Real talk. Why do some men try to befriend women?

[Aphrodite]

Not gonna be on some "don't fukking talk to me" type shyt...I'm not cold like that. But this goes back to my associates thing. It has to stay casual...once convo starts to move into her asking questions about how me and my girl operating, time to dead the convo.

interesting.

 

[Gold]

Dead ass? You just cut them completely off?

So what do you say when your man hits you with that "Nah I cant chill with you today, me and [insert female friend here] have plans."



Come on

 

[Gold]

fukking your FRIENDS though lol yall talking about this so casually. It's not impossible to have friends of the opposite sex if you have willpower. Yall are not weak.

I dont fukk female friends anymore, cuz I dont have any.
I never approach a woman on some "lets be friend" tip.

I approach women I want to date. Otherwise I KIM

 

[Larry Lambo]

Over the years, I've had my fair share of fat/ugly female friends. It's hard not to be friends with unattractive woman because they are so nice and giving. After several instances I realized that their niceness was mainly due to them trying to put their bid in, so recently I haven't been as friendly with the ugmos

As far as being friends with attractive women, it really hasn't popped off. Either they didn't want to be my friend, or they were so wack as a buddy I pretty much dipped on them.

 

[Aphrodite]

So what do you say when your man hits you with that "Nah I cant chill with you today, me and [insert female friend here] have plans."



Come on

I mean I get it. But the way yall look at friendships as being so disposable...it's scary.

 

[Larry Lambo]

I dont fukk female friends anymore, cuz I dont have any.
I never approach a woman on some "lets be friend" tip.

I approach women I want to date. Otherwise I KIM

What if you meet a chick, who's below average lookswise, but has a ton of homegirls and invites you out to kick it with her crew?

You not gonna roll?

 

[O.T.I.S.]

interesting.

Women do the same shyt and usually supposed to

Unless we got mutual friends and i mean genuine FRIENDS then she supposed to bush most guy friends as well.

I bushed female friends with my ex (meaning casually chilling solo had to stop) but they understood... Just like I understand when it happens to me. Only if that person is a mutual friend is it ok to be hanging out solo

 

[Gold]

What if you meet a chick, who's below average lookswise, but has a ton of homegirls and invites you out to kick it with her crew?

You not gonna roll?

Ofc, but that doesn't make me her friend.

That just makes her a plug

 

[Aphrodite]

Ofc, but that doesn't make me her friend.

That just makes her a plug

Does she know this?

 

[O.T.I.S.]

So what do you say when your man hits you with that "Nah I cant chill with you today, me and [insert female friend here] have plans."



Come on

I did this to my ex

She wanted to be with me but still kick it with these random ass nikkas i didnt know too,


but once I started hitting her with that shyt back she was like and cut that shyt out immediately.

 

[Gold]

Does she know this?

Yes, i'm very blunt.

I used to not be, and it got me into so much unnecessary shyt in college.
I learned the hard way people will respect you if you just keep it 100 with them, even if you they don't like what you have to say.

 

[Youseenmywork]

Some men view women as humans who add value to life, a different type of energy to situations and a different input on experiences.

Where I'm at lots of men are platonic friends with women. We are just people at the end of the day.

What does a women bring to my life if me and her are "friends". Usually when the same women get a man they usually disappear any. When they get a man you see what time of friendship you have with said wome .

I don't have female friend cause they don't bring much to my life I don't wanna hear about they shyt they going threw with men. I like it conversate cause it challenges my mind and cause me to look at something from a diffrent perspective. Women do a lot of gossip and talk about nothing. At 32 I'm just anal with my time.

 

[Tenchi Ryu]

I learned the hard way people will respect you if you just keep it 100 with them, even if you they don't like what you have to say.

Yea this where I lost my "nice guy" card and start getting called a jackass on occasion.

But all 100% facts. You get to where you should be when you're 100% honest, no toe stepping or pump faking.

 

[Larry Lambo]

Ofc, but that doesn't make me her friend.

That just makes her a plug

Aiight.

If homegirl lace me up like that, she part of the squad.

 

[morris]

Reminds me of an old joke:

A female who says she just wants to be your friend is like and employers saying, "While you're highly qualified we are going to go with another candidate. However, will it be OK to call you former time to time to bytch about the decision we made?"---forget comic

And another joke:
"Having a female friendis like having $19 in your account and looking at your ATM card. Oh, you know it's there, you're just not getting to it."--Alonzo Bodden