If I can't use you in any way, shape or form, then there's no need to keep you around. Especially women.
Because there is no real value in having a woman as a friend for us that we are attracted to, unless she is helping you make money or getting you women.I mean I get it. But the way yall look at friendships as being so disposable...it's scary.
Thats sad.Because there is no real value in having a woman as a friend for us that we are attracted to, unless she is helping you make money or getting you women.
Most younger men don't understand the value of time yet man. They think you can get it back. They don't mind spending night after night talking to "female friends" about their lame job and what they had for brunch.
I learned early on to let women know I am not looking for another friend. They respect that cuz we either take it to the next level or mutually part ways. I don't waste people's time so I expect others to not waste mine.
--Meant To saluteNot really. It's the truth. And when people begin to accept that, the easier their lives will be.Thats sad.
Sounds a bit extreme.If I can't use you in any way, shape or form, then there's no need to keep you around. Especially women.
Sounds a bit extreme.
Don't get me wrong, wall use each other. The trick is not to misuse someone.
No malice in your actions.


I guess it depends on the friends you have or the women you're around. If all the women you're around do is gossip I can see why you wouldn't want that crap in your life. It sucks the energy out of everything. The friends I want in my life are supportive, fun, engaging and add value to living, like moral support when life gets hard. If the women around you don't provide that for you there's nothing I can do to make you see otherwise because your reality is your reality.What does a women bring to my life if me and her are "friends". Usually when the same women get a man they usually disappear any. When they get a man you see what time of friendship you have with said wome .
I don't have female friend cause they don't bring much to my life I don't wanna hear about they shyt they going threw with men. I like it conversate cause it challenges my mind and cause me to look at something from a diffrent perspective. Women do a lot of gossip and talk about nothing. At 32 I'm just anal with my time.
Because you're male? Do you think they would give the same reaction if you were female?A real friend is someone who will help you in tough situations.
If I know I can't call you because my car broke down on the interstate, we're not really friends.
Most women you call to help you will straight up give you the
Just because we are not fukking doesn't automatically mean we are friends by default.
Regardless if they would if I was a woman is irrelevant. The fact is that they won't help you out in ways a friend would. Which is why having them as friends is useless.Because you're male? Do you think they would give the same reaction if you were female?
It does matter because how you are with people doesn't equate to how others are with them. Women may be more likely to help other women, especially if since their interests are more than likely platonic. My female friends help me move and I help them; they've taken off work and drove out to help when I was stranded in another state. They've cleaned house for friends who lost family. Depends on who you are around and your relationship with them. If the girls you know are aware that you aren't that type of person to want a friend like them, or they aren't the type of person who wants friends, or they know that you probably want something else from them, yeah to matters because they won't want to help you. Doesn't really have anything to do with being a male or female really. You just aren't around helpful peopleRegardless if they would if I was a woman is irrelevant. The fact is that they won't help you out in ways a friend would. Which is why having them as friends is useless.
I mean I get it. But the way yall look at friendships as being so disposable...it's scary.