Real talk. Why do some men try to befriend women?

Aphrodite

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Nah boundaries not the issue....its



Two people moderately not ugly, a bunch of common interest....its bound to happen. Might not be on your part, but its likely one side gonna start feeling some type of way. We got a thread poppin RIGHT now of a chick saying a dude she didn't plan on hooking up with cuffing her.
So basically women have a right to regulate and say that their men can't have female friends and it's not from actual insecurity. But y'all actually gonna fukk said female friends anyway? Makes sense.
 

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Got one that's cool. We ain't best friends.

Would I?

Yes, but nah.
 

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That's the problem here...

Being cool, aka a decent associate is straight. Maybe even it kick it at some point....All coolio.

But like a legit friend, who know all my business as far as relationships? Nah.
I dont tell my female friends about shyt anyway:mjlol:


Not unless they ask. One of my close female friends is married to my other friend. And we hung out all the time sometimes alone. She is like a sister though.

It would be foul af for us to do anything together and awkward as hell... on top of the fact I know their entire family.

Thats a rare situation though. I wouldn't recommend men and women being BEST friends but yall can be a lil more than cool. Most my other female friends are ex coworkers or random people i met and some i have smashed and we were still cool after. I would say most are more than just associates too. Like they've taken care of me when I was sick and shyt.

I dont like females that try to call you everyday and talk like youre in a relationship but dont want to be in a relationship. I don't need female friends like that.. Im not your gay BFF. But if you call to just hang out or come over to chill every once in awhile then cool
 

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Bingo...

I don't use that shyt lightly....that's a lifelong bond for me.

It's different for different folks. Not everybody has lifelong friends so their best friend might be somebody they met last year.

It just depends on the person and their history.
 

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Absolutely...

Once I'm in a relationship, female friends get bushed.

:yeshrug:

And brehettes on this board are gonna act like this is a bad thing. :comeon:

When in real life this is seen as a good thing by all women.


I get tired of you internet people sometimes... You say shyt on here that KNOW doesn't fly in real life
 

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Dead ass? You just cut them completely off?
Not gonna be on some "don't fukking talk to me" type shyt...I'm not cold like that. But this goes back to my associates thing. It has to stay casual...once convo starts to move into her asking questions about how me and my girl operating, time to dead the convo.
 

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Hmmm..

I think the most important thing we need to do in this thread is define "friend"



I call my male friends over to watch football and talk shyt
If I call a single, attractive woman over to my place to watch sports 1 on 1, I give us till halftime before we fukkin :francis:
I can:yeshrug:


I have actually hung out with females that I have and haven't had sex with solo if we had the same interest.

Whether it was a movie, tv show, sports, etc.

Its not impossible... Im just saying we cant be talking on the phone 24/7, going regularly, texting constantly, etc.


But every once in awhile hanging out and doing shyt either together or in groups is cool
 

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And brehettes on this board are gonna act like this is a bad thing. :comeon:

When in real life this is seen as a good thing by all women.


I get tired of you internet people sometimes... You say shyt on here that KNOW doesn't fly in real life
fukking your FRIENDS though lol yall talking about this so casually. It's not impossible to have friends of the opposite sex if you have willpower. Yall are not weak.
 
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