I am at a crossroads right now in relations to my lady, the mother of my child. We moved in together in January, primarily because of me wanting to unite my family. I had plans of her working and me finding a stable job because I was living off of student loans then so we can have money in the bank. She goes ahead and quit her job because of whatever reasons knowing we're going into scary waters. Just haven't been active with anything since. She took a school loan a couple years ago and it has been an issue with her, her financial aid (she qualifies for) and the school since. It is pretty much July and she got a BS job at Fridays at the airport but quit that. I gave my blessings because it was a hassle and cost too much just to work there but hasn't been on her grind to find something else.
I work a POS job ($11/hr in fukking Miami) right now but I am actively looking for greener pastures. The expenses are killing me slowly and the money has dried up so it is paycheck to paycheck and it is still not enough.
So, my issue is if she doesn't start actively looking for something then I am beginning to seriously consider dropping this relationship. The hook is our son and the man in me can't leave him hanging. However, I didn't sign up to do this alone.
How would you dudes go about this predicament?
I work a POS job ($11/hr in fukking Miami) right now but I am actively looking for greener pastures. The expenses are killing me slowly and the money has dried up so it is paycheck to paycheck and it is still not enough.
So, my issue is if she doesn't start actively looking for something then I am beginning to seriously consider dropping this relationship. The hook is our son and the man in me can't leave him hanging. However, I didn't sign up to do this alone.
How would you dudes go about this predicament?
I made adverse choices in life. Where I was raised these conversation weren't spoke of because hoes were destined to be single mothers living off of government assistance.
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... It's gonna be rough though
