Raising Another Man's Child

[Steve Piffler]

who you date is based on preference. if you don't like single mothers, then don't date them. if you don't mind having a blended family, then date single mothers. it's really not that hard. i'm married to a single mother, and out of all the issues that we have had, none of them had anything to do with her son or his father. it could work. you just have to know the person that you're dealing with and make sure that she has her baby daddy situation under control. as far as the baby dad being able to "slide back in that p*ssy whenever he likes"...that can happen in any relationship. truthfully speaking, EVERY woman has that 1 nikka that she will buss it open for no matter what her status is. can't let that discourage you. if she does that, throw her in the bushes. bottom line, do whatever you feel. it's not wrong either way. no need to disrespect single mothers or men that marry or are in a relationship with them. just know your lane and boundaries, and respect other people's choices.

 

[Jahmal]

my lil cousin daddy wasnt never in her life
my aunt ex boyfiend been in her life for yeeeeaarrs n they not even together no more
bought her her first car for college n everything

if you a real cat you gone look out for the kid if you really care
you not obligated but if you a real nikka you not just gone deal witta woman and not her child...thats phony imo

what if your aunt prevented her ex boyfriend from being in your cousin's life after the breakup. no matter how much he cared about your cousin he wouldnt have been in her life if they aunt didnt want him to be because he wasnt the biological father.

 

[Jahmal]

I would never take a Jamaicans advice when it comes to raising children. I dunno about yaw, you're like the scumbags of the black race, next to Somalians.

You wish you were Jamaican you lil bummy Virgin island n1gga

 

[cleanface coney]

what if your aunt prevented her ex boyfriend from being in your cousin's life after the breakup. no matter how much he cared about your cousin he wouldnt have been in her life if they aunt didnt want him to be because he wasnt the biological father.

true but that comes with the territory
its some bitter females out here no doubt

nikkas need to pay attention to the situation most females tell on theyselves
if a woman allows the father back in the picutre
she never took you serious anyway

deal wit it

 

[Jahmal]

deal wit it

I'll never have to deal with that because i'm smart enough not to put myself in that second fiddle position

 

[Poh SIti Dawn]

Yoooo, I'm from a Jamaican background too.

What's all that about fam?

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[Skooby]

 

[Jahmal]

 

[Steve Piffler]

now i don't have anything against dating single mothers. but one with 3 kids??!!! :scustcos:

nah son......

 

[BallGame]

now i don't have anything against dating single mothers. but one with 3 kids??!!! :scustcos:

nah son......

Lmao yeah this is pushing it

 

[L. Deezy]

I forget most of y'all under 25 nshyt..lol

in all honesty, this shouldnt even be a topic unless a chick told you YOU WERE THE FATHER and you weren't...

 

[Average Coli Poster]

Heh

#RegularnikkaProblems

 

[Just Curious]

Op didn't you know she had a kid. Why would you even introduce yourself into the child's life before you were sure of your feelings about the situation. You're 23y.o. if it's too much for you then bail because the only person you will be hurting is that innocent child.

Having him on child support and him "actually" paying is something different all together. Any man that can step in and help raise another person's child is honorable. Ask yourself how deep/real are your feelings for the child's mother? Do you see a future with her? When you see the precious face smile at you does it touch your heart?

 

[Tommy Knocks]

You keep bring up my background and where Im from like its a bad thing, first off Im from newark which is a lot worst then orange. Second Im doing just fine with no criminal background, kids, Im in great shape and I have money. Im living breh. Now look at me and look at yourself. Someone that came from the gutter of NJ with 0 abortions, 0 stds, 0 felonies and was making decent money while looking at life and relationships with a open mind and then we have you, from a great environment (so you say) with 4 stds, 3 abortions and credit card fraud who is still bitter over puss that he was sharing. Who really lost?

 

[Seea]

Why do men do this?

She's been a mother for as long as you've been together and it's just now you worried about being a stepdad?



My suggestion to you is to end it so you can both move on. You're not ready and she is. This isn't bound to work for much longer.