Real talk. Why do some men try to befriend women?

morris

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Most younger men don't understand the value of time yet man. They think you can get it back. They don't mind spending night after night talking to "female friends" about their lame job and what they had for brunch.

I learned early on to let women know I am not looking for another friend. They respect that cuz we either take it to the next level or mutually part ways. I don't waste people's time so I expect others to not waste mine.
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I was raised by women do my tolerance is very high. But as I got older I saw how women actually once they get chosen. And the older I get the least patience I have with their nonsense. Time is truly of the essence, not money.
 
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Sounds a bit extreme.

Don't get me wrong, wall use each other. The trick is not to misuse someone.

No malice in your actions.

Extreme, but I can be honest about it.

Now don't get me wrong, if someone wants to befriend me, and wants to talk to me, cool. Ill be cordial about it, but am I going to go into my personal or business life, nah.

I don't got many friends, and the ones I do have got their purpose and I like it that way. :manny:
 

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A real friend is someone who will help you in tough situations.
If I know I can't call you because my car broke down on the interstate, we're not really friends.

Most women you call to help you will straight up give you the :usure:

Just because we are not fukking doesn't automatically mean we are friends by default.
 

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What does a women bring to my life if me and her are "friends". Usually when the same women get a man they usually disappear any. When they get a man you see what time of friendship you have with said wome .

I don't have female friend cause they don't bring much to my life I don't wanna hear about they shyt they going threw with men. I like it conversate cause it challenges my mind and cause me to look at something from a diffrent perspective. Women do a lot of gossip and talk about nothing. At 32 I'm just anal with my time.
I guess it depends on the friends you have or the women you're around. If all the women you're around do is gossip I can see why you wouldn't want that crap in your life. It sucks the energy out of everything. The friends I want in my life are supportive, fun, engaging and add value to living, like moral support when life gets hard. If the women around you don't provide that for you there's nothing I can do to make you see otherwise because your reality is your reality.
 

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A real friend is someone who will help you in tough situations.
If I know I can't call you because my car broke down on the interstate, we're not really friends.

Most women you call to help you will straight up give you the :usure:

Just because we are not fukking doesn't automatically mean we are friends by default.
Because you're male? Do you think they would give the same reaction if you were female?
 

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Regardless if they would if I was a woman is irrelevant. The fact is that they won't help you out in ways a friend would. Which is why having them as friends is useless.
It does matter because how you are with people doesn't equate to how others are with them. Women may be more likely to help other women, especially if since their interests are more than likely platonic. My female friends help me move and I help them; they've taken off work and drove out to help when I was stranded in another state. They've cleaned house for friends who lost family. Depends on who you are around and your relationship with them. If the girls you know are aware that you aren't that type of person to want a friend like them, or they aren't the type of person who wants friends, or they know that you probably want something else from them, yeah to matters because they won't want to help you. Doesn't really have anything to do with being a male or female really. You just aren't around helpful people
 

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certain women like to operate at a certain pace. you can't just get with a dime piece, get bwtn her legs and boom that's it. that' a primitive way of dealing with the opposite sex. you have to learn how to make a deeper connection with women/ you will be a better men for the effort
 
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