Real Talk, the only kind of woman worth settling down with, is a "pick me."

[1LurkerChick9]

That never happens?

Because I'm a living testament of above average look in women giving me money cause they really liked me.

Go outside of America. They exist. And Even within America, they are cherished.

You don’t feel bad as a man accepting money from women?

That’s not a good look

 

[Wild self]

You don’t feel bad as man accepting money from women?

I'm not a bum and I don't depend on her, but I humbly appreciate it.

 

[Max Power]

A pick-me in 2021 is just a friendly and agreeable black woman who doesn't blame black men for all the ills in the world.

 

[Maximus Rex]

"pick me" women have no pride and I find that disgusting

 

[JT-Money]

@paperbag

 

[SNG]

She's not disrespectful as long as you are useful to her as a man.

They can't be both. Pick me is what some would say a traditional woman. It was coined as something negative by women to say to another woman. Why grown ass nikkas in here doing mental gymnastics about it I dont know. Stop believing it's about woman just being a servant to a man.

She will wash my clothes and she will cook for me sometimes. But if your on some shyt like women deserve to be in the kitchen shyt she may punch you in the throat. I don't think it's possible for a Western Woman to be fully Pick me and Traditional. They've grew up in the mindset of equality amongst both genders. Most Western females are feminist to a certain degree alot of them aren't toxic feminists. Which toxic feminists believe all men ain't shyt and all men are mysoginistic.

 

[Shadow King]

And, so? Should You give up altogether and settle for some goldigging broad?

There's a middle ground but really all women are gold diggers in some capacity/degree IMO. If you INSIST on women who are eager to go Dutch you will spend a lot of time without anybody. You may be the exception but the vast majority of men aren't enduring that path.

 

[MajesticLion]

Be wary of that "traditional" label. That's often a mask used to dodge responsibility for any kind of leadership missteps. Women have to live with the consequences of their choices like anyone else. They can be visionaries, be capable, communicate effectively and be responsible for aspects of relationships just as well as any...but there's no shortcuts, they're going to have to take the knots to the head the same way men do to earn their stripes.


Seek ye the balance.

 

[J.E.T.S]

A "pick me" black woman doesnt mind paying her own tab, doesnt seek clout on social media, and behaves respectfully.

damn. Where they at?!

 

[Coli Bot]

A man who finds a pick me... is like a woman who finds a simp.

They are the partners we strive to get and when you get one, congrats, you played the game well.

 

[seabreeze80]

Don't take these online labels seriously. B Simone was called a pick me recently but we all know the type of woman she really is.

 

[DapMeUp!]

What's a "pick me"

 

[Ezekiel 25:17]

It’s extremely rare, especially if she’s attractive.

Women have their own high payed jobs, why wouldn't they split the tab?

 

[CreepyMcCreeperson]

Women have their own high payed jobs, why wouldn't they split the tab?

If you want a submissive woman, you can’t expect her to pay. I still believe in traditional gender roles. I don’t expect a woman to be barefoot in the kitchen, but I’m going to pay for the dates.

The more money woman contribute, the more control they want. If you’re cool with that, fine.

I still open doors, and pay for dates. But I am very selective, and my current girl is worth it.

 

[paperbag]

@paperbag