Real talk. Why do some men try to befriend women?

[Gold]

I don't mind it


Nothing wrong with being friends as long as there is a mutual respect and understanding

I don't believe in being BEST friends with a woman. Thats reserved to my girl. I want to be best friends with my girl

But we can be cool. Ive actually had sex with friends and still been cool

Exactly, everyone fukks friends. Aint shyt platonic

 

[intruder]

I never understood why. Unless a woman is making me money and/or getting me pusssy from other women, I see no need to be friends. It doesn't add value. When sex isn't involved, we have nothing in common.

I have female associates or mutual friends I see every once in a while, but no real just platonic female friends.

I say this because recently this chick tried to friendzone me, but I let her know straight up I'm not interested and just want to fukk. She just wanted to be friends and tried to guilt me into it, so I deleted her number.

No time for that. It just doesn't make sense.

Do y'all have females that you are best friends with, but not trying to fukk?

I have about 10-12 male friends compared to probably 10 times that amount in female friends

Personally i find females more entertaining to be around than my fellow men. With my male friends all we can do is talk shyt about work, play ball and talk sports and talk about cars. And maybe music. Talking to females there is a lot more plus i love to hear their perspective on things.

And who says you cant fukk the females you're friends with? Sorry but i didnt get that memo
But dont get me wrong i have plenty of female friends ive never fukked. But I sure have fukked their friends tho

 

[Lady.Libra.]

If you have sexed a woman how can you consider her a friend? A friend doesn't know your body intimately, a friend doesn't know what turns you on, and a friend...nevermind.

Anyway, a balanced, well rounded individual should have (true) friendships with the opposite sex. Some of y'all behave like just because there's a hole then you must insert yourself into it.

 

[xXOGLEGENDXx]

If you look at a man's female "friends" they are all the type of women he would smash if given the chance.

 

[Gold]

If you have sexed a woman how can you consider her a friend? A friend doesn't know your body intimately, a friend doesn't know what turns you on, and a friend...nevermind.

Anyway, a balanced, well rounded individual should have (true) friendships with the opposite sex. Some of y'all behave like just because there's a hole then you must insert yourself into it.

I've never had an attractive female friend near my age where feelings start popping up. Either me, or her... Its just never happened for me. Ideals and reality are different



Having said that, i'll friend the hell outta some ugly women

 

[O.T.I.S.]

Exactly, everyone fukks friends. Aint shyt platonic

Lol I haven't fukked ALL my female friends even if I wanted to. It probably wouldn't be worth it in the long run anyway

But I think men/women can be cool. I just think they can't be close friends.

Thats women who usually try that bullshyt.

 

[Tenchi Ryu]

But I think men/women can be cool. I just think they can't be close friends.

Thats women who usually try that bullshyt.

That's the problem here...

Being cool, aka a decent associate is straight. Maybe even it kick it at some point....All coolio.

But like a legit friend, who know all my business as far as relationships? Nah.

 

[Aphrodite]

That's the problem here...

Being cool, aka a decent associate is straight. Maybe even it kick it at some point....All coolio.

But like a legit friend, who know all my business as far as relationships? Nah.

Yikes

 

[O.T.I.S.]

If you have sexed a woman how can you consider her a friend? A friend doesn't know your body intimately, a friend doesn't know what turns you on, and a friend...nevermind.

Anyway, a balanced, well rounded individual should have (true) friendships with the opposite sex. Some of y'all behave like just because there's a hole then you must insert yourself into it.

Lol because we still friends

We're not a couple, we're not fukk buddies. We're cool

Usually we're still friends because a relationship either couldn't happen or wouldn't be a good idea. But ive smashed many friends.. Not recently and even if we're single we can still hang out without sex

 

[Tenchi Ryu]

Yikes

It is what it is

 

[Lady.Libra.]

I've never had an attractive female friend near my age where feelings start popping up. Either me, or her... Its just never happened for me. Ideals and reality are different



Having said that, i'll friend the hell outta some ugly women

Wave, why must you misbehave?
You befriend an unattractive women and find yourself with a case of the hots. Caught with your boxers (You're stylish so that might be CK boxer briefs ) down around your ankles.

 

[Gold]

Lol I haven't fukked ALL my female friends even if I wanted to. It probably wouldn't be worth it in the long run anyway

But I think men/women can be cool. I just think they can't be close friends.

Thats women who usually try that bullshyt.

Hmmm..

I think the most important thing we need to do in this thread is define "friend"



I call my male friends over to watch football and talk shyt
If I call a single, attractive woman over to my place to watch sports 1 on 1, I give us till halftime before we fukkin

 

[Aphrodite]

Damn yall really do not have any boundaries at all.

 

[Tenchi Ryu]

Hmmm..

I think the most important thing we need to do in this thread is define "friend"

Bingo...

I don't use that shyt lightly....that's a lifelong bond for me.

 

[Tenchi Ryu]

Damn yall really do not have any boundaries at all.

Nah boundaries not the issue....its

Eventually feelings will be caught, every single time.

Two people moderately not ugly, a bunch of common interest....its bound to happen. Might not be on your part, but its likely one side gonna start feeling some type of way. We got a thread poppin RIGHT now of a chick saying a dude she didn't plan on hooking up with cuffing her.