Real Talk, the only kind of woman worth settling down with, is a "pick me."

[DON MA MA]

That's not what a pick me is.

But I know better than you. I believe women will do whatever it is they FEEL. If she feels like being a good woman she will. If she feels like being a bytch she will. Knowing that I choose to deal with women when and how I deal with them. I'm neither hate them or love them. I just accept women for who they are. If a dudes wants to have himself a shorty I'm all for it. Just get with someone that compatible to what it is you want to do.

That's exactly what that is or else we'd use the regular word "Traditional" or "Old school" woman. When i see people online refer to pick me chicks it's always some extreme bytch on youtube or on facebook saying what ever fantasy nikkas wanna hear.

Everything else you said i agree with. Which sounds like a regular chick.

 

[Dad]

We have to be clear on what a pick-me is

"I enjoy staying at home and doing housework instead of working in corporate America. I value my relationship with my husband and I agree with his decisions and trust his decision making. That works for me"

That isn't a pickme.

A pickme would be more like:

"I almost feel sorry for you stank hoes with no man. Real women wear makeup to look good for their man, and never ever talk back to him. You bitter bytches stay mad that a man wants a woman who ain't busted it open for the world to see or who ain't had trains run on her lol"

The issue is the pickme finds it necessary to shyt on other women to make themselves more interesting. Its the same as those simps who claim they are better men because they have no problem raising a kid who isn't theirs or they don't ask questions when a woman is gone overnight and doesn't tell him where she went.

Yup. The female equivalent of the “nice guy”

 

[HARLEM AL]

People are brainwashed into thinking that men gotta be slaves to p*ssy.

Well the Jedi Mind trick is women and even attractive women arent highly attracted to men who have control over their dikk and wont let them get away with bullshyt.

 

[DON MA MA]

Pick-me's sound good in theory. In the beginning, it starts off the way OP and others imagine it to be but in due time some of them become very controlling, obsessive, and potentially psychotic on some Glenn Close fatal attraction or Lynn Winfield shyt especially if you aren't returning that same kind of obsessive love and attention back.

We have to be clear on what a pick-me is

"I enjoy staying at home and doing housework instead of working in corporate America. I value my relationship with my husband and I agree with his decisions and trust his decision making. That works for me"

That isn't a pickme.

A pickme would be more like:

"I almost feel sorry for you stank hoes with no man. Real women wear makeup to look good for their man, and never ever talk back to him. You bitter bytches stay mad that a man wants a woman who ain't busted it open for the world to see or who ain't had trains run on her lol"

The issue is the pickme finds it necessary to shyt on other women to make themselves more interesting. Its the same as those simps who claim they are better men because they have no problem raising a kid who isn't theirs or they don't ask questions when a woman is gone overnight and doesn't tell him where she went.

Exactly. These dudes know the difference.

Aint nobody calling Old school Men simps. We don't conflate the 2. But they doing it with women smh

A traditional chick n a pick me ain't the same.

 

[AsTheWorldBurns]

You seem mad for me even making this topic.

Naw. Just a little sad at the insecurity that seeps thru your posts.

More focus on self improvement will boost your self worth, helping you attract better quality mates.

You don’t need to dig thru damaged women who only find validation in pleasing men. That’s not love.

 

[Wild self]

Well the Jedi Mind trick is women and even attractive women are highly attracted to men who have control over their dikk and wont let them get away with bullshyt.

And you read these hateful responses, right? Unplug yourself from the Matrix, and people gonna do their best to kill you.

 

[HARLEM AL]

That's exactly what that is or else we'd use the regular word "Traditional" or "Old school" woman. When i see people online refer to pick me chicks it's always some extreme bytch on youtube or on facebook saying what ever fantasy nikkas wanna hear.

Everything else you said i agree with. Which sounds like a regular chick.

Broads definitley be putting on social media and Youtube. Like that chick D'neka Marie. I dont trust anything that bytch says. it goes into one ear and out the other. I respect women like Love Dorsey though. She knows who she is and where she stands.

 

[Wild self]

Naw. Just a little sad at the insecurity that seeps thru your posts.

More focus on self improvement will boost your self worth, helping you attract better quality mates.

You don’t need to dig thru damaged women who only find validation in pleasing men. That’s not love.

I get high quality women. None of them on that BS of using men for their selfish agendas.

 

[Aceofspades404]

That never happens?

Because I'm a living testament of above average look in women giving me money cause they really liked me.

Go outside of America. They exist. And Even within America, they are cherished.

I'm not saying that it never happens. I'm saying women tricking on men isn't going to tip the scale in women's favor because history proves the opposite. I don't care how many dissertations that are written on this board, men by nature are hunters, providers, and protectors and there will never be a migration en mass to where the traditional roles of each sex are flipped.
A man might like taking advantage of the fact that a woman who is into him is tricking on him but trust and believe, he still has his eye on the girl that never lifted a finger for him.

 

[HARLEM AL]

Naw. Just a little sad at the insecurity that seeps thru your posts.

More focus on self improvement will boost your self worth, helping you attract better quality mates.

You don’t need to dig thru damaged women who only find validation in pleasing men. That’s not love.

I agree with this statement but I dont think just self improving will help. A nikka could self improve and slip right into the shyt he doesn't want to be in. nikkas are improving to get better bytches instead of improving to be a better man. which will attract better women.

 

[HARLEM AL]

And you read these hateful responses, right? Unplug yourself from the Matrix, and people gonna do their best to kill you.

I meant to put arent but you got what I was saying. In the middle of being a amazon warrior and the coli. Trying not to put the wrong thing in my cart lmaoooo

 

[HARLEM AL]

I'm not saying that it never happens. I'm saying women tricking on men isn't going to tip the scale in women's favor because history proves the opposite. I don't care how many dissertations that are written on this board, men by nature are hunters, providers, and protectors and there will never be a migration en mass to where the traditional roles of each sex are flipped.
A man might like taking advantage of the fact that a woman who is into him is tricking on him but trust and believe, he still has his eye on the girl that never lifted a finger for him.

I think the word tricking is whats bothering you but im going to stay my bytchass out of it lol.

 

[TNC]

Well the Jedi Mind trick is women and even attractive women arent highly attracted to men who have control over their dikk and wont let them get away with bullshyt.

Realest shyt stated here

 

[DaRealness]

Let's be real...."pick me" is just a slur these worthless bitter feminists use to attack feminine women who call them out on their bullshyt and hold them accountable. The same women they call "pick me" also call out men too.

Simps on the other hand NEVER call women out on their b.s. and tell them they can do no wrong and men owe them the whole world just because.

I'd like a traditional, supportive woman just like the next man, but I don't want a "yes woman" either.

 

[DaPresident]

I have a definition of a "pick-me" in my head. I agree with OP for the most part...I think a lot of his points were valid (I ain't into KS or whatever) and have solid merit.

Just so I'm clear, would a male "pick-me" be someone like Derrick Jaxon? That's what I imagine a male pick me to be (and yes I get the point, just getting clarification for myself)