet dude, etc etc...

I already have responded with feeling like she's talking dude up to annoy me and feel great about herself, my question isn't pertained to that. My question is, what would a man want with a woman 16 years younger than him, who still lives with her kids father? At 41, what does this tell you about who he is and his motives?

She specifically asked me last week what I think about some info she shared, then when I told her I'm not impressed, she went in about how she thinks he's a "unicorn"--->he's unlike any man she's ever met before and she doesn't think she'll meet anyone like him ever again. She repeatedly asks me questions, I give an answer, then she debates me about my answer to a question she asked me unprovoked...

Woman of The Coli feel free to jump in if you have an opinion as well. I told her to take care of herself, he doesn't sound as genuine to me as she thinks he is, and instead she thinks I'm hostile and hating because she sees this as a long term relationship moving forward...

as a older man I’ll keep this 100%.

he wants some p*ssy from a young chick and he’ll probably bounce afterwards.

at our age we know we won’t meet childless chicks, we too old and honestly a lot of us are pretty bitter about it but don’t speak on it. No man wanna take care if someone else sees period, we mostly conservative when it comes to this.

your ex is probably excited due to his age and probably income and maturity, especially since y’all ain’t together she might feel the older guy is more tuned to handle diverse situations and a lot of young girls think this of older men, like we some old simp nikkas who will understand any situation.

I don’t think he’s genuine but I don’t think your ex is thinking logically. Also keep in mind American culture is overall regressing so grown men acting like kids these days which is the reason he hollered and she accepted.
Just be cautious you probably can’t change her mind but keep your eyes open. Truthfully at my age I don’t want a woman my age but mostly likely it’s gonna end up that way.

 

[LezJepzin]

You lost me at "Unicorn "

Just a nice way a girl describes something without having to explain about it

 

[Cel 510 kid ados forever]

Is this a sac chick? That they mo.

But older dudes dont wife young chicks too often so he just hitting and quitting.

If she kno u still have feeling for her she just trying to get under ur skin it seems.

Living wit ur bm while yall date other people got to be akward tho

 

[newworldafro]

In as few sentences as possible.

Explain how yall met and why yall felt out of love or lust or like? Basically cant you see you two being a couple?

 

[Malcolmxxx_23]

Did he fukk her infront of you last night ?

Fred