REAL TALK: I Have Never Met Black Men Afraid of Losing Sistas To White Men

[GR13]

1. Women are economical, yes I agree but I’d argue that BW have been groomed not to be. Due to bad dating/relationship advice and to due bad economic upbringing. Other races of women are far more economical than BW on average. BW settle too much and are shamed when they aspire to more in relationships.

2. As for men date who they are around, I disagree somewhat. Many BW are surrounded by just as many whites and still date black for the most part. A guy can be surrounded by a bunch of women but if only one girl in that group he fancies that’s the only one he will approach for a serious relationship. He might sleep with the others if he in a drought or drag her along until he gets what he wants.

3. Also it’s not solely that WW are a lot it’s that they are the beauty standard. I have seen plenty of times where some dudes be surrounded by nothing by BW but will only pay attention to the lone nonblack chick. My point is men are just as concerned by image and approval of others as women and a big measuring stick is the perceived attractiveness of the women they date/marry. You can’t go wrong with a ww whether she is ugly or gorgeous, she’s still white.

this bullshyt the virtues of the black women ass post

1. black women are just as prone to "gold dig" as non-black women they just have less opportunities to "gold dig" then non- black women do to a combination of black people's struggling economical situation overall and the economically successful non-black men lack of interest/desire in the average black woman's phenotype

2. this bullshyt "average black women" date black for the most part is because they are relegated to mostly to dating inside their race because of lack of outside the race dating option's not because of some bullshyt undying loyalty to black men ... black women that actually have crossover appeal/beauty always fukk/date/marry outside of their race

3. typing this bullshyt like black women don't do the same thing anybody that has spent any decent amount of time socially around black women knows all a non-black man needs to have is a pair of scuffed up Jordans/timberland's and he will have a harem of black bytch's on his dikk fighting over him tying to get a "good hair" baby

 

[Controversy]

I'm personally not afraid of missing out on blk women but some of the baddest blk women who I went to business school w/ married white guys

Matter fact, I know this super tight delta who lives in Michigan...she's a lawyer...she married a white dude and now has 2 kids w/ him

I could care less tho bc I don't want them, I no longer like women my age... I prefer my women to be 21-27



Women who ascend to a certain status seek out wealth, power and resources when they date

 

[98Ntu]

I revisited this thread by accident and am simultaneously surprised but not surprised by some of the black female responses.

Some black women saying black men don’t even have the power to control their women and this is why we’ve learned not to be jealous. Because we simply feel we can’t compete with other race of men.

Black women in here saying that black men are secretly jealous of non black men and that we are sitting here scared and fearful of black women “leaving” us.

Well the blunt truth is that black women can do what they want and at least I personally idc. There is nothing uber-special about black women for me to be crying and whining about them fukking and dating non-black men when they have always done that. I’m not mad about sisters dating out but I’m mad that they want me to be mad and that they think I’m so pathetic as a black man that I should be upset to see her with a non black male.

How lowly do black women think of us, as black men? How little do we understand each other? I always say it bm aren’t the black men of the 50’s and 60s but bw aren’t the same women, they were either. Black men have avoided any form of feasible responsibility for their community and many of us are perpetually living as children in men’s bodies and black women have become devout narcissists who think that black man and the world at large owe them for simply breathing. These discussions are tiring.

Date, fukk and marry who you want but don’t expect anyone to care

 

[Piri Tomas]

This is some real shyt. I had no idea brothers were insecure about this shyt in a real way. Where do yall live where this is some sort of epidemic?

Now, some of us, due to how we're oppressed in this racist country, let these interracial couples know how we feel when we see them in the street (not me, I find it mad corny, but to each his own).

But for the most part, black women, especially the highly desirable ones, want black men. If you're a black man and black women aren't attracted to you, the problem most likely resides with you.

 

[BlackJesus]

A majority of BW are like all women. They are groomed to be wives. Some get lost in the process due to their personal self reasons but most are.

Economical doesnt just relate to providing. It relates to interest level, treatment, commonality, attraction, belief system and most importantly, comfort level.

I disagree with the notion that BW settle unless you are referencing to financial stability but if BM take that into account, most BW are eliminated from the dating pool and we all know that's not the reality. Due to white supremacy, Black people have it much harder as a collective than anyone else. BW on average aren't settling. They are usually doing the best they can do for that moment. Now, could something better seem to appear at a later date, maybe but even then, that's a risk.

The biggest mistake I see from the internet generation of women is that they seem to forget their Black in a system of white supremacy. That clearly plays a role into your current situation and economical isn't just about money or finances. It's about a multitude of areas like interest level, treatment, commonality, attraction, belief system and most importantly, comfort level.

A man could want to fukk you but he might not want to be seen in public with you. A man could want to claim you but marriage or the idea of having kids with you just isn't ideal for him. Which is why treatment is listed in my definition of economical. Men aren't economical. We are comfort, attraction and interest level dominate. Finance plays a part into marriage but usually from his end, not so much yours unless the situation is meek.

With a 76℅ out of wedlock birth rate black women are not 'groomed' to be wives. Black parents have completely de-stigmatized single parenthood.

 

[Falcozer]

I revisited this thread by accident and am simultaneously surprised but not surprised by some of the black female responses.

Some black women saying black men don’t even have the power to control their women and this is why we’ve learned not to be jealous. Because we simply feel we can’t compete with other race of men.

Black women in here saying that black men are secretly jealous of non black men and that we are sitting here scared and fearful of black women “leaving” us.

Well the blunt truth is that black women can do what they want and at least I personally idc. There is nothing uber-special about black women for me to be crying and whining about them fukking and dating non-black men when they have always done that. I’m not mad about sisters dating out but I’m mad that they want me to be mad and that they think I’m so pathetic as a black man that I should be upset to see her with a non black male.

How lowly do black women think of us, as black men? How little do we understand each other? I always say it bm aren’t the black men of the 50’s and 60s but bw aren’t the same women, they were either. Black men have avoided any form of feasible responsibility for their community and many of us are perpetually living as children in men’s bodies and black women have become devout narcissists who think that black man and the world at large owe them for simply breathing. These discussions are tiring.

Date, fukk and marry who you want but don’t expect anyone to care

Yeah I don't agree with @HarlemHottie saying we only don't care because we have no power. Many black men I know in real life me included don't think or talk about black women dating out like that, even on social media where all the weirdos congregate it's not much of a topic.

 

[98Ntu]

Yeah I don't agree with @HarlemHottie saying we only don't care because we have no power. Many black men I know in real life me included don't think or talk about black women dating out like that, even on social media where all the weirdos congregate it's not much of a topic.

I fukks with @HarlemHottie as a poster but it’s insanely insulting what she and @Ya? were saying their back and forth. Just because black women have admitted to disliking it when they see us with non blacks doesn’t mean that black men must also magically care. Some of us do. But too much shyt is going on in real life for us to stop and care about this shyt. I’m college age breh and a lot of black females are out here dating non-black men. I never even thought about it til I stated lurking the Coli.
I simply wish them the best and I legitimately hope that they find what they are looking for in man and a relationship. Live your life ladies and genuinely, I hope the best for you

 

[HarlemHottie]

I revisited this thread by accident and am simultaneously surprised but not surprised by some of the black female responses.

Some black women saying black men don’t even have the power to control their women and this is why we’ve learned not to be jealous. Because we simply feel we can’t compete with other race of men.

Black women in here saying that black men are secretly jealous of non black men and that we are sitting here scared and fearful of black women “leaving” us.

Well the blunt truth is that black women can do what they want and at least I personally idc. There is nothing uber-special about black women for me to be crying and whining about them fukking and dating non-black men when they have always done that. I’m not mad about sisters dating out but I’m mad that they want me to be mad and that they think I’m so pathetic as a black man that I should be upset to see her with a non black male.

How lowly do black women think of us, as black men? How little do we understand each other? I always say it bm aren’t the black men of the 50’s and 60s but bw aren’t the same women, they were either. Black men have avoided any form of feasible responsibility for their community and many of us are perpetually living as children in men’s bodies and black women have become devout narcissists who think that black man and the world at large owe them for simply breathing. These discussions are tiring.

Date, fukk and marry who you want but don’t expect anyone to care

Some? No, it was just me, and I was asking the question. No one here is willing to examine it, though. I think that black women who say stuff like 'I don't need to man to raise these kids' have devised a warped response to historical injustices we couldn't control (our men being taken away, families separated). Why? Because no healthy group of women in the history of whenever have ever said anything so stupid, much less made it a rallying cry.



I could say the same thing for black men. No healthy group of men have ever said 'We don't gaf who smuts out our women' and made it a rallying cry. These are facts. Rationalize that how you will.

 

[#1 pick]

With a 76℅ out of wedlock birth rate black women are not 'groomed' to be wives. Black parents have completely de-stigmatized single parenthood.

You must be listening to the white supremacists. Most BW more than others are living with their childs father and the father is actively involved in the childs life.

Most BW want to be wives.
Is Marriage for White People?

 

[Falcozer]

Some? No, it was just me, and I was asking the question. No one here is willing to examine it, though. I think that black women who say stuff like 'I don't need to man to raise these kids' have devised a warped response to historical injustices we couldn't control (our men being taken away, families separated). Why? Because no healthy group of women in the history of whenever have ever said anything so stupid, much less made it a rallying cry.



I could say the same thing for black men. No healthy group of men have ever said 'We don't gaf who smuts out our women' and made it a rallying cry. These are facts. Rationalize that how you will.

But black men don't shout that everywhere, especially in real life. We only say that when women want to make us believe we all care about who black women are dating because some nikkas like malkoonxxx did a bait thread on bedwenches on thecoli
Even on this board, the simple fact that a thread like the one we're posting on with a lot of people agreeing with OP exist prove that we're not that bothered by black women who do IR. It's mostly trolling on here anyway.

 

[98Ntu]

Some? No, it was just me, and I was asking the question. No one here is willing to examine it, though. I think that black women who say stuff like 'I don't need to man to raise these kids' have devised a warped response to historical injustices we couldn't control (our men being taken away, families separated). Why? Because no healthy group of women in the history of whenever have ever said anything so stupid, much less made it a rallying cry.



I could say the same thing for black men. No healthy group of men have ever said 'We don't gaf who smuts out our women' and made it a rallying cry. These are facts. Rationalize that how you will.

As a black man, I got too damn much to worry about. If black women want to start marrying white men, Asian men, non-black Latin men, etc. en masse then that is their business. I find the white men who type angry manifestos about how wretched “mudsharks” and “coalburners” (slang names for white women who date black men) are pathetic.

And let’s examine it. Black families are fukked up. But blacks don’t want to fix it. We’ll analyze it and complain and sling mud at each other but nothing will probably change. I think blacks have come to love dysfunction as a coping mechanism, that much I agree with, but I refuse to care when I see a black women with a non black man. That’s wasted energy. What can be gained out of depriving women of what they want?

I’m all about free will. Let people do what they wish to do and they can reap the consequences. I think black people have spent too much time trying to make things work. So break off for a bit date Becky or Brad and when it finally gets old. Maybe people will realize how and why things should be between black man and black woman. But that requires admitting wrongs. It probably wont happen.

I’m just washing my hands clean at this point. Black women, not that you needed my blessing or permission, but do what you want! Please date who makes you happy

 

[AJD]

Yea one thing for certain, black women are hella loyal to black men.

It's like most just can't take cacs seriously to actually date them

Meanwhile us brothers don't give a fukk we'll fukk with white black asian, Indian you name it

 

[Anerdyblackguy]

Yea one thing for certain, black women are hella loyal to black men.

It's like most just can't take cacs seriously to actually date them

Meanwhile us brothers don't give a fukk we'll fukk with white black asian, Indian you name it

This is not true at all.

 

[AJD]

This is not true at all.

It's true where I live at

 

[BlaqkSpliffin]

This threas should have been bushed because I already knew where it was going


I'll just say this....I don't give a fukk about the black women who IR date because they're pretty much all weirdos, emotionally traumatized, whitewashed, on some intergrationist bullshyt, or real talk...
If I really wanted that bytch I'd take her because I'm an educated handsome black man which means I do what the fukk I want

Would I want that chick? No, cause she's most likely corny as hell.

But all that apathetic, kumbaya shyt....naw. Do what you wanna do but at the end of the day this shyt is very black and white. Choose carefully.