As an individual, no, as a race, fukk yes.
Look at graduation rates from high school/college by race for example.
Or look at the professions. We make up ~12% of the country, but we damn sure aren't even 10% of the C-suite, Doctors, Lawyers, Judges, etc.
But we are over-represented when it comes to early mortality, dropping out of school, etc. It's easy to use your personal experience as 'what everyone else is experiencing" but that ignores that these are systemic issues that affect many black Americans.
Things like Affirmative Action are in place because systemically, our #s are waaay below other races, so it's kinda ironic hearing that we're all equal while ignoring the data. I know it's not your intention, but these are very similar to the Republican speaking points that suggest that we should do away with programs that HELP BLACK PEOPLE CATCH UP.